A reminder to everyone

Regardless of where anyone is on their journey I’d like to offer a suggestion that often helps me.

Always remember: you have only one assignment during an Aneros session. Your job is to FEEL.

I know that sounds silly but try it. Focus purely on how things feel moment to moment, good or bad. Pretend you are an experience machine and that your job is to not miss a single moment of this.

Remember, to feel well you must be soft and not clenched. Feeling releases tension.

Thoughts? 🙂

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Celebrate a Dallas Cowboys win…then do it again in the morning

So…I’m a huge Dallas Cowboys fan. We won our first playoff game in like forever. I was so stressed. After the wife retired for the evening I decided to decompress.

The session started with some Aless. My ramp up time is literally less than 5 mins now. 8 days of SR would do that. Initially I didnt want to incorporate any Aneros devices. I was getting such deep and penetrating Super-Os from this Aless session. This actually eventually turned into a calm seas series of orgasms. First time this has happened to me. The only thing tense on me was my cock…everything else went into this relaxed and purely tingling state. It was radiant. My eyes watered up a bit and it literally felt like I wanted to have a wet orgasm. After about an hour of this…I snuck into the room and got the eupho trident

Lubed that sucker up and literally laid down and didnt miss a beat. The eupho trident and my prostate basically hugged each other for the next hour. I barely had a single moment without orgasmic pleasure. My eyes would roll into the back of my head and I would see light flashes from behind my eyelids from the amount of pleasure.

Do you guys watch porn with the aneros in?

Its really hard for me to sit still for a long period of time and just do nothing, I usually get antsy and end up manually jerking off after about 30 minutes of having the aneros in. I would feel like watching a long porn movie with the aneros in would be a lot more exciting, but idk if this would ruin my mental state needed for super-o’s

“Which Comes First: The Arousal Or The Erection?”

Introduction
I have noticed lately that when I am wearing a “chastity cup” to bed at night, there is a certain period of time that I can experience and feel just prior to an erection. This is almost always un-stoppable. It is automatic and within a very short time, I feel my cock awakening and coming to life! I can feel it growing and throbbing into the cup. And voila’, I have my erection! At the same time, I feel a sudden surge of horniness. Is this normal? Let me explore it futher…

Analysis
The sexual response cycle in males and females follows a known, defined sequence: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Resolution. But there are no clear-cut “lines” or demarcations between each phase. Most of what I experience occurs during the Excitement and Plateau stages. Since I usually practice semen retention (SR), the Orgasm and Resolution stages are rather infrequent now. Thus, the Excitement and Plateau stages remain. And the Plateau stage (for me) has to be limited, since if I remain in the Plateau stage for too long, I will develop and experience the dreaded “blue-balls”. So my personal “arousal” now consists primarily of the Excitement stage.

Arousal
Most of the time now, my arousal occurs during the night when the nocturnal erections occur on a regular basis. As I said in the beginning, sometimes I can feel when this occurs. Other times, I am awakened by the erection. Either way, when the erection occurs, it usually lasts a while.

Rewiring A New Mindset and a Great Sex Position

I mentioned in an earlier post that the impact of rewiring on me has been too much to contain in one post. So I will insert posts every now and then that illuminate the magic that has occurred in my mind and body that is rewiring. Here is one of those posts.

As I mentioned in an earlier post sex for me was a penis focused activity until Aneros. With this penis focused orientation comes the physical – gender based imperative to be proactive when I fucked. It goes to reason that men have cocks, an organ designed to penetrate and women have cunts an organ designed to receive a cock. That imperative calls on a man to be the assertive protagonist in sex; women get fucked, men do the fucking. It is thrusting and probing and grinding and digital massage of clits and a lot more.

As a man I was programmed by this imperative to penetrate my wife with my cock and thrust in her cunt creating pleasurable feelings in my cock until those feelings reached a crescendo that caused me to ejaculate. That was sex for me. For her it involved a lot of oral enhancement to her clit before penetration to warm her up for orgasm. Like many women she has a longer fuse than I do.

New here

I just found the sub today and after reading a lot I need to join this club! What Aneros toy would be the best one to start with (I am not new to anal play but it has been awhile) ?

