Tag: Breathing

In a rut

So, i’ve had my Helix Syn for a month and a half now. I know it’s not long but i feel i am in a bit of a rut and am finding it hard to get out of it.

My routine consists of cleaning myself out, inserting two small syringe worth of water based lube and then lubing up the Aneros.

Once inserted i don’t do anything for about 20 minutes or so. Mostly just watch some porn and focus on my breathing.

During this phase i do feel some quite subtle, nice, sensations. They come and go, seemingly of their own free will, not something i feel i can control.

After about 20 minutes i start clenching my ass and moving the Aneros in and out. I switch between clenching reasonably hard and releasing and then holding at about 50% for a while. After a while i just get bored and loose interest.

I usually experience some pre-cum flow but nothing out of the ordinary.

I know patience is key and my experince is no different from a lot of others who have gotten frustrated.

But i would really like to achieve at least another milestone, just to keep me interested.

You guys have any pointers for me?

More Milestones reached – the pleasure is getting stronger and stronger

I thought I would share some more of my experiences thus far. I have found the Wiki referred throughout this site, an extremely helpful guide and I would not have discovered this amazing wealth of pleasure without it, or the many posts on this site.

Although I have always enjoyed the pleasures of shoving things up my bum, I did not really know how deep the pleasure could go. I used to masturbate while objects were there. I knew there was pleasure in anal play, I knew about the nerve endings and the Prostate. But I did not know my body could be taught to ‘rewire the circuitry’ to achieve such amazing pleasure.

My journey started a few months ago when I decided to buy some sex toys. I had always wanted to buy these things but I was too embarrassed and didn’t really know where to get started. The change for me came when my wife was planning a business trip away for a few nights. I organised one of those Postal delivery services so I could go on-line, order what I wanted and have it waiting at the post office rather than delivered to my home. I was all set, so I went on-line and purchased a few toys – I chose the cheaper rubbery things and a plastic prostate massager – it looked like an Aneros but it wasn’t a genuine one. The stuff arrived and my wife went on her trip and I started to play. Read more »

Thursday morning session, 8/25/16 ; Oh, the sweetness and power found in Aneros sessions, Aless and the Kegels!

Hi guys,

Like I said in yesterday’s blog post, I engaged with my Aless along with several sets of Kegels that felt more and more pleasurable as I continued to do them, along with sheer sexual power. This happened on a city bus on a way for business that I would hope would continue for much of the day, but didn’t. So I arrived back home before 10 a.m. and sat immobilized at my PC dazed just thinking what happened on the bus and occasionally performing sets of Kegels.

Last night, I went to bed at the usual hour and slept reasonably well. However, I woke up this morning at 3 a.m. and listened to programs on my walkman radio. I also did more sets of Kegels of many types and was getting more and more turned by them.

Finally I had an early morning session at 5:30 a.m. this morning with MGX, Maximus, and Progasm Ivory which lasted about 1.25 hours. MGX really performed well this morning, especially when I laid on my right side and let him do his own thing. MGX massaged my anal canal/musculature and prostate in amazing new ways. When I withdrew MGX, I had a delicious, plump, semi-hardon! Maximus and Progasm Ivory also performed well, but they seemed anticlimactic compared to MGX. I engaged Progasm Ivory in several sets of direct Kegels which caused a copious ooze of precum from my dick Glans meatus! Read more »

Tuesday morning session “quickie” 8/23/2016 ; Kegels do work! Yeah, especially with Aless! *

Hi guys,

Last night we had a low of 64 here, so different from weeks of heat and humidity, when we have lows in the 70’s even low 80’s in high summer here. So I slept reasonably last night, but even if these days the sun rises at 6:30 a.m., I get up early because I live the life of a disciplined retired scholar/librarian.

I decided to have a session this morning because early tomorrow Wednesday I appointment away from the apartment. So I brought out in order my favorite Aneros tools: MGX, Helix Classic, and Maximus. I love the ribbed action of MGX, the direct, fairly aggressive action of Helix Classic, and the penetration that Maximus gives me. This morning I allowed these three models to work for me, although I did perform sets of Kegels on them. The session only lasted about an hour.

