Tag: Do nothing

Why are my dry orgasms so rare?

I think my blog posts are gone but it doesn’t matter 🙂
I’m 32 year old from Portugal with very little sexual experience (just been with other men occasionally and curious to be with a women but in general much less interested in women).

In super resume I’ve had aneros for 8 years now and I’ve got dry os but very rare, and never got a super o.
Some sessions I had in the last week kinda exemplify what I was able to get with aneros and how I think I have much to evolve.

In general my aneros sessions are pretty uneventful.
They generally take 3-4 hours (I use do nothing), and I can get some background pleasure but it generally don’t evolve much.

It’s extremely common however for me to quickly (especially if I just take a quick look at porn or just sexual images) start having some rhythmic movements of the aneros and my dick, because it’s hard when this happens. There rhythmic pulses are pleasant but I won’t call them pleasurable, because they’re just “nice” and nothing special.
Like I said this is extremely easy to get, but also they do pretty much nothing. Read more »

Progasm Night!

Last night, the tool I chose for my second session of the week was my Progasm Ice and boy was that a good choice! Once inserted, it went to work immediately giving me waves after waves of pleasure that rendered me into a state of total bliss.
For me, the ‘do nothing’ method does absolutely nothing. On the other hand, as soon as I start diddling my nipples, I’m catapulted into the aforementioned state of bliss.

I’m not sure which one I will select for tonight’s session but my body usually whispers a suggestion just before the event.

Happy vibes to everyone.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

from “Do Nothing” What does that mean?

Hi Guys,

Frequently mentioned on this forum is the “Do Nothing” method but what does this really mean? It doesn’t mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized or asleep. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.

From the Aneros WIKI The “do nothing” technique is mostly for the Aneros only. The idea is to dispense with thinking about holding contractions, controlling your breathing, conscious relaxing, or anything else for that matter, in favor of just lying there and letting the pleasure and Aneros do their thing. This technique is probably best after you have at least started feeling pleasure from the Aneros.

I’d like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic (or mixed rhythmic/static) contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of “erogenous hot spots”. These are what constitute very active approaches. Read more »

SR #7 OK session – MB

No meditation to start, it did not seem to hurt or help my session. Lots of warm fuzzy all over feelings, pretty good pleasure from my nipples. After about an hour or so I rolled over and tried to do nothing, focus on the music. I seemed to want to move the Aneros some. I rested a while doing little moving to nothing. Then moved and tried different positions, my arousal built at this time. Then a new track came on, my native american track and I immediately got really horny. I did some fantasizing about Indian maidens watching me and slowly disrobing. I got pretty hot. When I realized I was tensing, and (maybe chasing?) I tried to slow down and relax, but that seemed to take the edge off my arousal.

Maybe my arousal is still wired to the traditional penile orgasm of building to a conclusion. But I am working on it and being aware of these things are good. I tried to go on a “balloon” ride, going along and having no idea where I am going. Some pretty amazing feelings, lots of arousal, up and down like waves. “General pleasure throughout session” I have not had an erection since the first one or two times.

Ended with masturbation.

subtleties of prostate stimulation

New tools teaching me the intricacies and subtleties.

In my last blog post I mentioned getting some new pleasure tools. I have been having lots of fun with the Njoy large plug. this thing just sits on my prostate giving me the pressure I require without interaction since I’m a do nothing guy (but that is now changing because of these new tools) inducing some wonderful feeling orgasms. These ‘o’s are different but also the same from the ones I experienced from using an aneros product. I also love the fact that I can join in the am and go about my day feeling a constant stimulation of my anal canal and lower prostate area, gets me and keeps me aroused almost the entire time I’m moving.

