Tag: Kegel Exercises

First experience with Trident Helix – wow.

I did some research as my girlfriend and I have been enjoying dipping our toes into anal play (especially involving tongue, etc.), and settled on getting the Trident Helix + sliquid silk for the lube. From my research I was a little worried it would take a while of effort of me just letting it happen, and such as people say to do in here. However, I thought maybe I’d get lucky as I have played with myself before with no toys, and so I’m loosened up to the idea of that play, y’know.

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Anyways, I tried it today in the shower for the first time, put lube in my hand and then just swirled the Helix around in my hand till it was properly lubed, inserted pretty easily, and damn – it was such a good experience. I actually came faster than I normally would, and it was for sure a more intense experience. I turned my shower setting to a less intense spray so I didn’t have to worry about lube being removed as much which was a good call. Tried playing with myself standing up at first, but quickly just laid down in the tub and enjoyed it.

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I must have lasted less than 4 minutes honestly. I think me doing kegels with it in helped warm me up to it quickly, and I also noticed that I got to the edge way faster than I normally would, and just let it happen. I think this is just the beginning of the intensity of it for me, especially since I haven’t involved my gf yet. Read more »

First Aneros Session Recount

Massager: Aneros Helix Trident
Lube: Coconut Oil (Lubed toy, hole, and used a lube shooter)
So, before I started I read a lot about common techniques and practices. I even watched a couple of videos of people having prostate orgasms and super orgasms (or so they say) with the aneros to have a frame of reference.
Once the toy was in, I laid flat on my back and started to do some deep breathing exercises. After a few minutes of this to get relaxed I remembered that in some of the videos they say that stimulating your nipples can help. So I started with that and rubbing other parts of my body (never touching my penis) and this did feel good, especially with the deep breathing.
After a bit of this I started to do some kegel exercises. I was having a tough time of actually feeling the massager inside me, I didn’t feel pressure or full or really anything. But I tried visualizing the toy inside me and that helped a lot, I got a clear picture of where the toy was and what it was doing.
While doing the kegels I felt what I could only describe as “wisps” of pleasure, like tiny little bursts of a pleasurable feeling I felt move from my prostate area upwards. I tried focusing on that feeling like some guides say, but I couldn’t really hone in on it. I went back to my deep breathing and nipple play and kinda just reset the situation.
Then, instinct just kinda took over, it was much less cerebral. I started moving my hips up and down while doing the kegels, it felt good so I just kinda rolled with it.
I knew I felt something, but I didn’t know what. It didn’t feel like anything I’d experienced in sex or masturbation before. The best way I can describe it is when you see sheets of water going down a window, but the water was small bits of pleasure and the window was my body (from my ass to my head).
At this point I don’t really remember what I did, I was just continuing what I was doing (the kegels, the moving my hips up and down, the nipple play, and the breathing) when suddenly my breathing went shallow and fast, and after a few seconds my torso was having uncontrollable spasms. My breathing got very heavy and fast, and my torso was shaking for about 10 seconds. Then, nothing.
I just remember feeling thirsty, my lips were dry, so I grabbed some water before looking down. The towel under me was dry and my dick was still soft, so I knew I didn’t cum, but I did feel a good amount of pleasure. At this point I wanted to reapply lube (I probably didn’t have to, but I’ve never done ass play before and I don’t want to take any chances of not being lubed enough). This was a natural break point anyway. I checked the clock and it had only been about 20 minutes since I’d started, so I knew I was gonna go back in for more.
After my quick break, I put the toy back in and got ready again. I watched one of the videos again to see what the success stories looked like, and I noticed way more leg shaking than torso shaking, so idk.
Anyway, I went back to what I was doing before, breathing, kegels, nipples, worked my way back in over the next few minutes.
Then, my breathing went shallow and hard again. I could feel myself quickening my hip movement involuntarily. Then my whole torso and legs went into spasms, the waves of pleasure were more intense this time (still not really that strong though, any penile orgasm would be much stronger), but I couldn’t really focus on them at all, I was just experiencing them. My knees eventually bent and were shaking vigorously. This time the shaking went on for about 30-45 seconds (at least so I think, it was much, much longer than the first time). Then, it just stopped all at once.
The upper part of where my quads meet my hips were sore and I just kinda laid there catching my breath. I can only describe what I was in as a trance, I didn’t really have too much conscious control of my body. Again I hadn’t cum or even gotten an erection.
I’m not really sure what happened, not much of the pleasure was deliberate and it wasn’t really comparable to anything I’ve experienced from sex or masturbation. I don’t really know what to make of it, but I did like how relaxing it was and I see that there is definitely potential there.
I’ll probably give it another go sometime this week.
Is there anything I should be doing differently? How do I have more “conscious” pleasure, like something I can definitely feel, not something that’s like in the background?

