Tag: Concentration

Helix Syn Trident advice

I’ve been periodically into prostate play for about 15 years. Up until recently, I thought the key was a good vibrating toy. However, I learned the reason I never went over the edge is due to the intensity and practically numbing the area. I’ve used toys before like the Helix Syn Trident, but not as high of quality.

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I’ve tried it several times now for varying lengths of time….I can barely feel anything. I have to really concentrate and do a ton of kegels before I even begin to feel something pleasurable. What am I doing wrong? Is there another aneros that I should be using instead?

Any help is greatly appreciated!

I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…

So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.

I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.

Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.

Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?

Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?

Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.

**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.

All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation! Read more »

SPINNING OUT?

Ok so iv ben using the aneros syn and the aneros eupho trident models for the past four weeks and not getting much result. Last night i tried a different approach and decided i would try and meditate while using the eupho. As i was concentrating i did notice that what i was feeling was subtle but good. In that deep relaxed state i was in i suddenly got the sense i was floating on a cloud and didn’t feel like i was grounded. And that’s when the spinning sensation started. It was very violent feeling and kinda scary. It felt lile my body was rapidly spinning backwards through the air changing directions and constantly falling. I thought i was gonna have a brain anurysm or something and stopped feeling a little nausiated. I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience? Is this a normal to exoerience on the journey?

Wet Hands Free Orgasm

I’m well into my prostate play journey, I achieve what I believe to be DHFO on a fairly regular basis when I play, not sure if I’ve hit the super O just yet but I’m sure it will come.
One thing if noticed is that most of the time when I’m playing, I’m not hard. Everyone now and again however when I play, I’ll get a building feeling, my heart will start to race and I get hard very very quickly, it feels like an orgasm is building in the more traditional way and that if I were to orgasm, I would ‘cum’, is this typical for a wet HFO?
I think I end up losing concentration when it happens as it usually ends up fading away. Does anyone have any tips in achieving wet HFO?

Just had a hands free dry O in my van at work!

I was reading some posts on here trying to get inspiration, I’ve had success in the past with my syn achieving dry O’s. I felt the odd throb and decided to do some kegels, I concentrated on the circular rhythm and it built and I got there. No toys or porn just concentration all in the space of about 10mins. I’m still chasing that wet hands free orgasm which I crave and of course the super O but thought I’d share.

I think I am getting close. Need some advice

I have been using Aneros on and off for a couple of years now. I have been really close for a year now (I guess) but I have not made it yet. I still have some fun s and each session is a pleasant experience. I have the Helix Syn and the Eupho trident right now. My default position has always been on my back with the legs close to my knees. Since I haven’t been close recently, I thought I would try laying on my side.

So, last night I took a warm shower and slid in the eupho. I was just relaxing and listening to some GW audio. I could suddenly feel my prostrate (or at least something down there) buzzing and feeling warm. I kept concentrating on that and suddenly my body went into a series of convulsions. I let them go over me and would relax my muscles and the next one would hit. I had that happen around 7-8 times before it subsided. While this is similar to how a lot of people would describe the super O, it didnt feel that pleasurable. So I would like to know if that was the super O or if I should be doing something when the convulsions start. Thanks for any feedback.

Do nothing or do light contractions?

Been using the helix syn a few times now with little progress, and it seems the more I ask the more confused I get. People have told me to do light contractions about halfway and hold, though I will do that for 20 minutes and barely feel anything. Others tell me to simply do nothing and let the aneros work its magic, though I’m not sure if that can happen if I do nothing right from the start, and as far as I know the only involuntary contractions I have had only lasted for a few seconds when I started to feel a sort of tingling feeling coming from my prostate (whatever you want to call that). It then subsides and nothing happens. I also noticed if I push the aneros closer towards my stomach when I breath in I get a sort of warm fulling feeling in my stomach, but it’s only very minor and brief because I have to hold my breath and concentrate hard for that to happen. I think I might try the do nothing approach from the start, I just need some relaxing audio or something perhaps. Can anyone give me some tips for someone who is confused as to what I should be doing to make progress?

Recognizing a prostate orgasm?

I’ve had an Aneros — one of the basic models — for years now, but I’ve generally only used it when I’m doing things with my wife. I finally decided “What the hell” and tried giving the HFO a shot.

Until last night, I’ve not had much luck. I’ve been practicing my muscle control but it’s still very difficult for me to clench in a gradual and controlled fashion. It feels nice, but it doesn’t do much beyond that. Plus, for some reason it’s sometimes difficult for me to remain hard when I’m being penetrated: I have to be *very* turned on for that, and concentrating on the aneros makes it difficult to maintain that level of arousal.

But last night, I put it in early and left it in place for an hour or two ahead of time. We had some pot last night, and I was feeling nice and relaxed, and was in just the right mind space to keep myself good and hard. And then something happened. I was convulsing a little, making noises that I don’t normally make, but it didn’t feel…orgasmic. It felt really good, but not nearly at the level of a full-blown orgasm. Nor was it as satisfying as a regular orgasm, not by a long shot.

So, not sure. Am I on the right track, do you think? And what can I do to achieve something better?

14 month Journey… but tonight was the first Hands Free Super O

It’s been one hell of a journey. I didn’t think I would ever get there and at times have been on the brink of throwing it away and giving up! I likely tried a minimum of 2 to 5 times a month each month for that long! I had some weed tonight though…. not the first time with weed to at least try to achieve, but on weed just the same. I can’t describe what happened except to say that my whole body lost control, and the waves of pleasure just about put me through the roof. Largest spasms of my life, and dry like they say…. I didn’t think it was possible.

It was like I was just in a whole other world…. I relaxed more and more and more in my recliner gently girating my hips and flexing around the toy. All of a sudden I was slowly shaking…. and I couldn’t control it. Then it was like my whole body exploded as I was shaking violently. I spent the session strongly concentrating on the feeling of my Helix Syn rubbing on my prostate…. and I mean strongly concentrating on just feeling the rubbing only without thinking about having a wet orgasm…. all I can say is OMG. I ended the evening with three Super O’s tonight…. I just kept having more after the first one. Shit I’m getting horny just typing this out right now. I might have to go start all over again!