I think the biggest take back is since these new tools are so unforgiving on the body if used to aggressively, I am really starting to become more mindful of the subtlety of prostate massage. When using any of my lovers and doing clenching (kegels or some type of muscular interaction) I would get overzealous without even knowing it thus chasing away the pleasure I was seeking because I had no feed back if you will, I couldn’t feel it moving inside me until an orgasm had started. Using the new tools force me to pay more attention to what and when I actively do something since I got overzealous one time using the Pfun and became fairly sore. The large seems to return a light feed back to me letting me learn the light touch required. Read more »

Just a little heart broken

So after realising weed and poppers were a short cut to the Super O I’ve been working on calming techniques and recently managed several super O’s with just meditation breathing and the do nothing technique… I was thrilled and amazed. Ok it takes longer than vaping a little weed, but it’s awesome to do this stone cold sober.

And now my wife say’s she finds the whole thing ‘ick’ and thinks I don’t want her. Which is odd given we still have an active sex life and she’s previously been supportive of my quest or at worst neutral. Kind of sucks to find someone you hoped to share this with finds something so wonderful (to me) ‘ick’.

So we’ve talked. At length. She isn’t asking me to stop. But she doesn’t want me doing it when she’s home (which is a major block on play time as she’s almost always home). She doesn’t want me to talk about it either.

I view this as controlling behaviour and while I am not angry at her I am deeply saddened by her U turn. And quite hurt. I really don’t want to wind up resenting someone I’ve given 20 years of my life to – and I also don’t want to give up Prostate orgasms. Read more »

I was so close…

I have tried all kinds of toys over the years to get the super-o, all except aneros. I ordered helix trident today and wanted to use my lelo loki as a prostate massager as I was waiting for the post office to deliver my new aneros. Usually I use the vibrations but they don’t give me much feelings so I decided to just leave the vibrator in and “do nothing”. As i was laying on my back loki pressing on my prostate I remembered what I had read about nipple stimulation here. I started touching my nipples and insantly I felt this warmth and pleasure in my thighs and lower abodmen, it felt like originating from my prostate. I listened to binaural beats and I almost felt like in a trance, I could picture my prostate pulsing in my mind like it was a visual show in my minds, pulsating warmth and pleasure from the base of my penis. I had some contractions but after some time I couldn’t just get over the edge. I didn’t get the super-O but I had that promising feeling I’m getting close. I’m excited for my new aneros. BTW my nipples got really sore and the skin around them startedt to get red and painful, even tho I used lube. I quess I need to be more careful with them xD.

Do you want to join some experiment?

I have some other band massager. And going th get a aneros.

Well I find that there is some way to massage.

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I need groups of people using different skill. (I’ll told you what to do or you just select it freely then after some time just report it back.
If it get archived. You PM me and I open another post to record our progress.)

It’s basically the research of pressure.

I find when you have different **angle of body/thigh** then you get different pressure.

Because it will affect the tension of internal muscle. (Those muscle is around the prostate)

[https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png](https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png)

From those 3 position You can massage it very gentle(almost don’t move) / gentle to moderate / hard
Hard = use all your force but no need to over done. And it usually won’t last long because you will tired.

The position is also work for do nothing way. Because when you do nothing.
There still exist at least 3 very different pressure that mentioned above.

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It also work when you lie on your side.

Whoa, what was that?

So I put my Progasm in for the first time in weeks and was feeling super horny.

I’ve heard so many of you guys take about the “do nothing” method, so I tried it. After about half an hour, it did start to feel like my whole pelvic region was throbbing. My penis was involuntarily jerking back and forth.

I was on my back and it started to feel really good. Then I got the idea to flip myself over onto my stomach. I had laid a towel down so I could enjoy the experience without worrying.

I felt this rush come on and although I’m quite embarrassed about this part, I’ll say it anyways – I kept calling myself a slut under my breath. Over and over. It was so hot. I started grinding my dick into the bed and it felt so fucking good. I was bucking my hips and definitely felt like I was reaching some sort of sexual peak. Once this wave of pleasure passed, another one started without warning. “You’re a slut.” Same thing, reaching a crescendo.

I was thinking, “I just came for the first time ever. Apparently once you start, they keep coming.” So I kept grinding and waiting for the next one, imagining myself in the throes of pleasure for the next few hours.

Then, nothing else came.

Do you think I had my first prostate orgasms? I’ve never so distinctly felt two separate waves of pleasure come on the way they have tonight. Read more »