The directions for use of either Pro-State Massagers as manufactured by High Island Health, Inc and the Aneros massagers as manufactured by Aneros, Inc. suggest sessions two or three times a week, 20-45 minutes per session.
New Aneros users may require sessions that last even longer. I am try to shorten my sessions gradually. It is difficult to do that when sessions are so laden with desire.

Oh, I so want to get the Classic Aneros from the Original Aneros product line as advertised on #FlashbackFriday on Aneros.com! I wonder if the Classic Aneros model is the first Aneros model so marketed. It is actually the Pro-State PS-New manufactured by High Island Health, Inc. of Houston, TX. http://www.highisland.com/detail.php?categoryid=1&productid=2 Read more »

Jock pouch foreplay ; Super hot Monday morning session, 8/22/16 ; Noontime Bating/Session Climax *

Hi guys,

Boy, was I super sexed for this morning’s session! Yesterday, being Sunday, I pretty much from things with Aneros, except I was still savoring the very strong Aless achieving from Saturday afternoon’s session. I went to bed at the usual time just 10 p.m., last night, and slept reasonably well. But just past midnight, I slipped on an All-Star “Shock Jock” Cup with supporter combo, clearly one the most comfortable jocks and cups on the market. The last few weeks, I like to slip one on at night and Kegel in it at night. Such action makes me feel secure and enables me to sleep like a baby. Then I couple hours late, I took it off and slipped on a BIKE no. 10, men’s large jock for more sweet Kegeling and more blissful sleep.

I finally awoke in the 5 o’clock hour and arose at 5:30. Before bathing, shaving, and dressing for the day, I had a big BM. Underneath my cargo shorts, I donned a BIKE no. 10 men’s medium jock which holds my genitals perfectly. I got some breakfast 7 Eleven. It was refreshingly cool, with blue skies of the approaching sunrise and a waning gibbous moon high in the southwest sky. The fresh cool air is a harbinger of cooler days ahead. I felt horny in my jock and exulted in its tight pouch as I Kegeled during my errand. Read more »

“Back In The Saddle Again”

An unexpected Super-O! Here’s how it happened……

Following the 21-Day Challenge which ended for me on Day 14, I thought I would have a significant refractory period. Perhaps for ejaculation, but apparently not for prostate orgasms! Let me explain……

I awoke fairly early with a rock-hard erection. It honestly felt like I could be headed for an involuntary ejaculation so I placed a towel again beneath my boxers and laid back down. In a little while, I decided to “dose” again on the prostate health binaural which I like. I continued to feel an incredible pulsing in my prostate and continued this for probably 35 minutes or so. I then switched to some relaxing but erotic lounge music. I still had the towel beneath my boxers and it seemed perfectly fine to start a fantasy…….I am with a female companion and she begins to caress all the erogenous parts of my body, especially my underarms, nipples and scrotum. My penis was not particularly aroused at this time. I remember her saying to me that “we have all night” with regard to the tantric cuddling! Since I already had a towel present, I didn’t have to worry about anything! Following about 30 minutes of cuddling, I felt ready and aroused enough to continue this “session” upstairs in my bedroom. Not knowing what to expect, I laid a large towel across the bed, lubed-up the helix, “mounted it” and started this session. I laid down on my right side initially then quickly moved over onto my stomach which felt better. I decided to start this session with a “do-nothing” approach. Read more »

Bating and edging preludes ; Awesome Saturday session ; Amazing Aless following!

Hi guys,

I arose just before 6 this morning, Saturday July 19 and have been bating and edging for nearly 2.5 hours! Wow, I guess I am turning into a horny goat! Also during this period of time, I have been during “innumerable” sets of Kegels of various strengths and durations. What I discovered for sure is that the musculature “down there” is certainly elastic! I have to go out in a few minutes to run a couple errands, but hope to continue bating and edging at times later today and I have a session to round out the week! (composed at 8:30 a.m.).

