How many of you switched toys on your path to the super-O? Aneros toys give me pleasant, subtle sensations; Lelo Hugo (no vibe, just muscles) brought me right to the edge of orgasm. Should I stick with one, switch em up, buy something new…?

Hi all!

About a year ago, my girlfriend and I wanted to explore prostate stimulation. So she bought me some forward-curved buttplugs (FunFactory), and I bought myself a Lelo Hugo during a sale. So I’ve had some experience with prostate stimulation (wasn’t seeking the super-O – I only thought of it as a way to enhance sex).

A couple months ago, I learned about Mindgasm and the super-O, and decided to dedicate time to it. I have some experience with meditation and I’ve done strength training for years, so muscle isolation and “mind / body” connection come pretty naturally to me. I started with no toy, just Mindgasm. I started having pleasure waves, which was very nice, and I began to feel very attuned with my body and my sexuality. This was honestly a very “spiritual” few weeks for me. I felt very “grounded.”

Then I bought a Helix Syn. I had some nice sessions with it, and it did help me learn my pelvic floor in a new way. But I wasn’t getting that “oomph”/”hit the spot” feeling that I remembered from my first toys. Just some nice waves – but I could feel an itch for something with more “reach” or more forward curve. So I bought the Eupho Trident (no Syn). This one was better, for sure – the longer reach absolutely hits me in a good place, which the Helix Syn does not. But it’s still frustrating – the sensations are so light and subtle, it’s hard to get that “satisfying” feeling.

Am I having a pwave or a prostate orgasm?

I also posted in r/prostateplay but am hoping for some other opinions.

I lay on my side with top leg bent at roughly a 90 degree angle and my bottom leg almost straight. This is the position I generally sleep in so I find I can get very relaxed. I’ve been using an mgx trident. It always feels good, but at about an hour in, that’s when I really start feeling great sensations.

The sensation in question lasts for about 15-30 seconds and feels amazing, but I
don’t have muscle spasms, just a hot, tingly, glow feeling that radiates
from my prostate and feels like it envelopes my ass. I have a difficult time having more than one of these as it leaves my prostate with almost a numb feel afterwards. Not uncomfortable, but feels so “hot” that I can’t distinguish the different sensations I was earlier.

One reason I’m asking for clarification is a few times when something starts to feel really good, my heart rate speeds up dramatically, but then I lose it. The sensation I described above doesn’t increase heart rate very much, doesn’t have me breathing hard, and doesn’t give me muscle spasms.

I’ve read people talking about their involuntary body twitching and
their breath taking orgasms, and can’t help but think that the thing
I’ve been thinking is a prostate orgasm is just a pwave. Or am I having
prostate orgasms, just not a super o?

Thanks for your time, any information is very helpful.

What is a p-gasm?

Wanted to ask this group to get a better understanding on what a p-gasm/p-wave. I had a major breakthrough today. Today was my 3rd day in a row getting back into playing with my collection of aneros massagers: eupho, helix trident, and Maximus. It’s been about 2 months or so since I had played with any of them but have been practicing kegels trying to get “aless p-waves” but no progress or body shaking feelings. When I play I put the massager in a condom filled with lube (only this time I used water and silicon) and “twist” the condom opening to keep the lube in the condom. I think that this method allows the aneros to move freely in the condom. And then lube the outside of the condom for insertion. Using eupho and trident didn’t yield any results but I did start manually trying to activate my prostate so that I can be on a look out on what it feels like but not much progress. My two sessions were about 1.5-2 hours. However, today I used the Maximus. Session was about 3 hours. First 2 hours yielded nothing except for a good feeling full. Third hour was what I think was a breakthrough. The feelings were at times I felt like peeing, other times I felt a tingling feeling deep down in my center, other times I felt like I was on the verge of a traditional penile orgasm but always on the edge. Question to this group, does a p-gasm involve the same muscle contraction response like a penile orgasm? Every now and then, I would get the “body shivers” and fluttering. But didn’t have the whole kegel and body contractions like a normal orgasm. Without a doubt I really “bathed “ in the feelings and felt like I could go on forever. Any perspective from the experienced folks?

Should I train every day?

I’m in my rewiring process. I had some achievements like the good feelings in my pelvic regions, involuntary contractions and a HDWO.
BUT I haven’t had an Super O yet. I even don’t know if I had P-Waves or a Mini-O because I don’t really know what to expect / how they would really feel.

