My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN (follow-up)

I had not made a lot of progress since my last post until very recently. I decided to write a follow-up for people who are interested in other guy's experiences.

Frustrating sessions

After my last post I was fairly confident to make a lot of progress in my next sessions. But I was wrong about that. I had problems getting a tug-of-war going. The binaural beats did help, but I lost my concentration easily. I knew that I was trying too hard. I did the exact same things in my last sessions and expected some kind of breakthrough moment and never-ending pleasure. It was quite frustrating. But I was more frustrated about my high expectations than the lack of progress. I stopped using my Aneros for two weeks.

Two nice sessions on the same day

I had a cold and a bit of time on my hands. I spend some time watching porn without jerking off and thought about using my Aneros again. As soon as I was feeling much better, I started a session. But this time I did a few things differently. Read more »

I didn't wear a jockstrap. In my early sessions I was often distracted by my penis and pre-cum. When my penis was rubbing on my stomach it sometimes felt like jerking off. The pre-cum didn't help. I tried to avoid penile stimulation by wearing a jockstrap. For some reason I was confident to not get distracted by penile stimulation this time. I would just try to focus on anal stimulation.

Trouble getting aroused with Aneros (Helix)

Ok, so this seems to be my biggest issue or blocker. I am comfortable with it but any erection soon goes away. There's a short period of time when Aneros itself can get me hard and going but then it stops working.

I had some successes but they are quite elusive even when I do the same things. I had a pretty good series of P-waves (early in the session), this was what I was going after when I discovered it with another toy. Most notably I had woken up to a REM sleep boner and pretty serious involuntary contractions but it didn't lead nowhere. That was also my only success by lying on the bed.

Looking at porn doesn't seem to work but I had biggest success and hints of success while watching it. I could easily jerk off to it but it'll be 7 days since my last real orgasm. I don't get aroused easily throughout the day either which I would expect (maybe it's because of release by massaging?).

Any thoughts? I've been doing "do nothing" but sometimes I feel that I should pull my sphincter muscles together and hold to increase the intensity. On the other hand I worry that it actually might be too aggressive for me since I got it going at night with nothing inside and that's what prevents/stops my boner.

Thanks to Linghaman I Found Peridise

I took Linghaman's advise and ordered a Peridise. I arrived at work this morning )plain box(. I made a quick visit to the men's room, lubricated the Peridise, and went back to work )desk jockey(. Although it took a few hours, the waves started happening without any effort on my part. The last two hours of work have been terrific. Luckily I have a office because there have been periods where moaning was has been required. More later…

Intense

Yesterday was a very intense day. My first dry orgasm for ages, a state of ecstacy during the day and almost a full Kundalini experience out of nowhere.
Then it went quiet. I felt very stressed as if all my progress over the last week was for nothing. My children were misbehaving, one developed a fever. I tried for another orgasm last night but couldn't relax into it. My wife was very stressed and I could feel it and that didn't help, disappointment set in again.
I couldn't sleep and now I'm tired at the start of a 60 hour work week.
Yesterday I was flying and progressing, now I'm grounded but not in a spiritual sense. Time to relax and see what happens it's probably all for a purpose.

Sweet, powerful Aless now after sessions

Hi guys,

This past Wednesday I began my third year with Aneros. The session didn't noteworthy but rather right afterward, I came away with sweet, powerful Aless which lasted the whole day! It felt real good!!!

Also this weekend I am spending much time getting my apartment ready for workmen to repair parts of my ceiling from water damage. I stayed home today to do the necessary preparation.

We had a cloudy, cool, and damp week until today when the sun finally come out. So early this morning I had a session which lasted about two hours with the follow order of models:

Eupho Syn, Helix Classic, Progasm Classic, Tempo, and Maximus.

All models in the lineup worked superbly well this morning. Recently I have gone back to Eupho Syn. I like its direct, yet gentle massage action during which I use the "do nothing" technique. It amazing how it works upon me in its way without me doing anything, but just lay back and enjoy! In the future I hope to vary between Eupho Syn and Eupho Classic in sessions. Both models of the Eupho are superb as openers in my sessions.

What more can I say about Helix Classic? Just looking at it makes me super horny! I like its direct action on my prostate. Read more »

Blocked again?

I had sex with my wife for the first time in months last night. My erection was instant and harder than I remember it ever being even when I was a teenager, and when I came it was stronger than previously, she even commented on how strong it felt.

I haven't managed to have a prostate orgasm for a few days now. I have sort of lost interest a little bit in a good way )have to get on with normal life(, although I'm not sure how I feel really. It was so intense last week I'm almost pleased to feel a bit less addicted. I have tried to bring on an orgasm several times but not really succeeded.

I'm really trying to analyse how to 'cross over' into an orgasm. I can get so close within moments of trying but actually turning it into an orgasm is proving elusive. Thinking back to when I had my first super-O I had not cum for 3 days, and had masturbated several times without climaxing, so there must have been some sexual tension there to start with. I was then so excited about what I had experienced that it just sort of carried on and I didn't even question my ability to go into a super-O for a few days and on the second day I even had an A-less orgasm within minutes of trying.
Two nights of super-Os made me tired, then I couldn't make it work and I got over emotional about that and couldn't sleep, I was working long hours, and it's been hit and miss since and I haven't really caught up with sleep. I have had to lower my expections.