11:03 a.m. Returned from my errands around 10 o’clock, stripped naked, and started bating and edging since then off and on, among other things, like shaving my nuts! 🙂

12:41 p.m. I spent about thirty plus minutes composing an e-mail of helpful information on the Anerosing to an Aneros newbie. Now I am Kegeling in a trusty BIKE no. 10 jock and caressing my erogenous zones in my cargo shorts and UA T-shirt! I savored the Kegels and my caresses all the same during this chat nonetheless. It was just part of my extended foreplay.

3:30 p.m. Aless sweetness revved up many fold after today’s Aneros session which began at 2 p.m. For an hour or so, I chatted with some guys in Aneros chat, especially a hot Texas who uses Helix Classic and Progasm Classic. Read more »

One Step Closer – Involuntary Convulsions.

Since my Progasm Ice arrived 10 days ago, I haven’t really slept that much. Every night, starting around 11:30, I have inserted the beast and tried for the Big O. I know I am not supposed to chase it, but I can’t help myself. Reading all the experiences on this site have made me determined to try. So, I insert it every evening, I have practiced the breathing and PC muscle contractions – this I have learnt to do now and my muscles down there seem strong and responsive. I usually leave the Progasm in all night, which causes me to wake up several times and start the PC exercises again.

A few days ago, I left work early and went home. As I was alone with several hours up my sleeve, I thought I would do everything right. I bought a douche when I purchased my Progasm, along with some gel type lube. I had never used a douche before and found the experience interesting, but I was nice and clean. I lubed out, syringing heaps right up in-side me. I inserted the Progasm and spend several more hours, learning and enjoying – but no Big O.

Last night I continued again, lots of lube, (I am still clean from the douche a few days ago). I have read on this site by many successful members, that the Big O usually follows the anal muscles doing involuntary contractions and that this is out of the persons control – like the body takes over and knows what it needs to do. I had not experienced this, so last nights mission became – ‘I want to experience Involuntary contractions”. Read more »

Exciting progress!

Hi!

I’ve been using my aneros infrequently for the better part of three years now, with nothing much to show.

Last night, I let go of my expectations and remembered ‘to smell the flowers along the way’. This got me places I have never been before!

I didn’t orgasm, but I felt really warm inside, as if my whole body was snuggled up tight to a warm body, and I could definitely feel sexual, pleasurable energy flowing through me at the time – however I lost focus.

Here’s what I did:

– Smoked
– Inserted Progasm with some olive oil lube (I don’t have anything else atm)
– I lay on my side with my penis tucked behind me so it wasn’t touching anything
– I started a breathing pattern I’ve never tried before. I made sure to avoid contracting if at all possible, and stayed as relaxed as possible. Went something like this: breathe in – deeply and slowly, while focusing on feeling my prostate and the sensations that came with breathing deep, hold while slowly tightening my abdominals, and release slowly while contracting abdominals.

This repeated pattern of breathing and feeling got me further in ten minutes than I had been in the past two years! I felt as though I were about to leak fluid, but I never did. As the pleasure built, so did my excitement, and I think this is where I messed up. Read more »

“Semen Retention: A Blogger’s Perspective”

Since I am really getting into semen retention (but still have a long way to go!), I am continuing to read about it. One blogger (OldChi) on ‘The Dao Bums’ posted this blog back in 2012. It is an interesting read and I will post it here in my blog. [My Note: He accomplished 100 days of SR and “jing” refers to semen.]
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“I accomplished the 100 days of conserving Jing and thought i would share my experiences on what i feel to be a very beneficial practice. Note this post is directed towards men, i have no experience of conserving jing as a women…at least in this life.

There are three possible outcomes of Jing conservation.

1. You give in to fantasies and release your Jing…thus failing
2. You become a very angry and irritable person for 100 days
3. You become a Dynamo of energy and grow in strength and power in every area of your life

I have experienced all three of these outcomes when i attempted to conserve Jing in the past. Therefore there are 2 qualities that are required to conserve Jing successfully: Mental Clarity and Emotional Stability. Both qualities are complementary to each other.

If you do not have Mental Clarity then you will lose to your fantasies. If you do not have Emotional Stability then you will end up getting very angry and saying and doing dumb shit. Being grounded is very important in this practice. Read more »