My first breakthrough

I bought an Aneros about two weeks ago. I’ve never really tried prostate play before this. I tried about 2-3 sessions with it in a week, and it felt good, but not the amazing feelings I had read about. I finished myself with my hand at the end each session due to some frustration. I tried doing nothing with meditation, flexing and un flexing PC and sphincter, mindgasm, and just about any other idea I came across online, and nothing really was amazing. I was doing some kegels during this week and really struggled with separating movement between sphincter and PC muscles.

Today, after not having touched or really thought about my aneros, penis, and prostate I was laying on the couch watching TV and started to feel super horny, probably due to the fact that I usually masturbate daily. I remembered Mindgasm saying to hold both muscles for 30 seconds and then release. This was the thing that had felt good, but we not lasted a couple seconds. I decided to try holding it for as long as I could

AND HOLY HELL IT STARTING FEELING FUCKING AMAZING.

I was doing everything I could to flex both muscles as my body pushed back with incredibly strong feeling of pleasure and massive convulsions and violent shaking. This was so intense and i guess my muscles are weak so I could only do it for about 3 minutes max. I didn’t have a bunch of time so I only did this about 3 times resting for a few minutes between. Read more »

Trying to have a wet prostate orgasm

Hi guys! I’ve been on a stroking ban for a week now and have been trying to achieve some kind of prostate or anal orgasm. I had been hoping that my level of (constant) horniness and patience would get me there, but I feel kind of lost. Whether I try the Aneros Helix Syn for an hour (just laying on my belly, relaxing, sometimes doing kegels), a prostate vibrator, the Lovense Hush or my Fuck machine, the most I can do is use a dildo to extract a few drops without any orgasmic feeling.

Does anyone have maybe a video to recommend? Am I going about this all wrong? I’ve been investing lots of time and getting my mind clear, but maybe I’m just expecting too much? Very curious to see what people think here!

Cheat Codes

Over time, whenever I wasn’t having a great time with my Aneros, and I was extremely aroused, I have combined my solo play with a a variety of different cheat options and enhancements. I guess it was simple curiosity, I wanted to try it all, and nothing was off the table (except cheating). Over time, I have tried various techniques and forms of edging, hypnosis, KSMO, binaural beats, kegels, Aless, various drugs and supplements, eStim, a Theragun, dildos, an nJoy wand, nipple play, sounding and even a fucking machine.

To this day I still believe that just using a single Aneros toys is the best way to spend a day or a night (or both). Nothing else is needed and it can take you very very far away into deep inexplicable pleasure.

But I could never satisfy my curiosity. I will post a review of all of these below over time, but in brief summary:

Edging – 6/10 I would still be interested to get to a ‘goon’ state or a multiorgasmic masturbation session. But this is usually contradictory to Aneros play. I have generally enjoyed my experiences with edging, especially as this is something my partner is receptive to. Those are even better. But generally I don’t have the patience to start stop enough times to get a continuous orgasm state. It would be interesting to learn this one day. Read more »

Technique

Hello everyone,
been using an Aneros for quite some time and had a lot of mindblowing results.
looking to try smth new and just want to discuss a bit about techniques.

What works best for me is the “do-nothing” technique either on my back or on my side, with my dick tucked between my legs. With focusing on really keeping all my muscles down there relaxed. sadly i havent been able to progress to a WO or a Super O like this (had some with the njoy before) even tho my ass and prostate spasm a lot like this.

In some guides and videos ive seen people doing kegels, but from my understanding the involuntary spasm of the prostate is what brings the big joy.

so i just wanted to ask what your guys go to technique is?

I can cum handfree after less than a week…damn!

So my partner bought me my first Aneros after I heard about it on a Sex Podcast. I was very skeptical about it due to being a non vibrating toy. When it arrived I was pretty disappointed due to its size, but I had booked a day off work just to relax and give it a whirl.

After around 30 mins of watching my go to porn, and almost giving up, I started to feel all the promised effects of the toy. I had the most incredible orgasm of my life, or so I thought. After the initial excitement I left it in and carried on. Another 30 mins passed and I starter’s feeling all the same feelings I felt prior, but when it came, it came like a steam train….I was shaking and swearing. It was incredible. That day I left it in for roughly 2 and half hours and had 6 mind blowing orgasms, without actually shooting out a load.