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Test-Driving the Progasm

I asked for advice about a larger Aneros. Varmint1234 explained differences between Progasm and Maximus, and I went with the former.

I bought a new Progasm and took it for a spin last night. The sensation of fullness and being stretched was amazing. It’s a little big for me yet, but the sensations against my prostate were amazing. I can keep quiet with my Helix, but it had me moaning when it started tapping my prostate. I started out doggy, with my ass in the air. My prostate got swollen from arousal and soon I could feel it pegging my gland. My dick started leaking and my nipples got hard and puffy. I notice since I started playing with my prostate, they’re hard and swollen most of the day.

I was watching porn and just paying attention to the sensations in my pelvis and perineum. Suddenly, I felt the ridged band of my foreskin becoming erect. The foreskin undergoes its own arousal and erection. I couldn’t keep my fingers out of the ridge on the top side of my cock (side closest my abs) and ended up stroking this. I find I can have multiple wet orgasms when I ignore the cockhead and focus on the ridged band and frenulum. I started stroking there and the Aneros started tapping my prostate because of my muscle spasms.

Wearing the Maximus

Friday afternoon I had the house to myself with a couple of honey do items my wife had left me and dinner plans that required me to leave my in about 3 hours. On top of this my prostate was begging for a session. I didn’t want to rush a session as those are generally more of a waste of time. I decided that I should go ahead and try make the best of the time I had. I figured I would try something new. My plan was this, assemble the shelving units in my living room, wearing my Andrew Christian Jock Strap,the aneros and a t shirt. To ensure I stayed aroused mentally I put on some girl on girl porn on the tv. I went ahead, prelubed and slid in the Maximus. The fullness felt great and my prostate could tell it was there without any kegals. I went ahead and put the jock on and tucked my man parts into the pouch. Anytime I use this jock in a session it is always better. Probably because the pouch in the jock lifts and supports everything while creating some added sexual tension. Going about my work I was kneeling most of the time facing the tv. As I assembled the shelving units I could not help but notice how great and distracting my prostate was becoming. I had me session afterwards and it was really one for the books.

5 Years In

As I entered my fifth year of Aneros use, I was a totally rewired man. My cock focused sexuality was now whole body focused. Anal – non ejaculatory orgasms became my primary source of sexual pleasure. Given a choice I preferred anal induced MMO to ejaculation. I have always loved cunnilingus, but now making oral love to my wife became a fixation. I was addicted to pleasuring her with my mouth. I developed a craving for the taste of her grool. A prolonged session of foreplay and having her participate in my Aneros insertion juiced her vagina and made the sap of her passion run from her pussy mouth.

Rewiring also amplified my exhibitionistic tendencies and my sense of sexual adventure. In daily life I loved showing my package off; wearing clingy pants and a “banana hammock” displayed the bulge in my pants unashamedly. I loved seeing girls looking at it. It needs to be noted that I am a hard person not to notice. I am 6 foot 6 inches tall and a lean muscular 220 lbs. I have a shaved head and a thick mustache. My 8.5 inch penis in a pouch that thrusts it out is hard to miss on me.

Eupho Trident…I think I love you…

@SOwithoutAneros…I just dont know what to say about this “noisy cricket”.
There are simply no words to describe what I just experienced.

Ever since last night I’ve been kind of buzzing. Even though last night’s session was rather pleasing…the level of intensity and unrelenting ecstasy wasnt always there. The Eupho Trident brought acute resolution to that tonight.

My Supple Nips arrived yesterday therefore today I decided to start my nipple training. I watched a youtube video to gather what I needed…put a dab of vaseline on both of my nips and boom. Had a nice 20 minute training session. While I was doing that I was just laying down enjoying some aless. It wasnt too long before I was rock hard and getting nice pwaves. The Alexa alarm went off signifying 20 mins was done. I looked at the clock….633pm EST. The wife is set to get off of work at 7pm. Would it be a waste to go into an Aneros session for 30 mins?

Oh hell it wasnt.

I went to my drawer…pulled out the Eupho Trident…lubed it up and stuck it in. Turned off the lights and shoved a pillow under my buttocks. Almost immediately this thing began to dance and then slowly autofuck me. I was shirtless with just some shorts on and I was in pure heaven.