I’ve been working on reverse kegels and I think I’m getting somewhere – approximately how long do you hold the contractions for? Constantly, while it’s feeling good?/ For as long as it takes- or for short periods, intermittently?
Tag: Kegel Exercises
Other Orgasm Techniques (Re-Posted)
Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my sessions with a a variety of different things I was curious about in solo play to achieve multiple orgasms. I always also wished to pursue a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. Despite achieving a SuperO with Aneros, I still wanted to try all options of sexual pleasure, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.
To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both) away from your partner. Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.
But I can never satisfy my curiosity. If you haven any others, post a comment or send a message. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:
BDSM: eStim or Sounding 4/10 – not for me. I have invested serious cash into the set up and finally had a hwfo with eStim, using a plug, pads and rings and a quality machine. Quality matters, but to me the orgasm was dulled out by the electricity (or by pain!). Sounding was fun but always felt too invasive. Maybe I need an expert to tie me up and show me the real deal. I would like to try rope play, sensory deprivation and several other things.
Success and The Regret (Re-Posted)
After several years of using Aneros, I have started to have regular prostate pleasure, and every nth time, I would get to a dry orgasm, a mental orgasm, or even a SuperO. It was always difficult to find time for sessions, but I slowly and surely built upon each session to keep progressing. The first time I had a SuperO, I was on the couch in the living room after coming back from college. It seemed to transition from a dry orgasm into a screaming orgasm that I could not believe was happening. I lay there exhausted afterwards and felt that I have found something amazing to have in my life. My partner was never interested in trying, so I stopped talking about it afterwards. I kept going, and taking notes from each solo session. I also became more open to trying other toys, nipple stimulation, and manual prostate massage. I wanted to try everything over the years that followed.
My only regret in my journey was never having experienced a HFWO, not from sex with my partner, from Aneros or from manual prostate play. I guess it is not meant to be, but I have surely kept trying and it seemed sometimes that I would come so close. I rode the edge of what seemed to be a near ejaculatory event through anal sex, Warpmymind hypnosis, manual nipple play, using a dildo, an nJoy wand, a fucking machine, eStim, and a Theragun.
Cheat Codes (Re-Posted)
Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have also liked to combine my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity or the wish to pursue to a HFWO orgasm which kept getting away from me. I still wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.
To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.
But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:
Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. Maybe this will come with age. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Reach out to me and share if and how you started ‘gooning’
7 years and counting
So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.
Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.
Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.
Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.
I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.
Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.
Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me.
How do you reliably reverse kegel?
I’ve figured out how to do normal kegels for a while now, but reverse kegels still seem sort of foreign to me. I’ve read some guides about pushing out like you’re forcing your pee out or bearing down or something, but whenever I try, it always centralizes in my abs and core rather than my PC muscles. Is this supposed to happen, or is it supposed to be fully in my PC region? If so, any tips for isolating these contractions?
Knocking on heavens door
I have had some success with prostate play in the last three weeks – i own the wand and 2 Aneros ( MGX white – ribbed base) and ( helix – the vibrating one).
F**ound pressure points and exploring – story**
I have had some amazing orgasms — the Trident – was working all by itself a couple of nights ago — the thing was fucking me like it was automated. I played a bit and then relaxed I find I reach around and raised the back arm slightly it puts me over the top a very nice pressure point. just release after a while and let the mechanics of the aneros do its thing
Yesterday – I felt horny — lay on couch – left side – ( leg bent up toward my chest) i left my underwear on and inserted the trident — not a full insertion – just enough to be locked in placed — the aneros was held in place by the back of the underwear . i slowly did kegels and contractions and after a while the thing need to go in and do its work ..
But before I found just a partial insertion and aim it up seems to find the sweet spot.. i was in heaven.. I rode that for a bit and passed out the Aneros was now slightly out and just touched the tip of my anus. I fell asleep in that position and was woken up my an amazing stimulation on my ass — i guess I may have moved and the pressure of of the tip excited me — any way it prompted me to have another session with the toy.
Success?! (Aneros Progasm Ice)
So I’ve been playing with my prostate every now and then for a few months, I tried the Aneros Helix, but I couldn’t feel it when inside me. I’ve had p waves before but nothing more.
I bought the Progasm Ice on sale last month and tonight was the first time I got to use it.
Once I got it in I just laid back and put on some porn to listen to. I have a small bullet massager that I was using on my nipples that was like okay, but nothing crazy.
After about 10 minutes of just laying there on my back with my legs up doing kegels, I had my first p wave, shaking, heavy breathing, the whole deal.
This happened a couple of times, it was going like how all of the other sessions went, p waves and leaving me questioning what the next steps feel like.
Then, I started moving my hips up and down, I remembered that I liked this motion and that it got my going last time.
Then, I started to feel intense pleasure in my head. I could almost feel a line being drawn from where the toy was touching me inside to my brain.
There was a buildup of pleasure in the front of my head, just above my forehead (idk if that makes any sense, but that’s where I felt it lol).
Aless
I started using a progasm a little over 2 years ago. Currently vaping some THC and doing kegels/rubbing my nipples and I felt a buzzing in my prostate… is that normal/good sign? I’ve had some success with toys but not really a p gasm.
my first successful session where I had rolling orgasms over and over.
Hi bros, first time posting here but i felt I had to share my experience the other night and get some feedback. Its probably guna be a pretty long post but please bear with me.
First a bit about me.
Im 31 years old and been on the journey for over 2 years now with little success. Ive had a few sessions where things feel like theyre heading somewhere but they sort of fizzle out. Ive had the racing heart, slight moaning, tingles and muscle spasms at different times.
The toys i have are the aneros (helix trident, peridise, mgx, eupho trident, maximus trident and progasm ice) and the lovense edge vibrator. Ive used all at some point.
My typical session starts with cleaning up and then going upstairs and laying on the floor on some towels near to the warm radiator. Im laying down with my head proped up on some pillows and my legs laying to each side with my feet pulled up close to my ass. I then put in my earbuds and put on some good biaural beats or mindgasm. This is usually where I’d lube up my hole with coconut oil and rub a layer of water based lube on my chosen toy.
Then i try to relax for a bit listening and deep breathing and after a while i look at some hot pics on reddit whilst hitting my weed vape at a low temp.
I’d usually have in the helix or the maximus for a while until swapping to the progasm where things kinda get nicer. This nice contact feeling doesn’t usually last or progress but recently i found that if I push out (like a reverse kegel) instead of doing kegels and manual contractions I feel strong pushing contractions in my lower abdomen which feels kinda nice. Now if I start slowly thrusting the progasm the faster I go the harder my body pushes ( and i mean really pushes) until its so intense I can’t take it and il leak cum, pre cum and finally squirt clear slippery liquid…this feels really good but not what I’m looking for.