[A first report after 3 months] Today I came twice in 15 minutes (using my hands)

I’d like to share what happened to me with the Helix Syn, I’m writing this after my most successful session.

I bought the Helix Syn about three months ago and had around 10+ sessions. I’m not completely new to anal play but I’m basically a beginner.

The first session were quite enjoyable but nothing special. I tried Mindgasm, I was listening to Binaural Beats, I tried to focus on the sensations and followed many different approaches after reading this sub. All the time I ended the session with a traditional orgasm because somehow I was aroused and the feeling was definitely more intense that normal. Therefore I knew that I was going in the right direction, tho very slowly.

The game changer was trying weed. I’m not a fan of it, I usually avoid it because it never relaxes me mentally, nor phisically. But as soon as I smoked half a joint, the sensations changed. For the first three or four sessions I was definitely feeling something new, they were probably pleasure waves but in the heat of the moment it’s hard to understand what is going on. I noticed that, when laying on my back, I tended to raise my legs and make them close to the chest and that definitely had an impact of the intensity of the feeling. I was moving my middle and base muscles, but I have the feeling I was more in control of them rather than the other way around. All these sessions were quite good and I enjoyed them all. I haven’t rally leaked any pre-cum, tho, so I’m still wondering if there’s something that I should do differently. However, since it’s vastly agreed that you need to focus on the pleasure rather than its effects, I decided not to worry about it and go on with this modus operandi.

Experienced beginner recap and questions

Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since I’m now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.

Hello everyone,

Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasn’t until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.

For the most part, I’d feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.

The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. I’m a relatively big guy (6’2” and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.

Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun.

Kind of a strange experience

I have the aneros helix. I love it and it has given me lots of pleasure. Nothing mind blowing yet but the feeling is very pleasant.

The strange experience was when I got maybe a bit too creative. I held a vibrator to the base of the anero and it felt really pleasant. It had me fully zoned out. But when I stopped I had gone completely flaccid which I know can happen.

However after some more play I decided I wanted to end the session just stroking off getting off that way (with the anero in this always feels amazing).

I could not get hard! Like at all. Fully dormant down there and this sort of killed the mood. Its now an hour later and I’m just leaving things alone hoping I’ll be able to reignite my dick at a later time. Still pent up but it feels like maybe I overestimulated things with the vibrator on the anero? Has anyone had a similar experience?

Worried I may have hurt something down there.

Progress update a year into my journey

First I want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to this subreddit – your experiences and tips have been invaluable in my journey and I finally feel like I made some major progress so I wanted to share with you all since I can’t really share with anyone else.

Bought my first Aneros, Helix Syn, last year during my State’s initial COVID closure in March since I’d be home and finally have time to explore. Hadn’t had a ton of success since then: some involuntaries here and there but nothing I’d describe as pleasurable. That all changed yesterday.

Started off my session as per usual – with a bit of porn, nipple rubbing, took a few hits from my vape pen, the works. I really wasn’t focusing a ton on contractions but rather let my prostate dictate to me what it wanted. In the past Ive definitely been guilty of chasing the feelings, despite having read EVERYTHING to the contrary. There really is a mental shift that has to take place. Not just KNOWING to stop chasing/let it happen but actively forcing yourself to SURRENDER. When I finally got in that headspace I turned off the porn and instead of contracting, releasing, rubbing my nipples, watching porn, etc. I just decided to feel whatever happened in my prostate and to concentrate to extend those feelings as long as possible – regardless of whether those feelings were pleasurable or not.

First Aneros Experience – Decimated by the Progasm

Last night I had my first experience with an Aneros toy – the Progasm Ice – and was absolutely decimated.

A few months ago I learned about prostate orgasms and impulse bought a vibrating massager on amazon. It was my first time experimenting with anal play and felt great. I experienced involuntary convulsions and light p-waves, but nothing close to an orgasm. The sessions were fun, but after about 45 minutes the vibration would make my prostate numb with over-stimulation.

I learned about Aneros after a few weeks of using it and started to learn more about how to improve technique. A few weeks ago, I tried using the massager without the vibration at all, and relied only on my rectal muscles. I immediately realized that the vibration wasn’t necessary and broke new grounds of pleasure. I’m not sure if I can use definitive terms for what I felt, but it was much more powerful and long lasting than the p-waves and involuntary convulsions I had before. Immediately after that session, I ordered a Helix Syn and Prograsm Ice online.

I’ve never been more excited for something to come in the mail. Since I started prostate play, I’ve been more aware of how horniness manifests in the prostate. The rewiring of my brain was becoming noticeable, and I kept getting the feeling that my prostate was begging for another session. Yesterday I checked my email and saw that the package had been delivered. I immediately got butterflies in my stomach, and my prostate began to swell. I opened up my Helix Syn first and admired its craftsmanship. It was a bit smaller than expected, but I knew from reading on these forums that size doesn’t matter.

Aneros model advice

Hi there I have the helix trident syn but I’m unsure if it’s the right size for hitting the right spot for me. Can anyone comment on the MGX and whether it’s a bit longer and more suited to reaching the spot a bit further in than the trident? Is there a model that someone can reccomend I move on from the trident to? I have the progasm which is nice and filling but I’m unsure if I’m experienced enough to move onto that. I have been using these toys for about 8 months and have never had anything more than a few p waves.

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing. 

24 yr old male First post, would like some outside feed back on my prostate/anal orgasm journey

LONG POST ALERT*****

Im gonna try and keep this shorted possible, but will make other detailed posts about my journey later on. So i’ve been experimenting with anal for about 2 years. I started with Aneros and since i’ve gotten 6 other models, a dildo to ride, a pure wand a hismith sex machine. Early on in my journey with the Aneros Helix, i think i’ve had some p-waves whereas i would feel strong sensations that would originate from my pc muscles and then spread throughout my body. For a while this was all that would happen, which was amplified when combined with nipple play. Then a big milestone (in my opinion) happened. During a few of my sessions, whenever I felt a big wave coming i also felt like i might ejaculate (which is not what i’m going for, i want dry orgasms) i would stop, scared i would cum or lose my self in please, but one day , during a session i let it happened because why not? If i ejaculate id get an amazing orgasm, so it’s a win. so I let myself go and too my pleasurable surprise, i squirted! it was clear and it was a lot ALOT. Like i thought i peed but it wasn’t and it was sooooo pleasurable (idk if i’d say orgasm tho) but i was laughing so much after out of pleasure. i believe this happened a total of 5-6 times in my journey.

can have mini-o a-less but not with aneros

I got my first toy 4 months ago (helix syn trident) and have since then being using it regularly. About a month ago I started doing a-less sessions and on the first session I had my first ever mini-o (it was incredible). Ever since then I have been able to consistently have at least one mini-o per a-less session.
However, I’m unfortunately unable to have mini-os with my massager, at all. I’m really unsure why. (if it’s the toy, if it’s me or what) Everytime it feels like i’m about to have one I try and relax into the feeling and it immediately goes away. Is having a p-gasm different with the massager than without? Any help would be appreciated.