Coach needed. Maybe. #helixtrident

Hey guys. I just ordered the helix trident (not syn). I’ve read so many things on Reddit any beyond about the aneros. And I feel like, I need someone, who has experience. Someone coaching me. Someone, I can talk about my experiences and who guides me – you know what I mean?

Do you think, a coach is helpful? Unnecessary? Good or bad?

And – even more important:
Is here anyone who would like to be my coach?
Thank you guys 🙂

Do you want to join some experiment?

I have some other band massager. And going th get a aneros.

Well I find that there is some way to massage.

I need groups of people using different skill. (I’ll told you what to do or you just select it freely then after some time just report it back.
If it get archived. You PM me and I open another post to record our progress.)

It’s basically the research of pressure.

I find when you have different **angle of body/thigh** then you get different pressure.

Because it will affect the tension of internal muscle. (Those muscle is around the prostate)

[https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png](https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png)

From those 3 position You can massage it very gentle(almost don’t move) / gentle to moderate / hard
Hard = use all your force but no need to over done. And it usually won’t last long because you will tired.

The position is also work for do nothing way. Because when you do nothing.
There still exist at least 3 very different pressure that mentioned above.

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It also work when you lie on your side.

Am I doing it right?

I recently purchased an aneros helix, and even going in knowing to not touch my penis, not expect anything mind blowing from the start I still want to check in if I’m on the right track. I’ve been putting it in with the bumpy side pointing towards the front of my body. Then I’ll just leave it for a little while to get used to it being inside me. I’ll do things to turn myself on (still not touching myself) then begin doing things to subtlety move the toy. I feel like I don’t get a lot of feeling from clenching, so I could use some advice on that. I think it feels best when lying on my side and grinding my hip into my bed. I feel like this causes a little bit of movement and I feel something but I’m still not sure I’m hitting the right spots. After doing that for a little bit I began feeling a very warm light feeling in my legs, and the ends ofy body but not very strongly in my torso or crotch. Sometimes my body would involuntarily clench on the toy as well.

This warm feeling would come and go for a few minutes but I had to stop not long after. When I finished I had a lot of precum in my underwear, do it was kind of thick but still clear. I’m writing this now a couple hours later and feel a little bit of soreness in my abs. How many times per day is it okay to use an aneros? What signs should I look for to tell me I’m on the right track?

Into the abyss!

I have found that there is a point in using the aneros where one must commit to the leap. I find riding the precipice of that abyss conceptually to be my most effective tool in engaging the prostate. Does anyone have any cool tips for making the leap?

I have been able to achieve super-o on occasion, but not reliably so. I have used the concept of riding the moment before you sneeze to some extent too, but any other thoughts that could aid in the leap would be excellent!

How to build p waves to an orgasm

So if the butterfly sensations in the prostate is the p-waves people are talking about, I can pretty consistently get it both Aless and with Aneros.

But are there any tips on how to build it up to an orgasm?
I’m so confused because I just end up getting P waves in more n more successive waves but they never build up to a full on orgasm.

Shaking, Humping, vivid images and colours in my vision, warming in my groin. Milestone moment. what next?

Used the helix triden syn for about a year now, I was really enthusiastic initially but after stalling my progress I just used it as a novelty during tradition masturbation for the last 6 months or so.

Fast forward to the last few weeks I decided to revisit a structured process and see if i could achieve any type of O from the Aneros alone.

I have a small window of opportunity bi weekly when i have 90 mins of quiet time every afternoon where i wont be disturbed , sitting in a chair with my feet up on my desk. ( yes at work 😉 )

Yesterday I decided that my choice of lube (kY) was probably holding me back and i wasn’t using enough, so armed with coconut oil and one of those syringes that you get with kids medicine I gave myself a 5ml dose and popped in the Syn.

Now normally I would relax and concentrate on my breathing and enjoy some involuntary flutters of my muscles, get sore or distracted at some point and relieve myself traditionally. This time however I really got into the grove and began having leg and stomach twitching while my interior muscles where really going crazy with out any input from me. After about 60mins i was really shaking and I had all sorts of vivid strange shapes and colors in my head as if i was seeing them through my shut eyes.

How do I know if my Aneros is a bit too short?

I bought a medium size toy instead of large toy. I am a fairly large person so is it possible my prostate is deeper than an average person? Medium is for 160 to 175 cm people and I’m around 175 cm.

Could the toy not being long enough be why its so difficult to get p-orgasms?

Keep in mind I am able to precum drip from my toy.

But, I’m curious

1. if a bigger size/length of the toy (getting the large size) would make the p-orgasms easier to achieve?

2. would the bigger length/size be a hindrance/hurt if it ends up being too big (so my toy size was correct in the first place?

Does anyone pulse their pc muscle?

I know that people contract their pc muscle but I was wondering the rate of the contractions. I found that quickly pressing the outside of my pc muscle got me close to orgasm, so I figure something similar would be helpful for the aneros. However in reality, it seemed like the rate might be too quick and I was focusing too much on the act of contracting. Also for those who pulse, how quickly and how hard are you contracting?