Actually I am using my aneros every day for about 1-2 hours. Most of the time I use headphones and binaural beats (because they help me to forget about my life around me and to keep me focused. Sometimes I am like in a trance). Like i said, sometimes a good feeling starts to build up. I feel the vibrations, the tickling spreading from my prostate to my whole body. My cock gets hard from one moment to another and I just feel good. But then (when I try to let go and just enjoy the feelings) it ends and the moment’s over. (And if I was in a trance-like state till then, it’s over too). So, that’s my situations right now.

My question is now: Do you think I should “train” everyday or just every 2 or 3 days? Does frequent practice desensitize my prostate? Or in general: do you have any tips for me? I try to be patient. I know that there’s hope for me 😉 but I think you all know the moment, when you think, you should just give up because it won’t happen to you. So THANKS for your help and your thoughts about my situation 🙂

THE MOST SCARY AND INTENSE ORGASM EVER!

I’ve been a very good boy recently so I decided to treat myself to some new toys, a set of Guyon sounding rods. Although these sounds look fairly severe it’s like any of these kind of medical toys in the right hands using them safely and sensibly becomes second nature.

My first attempt with these crazy looking sounds was a bit of a non-starter, I was rushed for time and sounding or come to think of it a session with Aneros’s is never good when rushed. I had pleasurable sensations but nothing too dramatic, my second attempt was a completely different affair.

This was a long and protected session lasting almost three hours, I’ve recently purchased a VR headset, an Oculus Quest 2 if anyones interested. You’re able to download 6K VR porn directly to the device, therefore not relying on Wi-Fi when out on business, particularly handy for the likes of me especially when I’m in the back of beyond. I have to say the optical quality is really good and once engrossed in the glory of the scene its easy to get sucked into it (pun intended) anyway I digress….

When it comes to sounding I’d say I was fairly experienced by working my way from a basic set of Rosebuds to a set of ‘J’ curved Van Buren sounds, up to this moment in time they have given me the most rewards. I should really explain that once past the initial squeamishness of the physical act of sticking metal rods deep into your dick there’s a world of deep and dark wonders to behold from sounding, and let me tell you it gets easier with practice. Just remember to never force anything and keep everything super clean, start slow and do your homework before diving in.

Spiral in the journey and thoughts

I suppose I started out with the wrong mindset just as many do… I thought prostate massage was as easy as rubbing one out.

Boy was I wrong.

I’ve been at it for about a month and I’ve already spent more than intended on various toys. I suppose my thought pattern was along the lines of making it easier. One could even say cheating…

I bought a dildo. Nothing special, just 5 insert able inches of artificial veiny goodness. I thought if I could coax an orgasm I might have a better idea of what to look for. Whether I was unable or unwilling to fuck myself hard enough is hard to tell. Out of a handful of uses, once I was pounding away until I just couldn’t, I pulled it out, and the sensations of all those veins coming out caused body wide tingles and I just had to sit there a minute as I felt a wave of peace pass over my body. Otherwise, I generally feel like the dildo just gapes me for another toy.

The toy it prepared me for most would be the first massager I purchased. A vibrating massager that also has a thumping motion. I originally ordered this online without taking the time to consider the most important thing… Circumference. That’s what led me to Aneros. I felt a need to open up a bit to better utilize the vibrator. Once, this vibrating massager had me on the cusp of something amazing. I was in thump mode and had the smallest amount of precum. Literally just enough to fill my cock to the tip… But I lost it. Didn’t go over the edge or anything. Maybe I focused too much?

Salsero

Hi there i am about 10 months in on my journey no orgasms as yet but plenty of pwaves and involuntary contractions.
Whenever is sit down now on the perineum area i start to mildly throb and pulsate in that area which is pleasant,i just wonder how those sensations play out the longer you use Aneros , does your body become used to these sensations and they calm down or is it hectic from here on in.

Pumped Up Nipples

I just had a great weekend, my wife was at home so lots of sex. You’d think this have curtailed my lust for an Aneros session with my favourite Eupho Syn Trident, well you’d be wrong!

I’m on a health and fitness programme just now which means healthy eating and lots of exercise. I drove my good lady to work this morning then had a hour long spinning and weights session, I watch porn whilst on the bike, it helps me pass the time and I find the act of getting breathless, hot and sweaty a bit of a turn on. Post session I had a long shower, shaved my cock and balls and generally took my time warming down, I couldn’t resist having a bit of sexy fun with the shower head so I positioned the flow so it tickled and bounced off my asshole and balls, I then turned around and blasted the head of my dick with the strongest and moist intense flow, it was almost too much to take but by God it felt fantastic!