First time in years, and first time ever

On May 3, I set to try the “do nothing” method. I lay on my back with knees up, and waited for whatever sensations might visit.

Doing nothing wasn't strenuous, but the minimal effort still got to me. My legs fatigued, so I stretched out and lay flat.

An odd, tiny tickle occurred somewhere in my abdomen. I didn't think anything of it, but it was intruding on my focus. Just to make it go away, I rotated my hips backward, raising my lower back a little off the bed. I held there for a second until the tickle dissipated, then flattened myself back out. The tickle returned, so I rotated my hips again, waited a moment, and flattened again. That repeated a couple more times. Then a most peculiar thing happened.

My hips kept up the slow rocking motion after I decided to stop. It was going at a frequency of about one cycle every ten seconds. I wasn't making it happen, but it was still happening. Of course, I could have made it stop, but I chose not to, mostly because things started feeling pretty good. The familiar tingle of early-stage orgasm had sneaked up on me, and it was growing. After a few more pumps, my pelvis spazzed and drove my cock upward, just like when a girl's on top and I'm thrusting it into her all the way to the hilt.

Holy hell! That was an orgasm! Read more »

Frustration with Vice last night

Tried the Vice last night. Was very frustrating. Got really nowhere. The only highlight of the evening came in the first 15 minutes after inserting it. Wow, could really feel that the prostate was being touched.

But that's as far as it went. Tried doing nothing, fiddling with my perineum, moving around. Nothing went anywhere. Maybe my body just wasnt ready. During the day, I hadn't really felt horny for a Dry-O experience since two nights ago when I had a great experience with the Helix.

Also, even though I think the lubes are working great, and I have enough, after 45 min, my rectum was feeling uncomfortable. Like the Vice was too big. Even though you could feel it passing the prostate, it wasn't generating pleasure. After an hour, I did feel some prostate buzzing and some small involuntary movements – maybe heartbeet movement twiggles on my prostate.

But at that point, was done, so took it out. Tried some straight perineum massage that usually always works right away, but nothing there either. It felt like the strong sensations from the Vice were again flooding out the smaller whispers of feelings from the Perineum massage.

I'm now using an all vegetable gel to pre-lube the aneros, and a mixture of pasteurized coconut and shea Butter oils intjected internally )1.5 tsp(. So far am happy w the veggie oil mix to pre-lube. After 45 min, I pulled out the Vice to check it, and it was still moist all over from the lube stiking to it. Previously using Vaseline for pre-lube, the Vice was always mostly dry when I pulled out to check. Read more »

It’s been a long journey but I finally see my destination in the horizon

TL;DR multiple_o wrote a great post about how to approach a super-o, this post is about how to get the toy into you and enjoy it, because that's step 1 in this crazy thrill ride.

First of all, I've always found that referring to aneros playtime as a journey was kind of corny. I assumed it was some jargon by the aneros marketing team or something, and discounted it…but damn! I couldn't have been more wrong and I couldn't be happier. After a long 10-year "getting to know you" with my ass and prostate, I can finally say that we are no longer in the intro phase and I'm onto some really great things.

From a young age, I've always known that there was more to this whole sex thing than just my cock. I remember getting hard-ons and never knowing what to do with them. Hard as steel accompanied by a faint "ache" from within my crotch. Sometimes it was a subtle ache but other times I could literally feel my pulse within my groin. I obviously didn't know it at the time, but I've been having A-less contractions since high school and it's taken me 10 years to fully understand It.

So why did it take so long for me to finally get a super-o if I started with a leg up? Maybe hearing my issues from the past will help those struggling in the present, and no one else will have to wade through 10 years of frustration. Read more »

Definite Progress – 2

after a lengthy day of minor progress, i decided I needed to re-read and try differently.

I was exhausted and intrigued about the do nothing method- wow. If you havent tried that, go for it.

Took a long very hot bath with eucalyptus and worked on enjoying and relaxing.
Jumped into bed steaming hot and heart racing from the bath. Remained naked on top of the bed and my prep area just resting for a few minutes.

Rolled over on my left with knees together at 90 degree bent at waist and ever-so-slowly inserted the eupho. And did nothing but deep stomach rhythmic breathing.

Really nothing but breathing and concentrating of relaxing and seeing if i could slow my pulse from the bath.

Deep diaphragm breathing… Concentrating of my spot. My pulse was way up. And within 7 to 10 minutes, a flutter. Deep and low stomach flutter. Followed by a slight roll sensation deep in stomach for one of my breathes.

Pulse was still up and picked up slightly more in anticipation and excitement. Deep breathing, do nothing else except for concentrating on my spot. No contractions- nothing.

A few minutes- then a slight deep internal tingle- incredibly small but just enough to feel it and raise my excitement once again. Focus on that, breath and nothing else but relaxing.

More stomach flutters and a greater awareness of my prostate been strangely teased- so small but there. Read more »