Fast forward to two days later, I returned to work. On my way home I clenched my arse just to remind myself of how it felt, and it felt incredible. I carried on with my kegels, and after about 30 seconds, without the toy in, I stared cumming hard at 70mph around the M25. I was understandably I shock, utterly have since managed to have roughly 7 handsfree orgasms even without the Aneros inside me. I feel like I have a superpower.

Had tried something new technique wise

Started a session last night with the helix syn. Got a shower, prepped my bed and got lube and the toy and inserted it. Layed on my back with feet flat. Put on some porn. Rubbed my nipples to trigger involuntaries. Did this for about 15 minutes. Nothing built up beyond this point, so i switched to my side and continued on. Nothing really built up 10 minutes later, so i tried doing some different kegels. I kept my rectum muscles pushed out like i was pooping, but doing that lightly. And contracting my pc muscle to my breaths. Something built up fast and my abs, stomach and hip area was shaking uncontrollably.

At this point the aneros felt like it dissapeared and i could feel where my prostate was and it felt tickly but in a good way. Then i stopped breathing and it built up more but when i exhaled, the feelings went away.

At this point it was getting too late so i inserted a vibrating plug that has a massaging tip. Put on some pantyhose. And did the same thing with that plug. Felt really good but layed back on my back and moved the toy in and out while pushing out and i came just a little, which i barely felt. Then i thrusted my hips and grinded on the toy and got a hfwo which felt amazing.

Any tips on what to do from here? Anyone else do the reverse kegels?

My general nipple diddling routine

Hi guys,

As many of you know, I am adept at diddling my nipples mostly most nights in bed. In recent weeks, we have had cold weather here in DC. Meteorologists had called a cold January. However, on Presidents Day weekend in February, the cold weather should begin to let up and we should have signs of approaching Spring. However at present most nights, I cover myself with several blankets, a blanket wrapped around my neck, and a woolen cap on my head. Nipple diddling eases for me the tedium of cold winter nights!

My nipples began to be wonderfully sensitive following my SO and MMO breakthroughs in mid September 2016. A month before, in August, I devised a regimen of Kegels which launched me toward my breakthroughs a month later.

Now I generally diddle my nipples in two basic ways: (1) back and forth across my nipples, and (2) circular fashion around my aureoles and one the nipples themselves. It is so wonderful and so sweet that diddling my nipples this way can cause me to have Super-O’s and MMO’s many times throughout the night. I found that there is a direct connection with my diddling and my prostate, even my penis.

I seldom diddle my nipples in the daytime. However, a simple touch here and there on my nipples in the daytime make me hungry for more aggressive nipple diddling at night!

Take care!

Great experience

Sorry for the long post, but I need to get this out.

Had such an excellent experience last night, culminating in first HFWO.
Started off with a delta-8 edible, when that started to hit I lubed up, inserted my Helix, and listened to some ASMR erotica.
Within probably 5 minutes of laying there “doing nothing” my asshole started spasms and making the Aneros dance and tickle my prostate. Then I felt my world start spinning.
I mean like someone turned off the gravity and I was free floating, it was wild, but I didn’t fight it and just let it go on. My heart was racing, breathing was increased, and I felt warm pulses through my body.
Then my arms/hands starting quivering and that led into full on convulsions of my wrists and hands! It was nuts! But I tried to let it go and not fight. The spasms and twitches worked into my pelvis a little bit and I felt some nice warm tingles in my perineal area, (Are these p-waves??) at this point I hadn’t done any voluntary pelvic contractions. Eventually this subsided and I stammered to the bathroom for a drink of water (cotton mouth).
Slid back into bed for another go round. Popped the headphones back in, relaxed for a minute and then started doing light contractions of my PC muscle. Within a minute or two I was convulsing again, and pumping out precum with a massive erection.
This time every major muscle in my body started started, it was wild, but I let the ASMR voice guide me. Felt like I was falling down a well, which was great!
Now is when it got crazy- I got deep into a trance like state, I was moaning so loud, and my whole body was violently shaking and my cock was flopping all around, to the point I was somewhat concerned for a split second but quickly pushed those thoughts out. This felt incredible and new and different. I’ve approached this point before and always slightly “fought it” so it always died off. But this time I literally tried to disassociate my mind from my body and let my body do whatever it wanted.
It actually worked and the next thing I knew I was cumming like crazy but totally flaccid.
At this point I stopped, which I’m regretting now, do you think it’s possible I could’ve continued it? Also is this a “benchmark” on the journey to super-o and multiple HFDO? Read more »