I douched after my shower and made myself comfortable on the bed, I lubed up and inserted the Eupho, then just relaxed. To Begin with there wasn’t much happening, and tbh I thought the session was going to be a dud, after all that does happen. Half an hour later and I’m starting to feel the most gentle of whisper from my prostate, a very feint buzz, this was a sign to persist and plough on, next of all my legs started to shake, followed by my butt, my prostate was now starting to buzz.

Another new toy

I’ve noticed over time that my prostate has changed in the kinds of stimulation it responds to. For a while it responded very well to my Eupho Syn Trident. Then it seemed to prefer the MGX Syn Trident. Every once in a while it liked my Helix Syn Trident.

I noticed a pattern. It started with liking gentle subtle stimulation like with the Eupho. Over time it seems to respond to more direct stimulation. I’ve had my Progasm for a while, but it’s never really done much for me. My guess is that while my body is liking more direct stimulation, the Progasm is so large that it can’t move around much. I thought that getting the Progasm Junior would give me the best of both: fullness and mobility.

I ordered the Progasm Junior when it was on sale. It came in the mail yesterday, and I was anxious to try it. I started the session with my MGX, and it was nice. I soon found out that it was a warm up for the main event. So I inserted the Progasm Junior. It was awkward at first. I wasn’t sure what to do with it at first. It’s very different from my other ones. I find the the “do nothing” method works well for me. I insert my toys, start playing with my nipples, and let my body take over. It seemed like my body didn’t know what to do with it at first. Finally, I could feel the warmth and tingling in my prostate. I could feel this sensation all over my body that I don’t think I’ve ever felt. It was waves of pleasure. I could feel the tip milking my prostate, and it was heavenly. I actually thought it would make me ejaculate. It felt like my prostate was expanding and contracting. I focused intently on the sensations and it magnified them. I really enjoyed feeling it all coming on. It felt like it was going deeper and deeper. My dick got so hard. It was an amazing experience. I’m thinking about trying again tonight.

First time Peridise user

While I did try to original Aneros about 20 years ago, I hadn’t used and wasn’t interested sexually in my backside for many years (blame ongoing hemorrhoids). In recent years I’ve gotten back into light anal stimulation and prostate play. I’m married, but bisexual with several close bimarried friends who have expanded my horizons or pleasures.
With Covid lockdown I haven’t played all year and needless to say quite horny and was online chatting with similar bimarried guy. He was telling me about his Aneros collection and all the P Orgasms he enjoys. He then told me about the Peridise model when I mentioned my hemorrhoids had recently come back. After reading on here I decided to get the beginner set which arrived 4 days ago. In the week I was waiting for them, I started back with kegels and trying to really focus on anal and prostate sensations.
Once my Peridise arrived, I quickly had to try the larger one. What I like is that I can insert and put my boxer briefs and jeans back on and work from my home office. After several hours my calls were over and I lean d back in my chair for 30 minutes. I explored the feeling, first doing some kegels, then letting the Peridise move with involuntary movements in my anal cavity. I had several mini-Os with the first session and the second similar session the next day. Nothing big, but really nice waves of pleasure for several minutes each time, spreading from the opening of my anus into the cavity and up to my prostate.
I’ve also tried while stationary cycling since my saddle has cutout in the middle and back. Once again, mild miniOs waves, very enjoyable, but nothing huge.
Last night, I decided to leave the smaller Peridise in all night (9 hours). I did wake up several times with warm pleasurable sensations in my prostate and anal area. No, I didn’t wake up having orgasms or my body thrashing around the bed, but each time I woke up, I did several kegels which then caused involuntary movement in my ass and mini waves of pleasure, from my anal opening up inside until those waves reached my prostate. Several times I though maybe I’d go into bigger orgasms, but that didn’t happen. My nipples have always been wired to my penis and balls, so I’ve always engaged them in sex, from solo masturbation to active sessions with partners. But I’m just several days with Peridise. My nipples are getting hard without touching them, but just from the Peridise induced stimulation. If possible, my nipples are even more sensitive now, and had to be more gentle in fingering them. But now my nipples are already required to my prostate and playing with them makes my prostate swell and throb! I never had a big orgasm last night, but probably had 5-6 times I woke up and had those mini waves of pleasure. I’ll try again tonight and see if things go further.