Tips for the struggling/beginners

First of all I’m not here to tell you what to do, but I have a strong feeling these tips will work for more than just myself. Excuse me if my thought organization is all over the place. This is a draft and I was just excited to post it asap.

* Relaxation and proper breathing is important. It’s a good idea to take up meditation if you want to improve on this and meditation is useful for much more that just this actually (same thing goes for cardio and resistance training). If you’re constantly in a daze, you’re in for a long game. If you’re the deathgrip type you’re also in for a long game. I do some meditative breathing while in an alternating cold and hot shower. Any impulse to jerk backward from the water being too cold or too hot is taken note of, to which I relax completely into it as a response. Shower temperatures are regulated, and they aren’t hot enough to burn or cold enough to freeze so there’s nothing to worry about. Relaxing into it can feel amazing. FORCE NOTHING.

* Do some yoga-like flexibility stretches and be sure to breathe into your balls or even into your toes with every breath. You know, the kind of deep breath that might make you shake/twitch slightly. I was confused at first that I had to pull/push my anus and breathe as two seperate movements; I totally forgot that if you breathe in deeply enough it does so on its own and feels a lot better. If you don’t twitch a little you might be doing it wrong. Relax into the position like you’re trying to fall asleep. See how much you can relax into the position before you fall over, which shouldn’t be hard if you’re in okay shape.

A matter of size?

When thinking about that awesome aless session on which I reported in my last post, I doubted the Eupho Syn was big enough to support comparable pleasures. So I ordered the Helix Syn, which has a bigger head and body why it should be able to trigger my prostate gland the harder way it seemed to be yearning for. On the second day I already unpacked my second Aneros tool. By the way, it’s a little like unwrapping gifts, so lovingly packed in elegant red gift boxes those tools arrive. Okay, as before, after cleaning my backdoor thoroughly I greased my hole with some aquabased lube and gave even more on the Helix Syn. Well prepared I inserted it. Even though it was much easier to press it in as it was with the Nexux G-Rider, there was nearly as much to feel inside. While the Eupho Syn nearly seemed to dissapear in part the Helix Syn was all present. Until today I am not sure whether it were the circumstances, the exaggerated expectations or by that very size, I fundamentally failed to reach noteworthy feelings during this about one hour lasting session, although I was relaxed, did nothing, had enough time and a quiet space. After I was about to end with this unsatisfying session and had pulled the HS out, I thought I should try another aless (without an aneros tool – session) and went back to bed. It lasted no minute, my gland was back to take command, sended shivering waves through my body, told the muscles what to do to emphasize those feelings and gave me some unexpected pleasures as to say made my day.
To me it seems, that all these unvoluntary contractions of the inner muscles have only one aim, to get the tool where the gland wants it.
(Writing this I was fully focused on my prostate and spontaneously was struck by a little p-wave that build up to a little orgasm forcing me to writh and moan, oh wow, a second wave is coming up starting in head and prostate at the same time, huh, hope that will never happen in the office or I will be able to suppress at least the moaning, wow a happiness is flowing through my whole body, like I powered up my batteries.)
Therefore it may be better, if the tool is able to dance in the rectum instead of being clenched by the anal canal.
(It’s still feeling like a fever in the arms. I had an interrupted Eupho Syn session in the morning, maybe my gland is still unsatisfied.)
As it is a very time-robbing passion we are indulging, please be patient with my blog-updates, as I have to decide to go on with my journey or to write down my experiences, although this time again, I was struck by one during the writing.
May your prostate be with you and good vibes!

Actively working with Aless : Tuesday evening, October 18 & two Super-T attempts

Hi guys,

@goldenboy has inspired me to work actively with my Aless this evening. I had a great session this morning with Maximus and Progasm which gave me incredible Aless throughout today.

@goldenboy speaks much about nipple stimulation in his Aneros blog entries. It is a practice that a you can adopt easily when you begin working Aneros. The Aneros is a potent key which opens erotic pleasures throughout your body through prostate stimulation by an Aneros device. Nipple stimulation actually enhances your Aneros sessions which enable to discover powerfully your body’s erogenous zones. This has been experience in my five plus years with Aneros.

Most guys discover erotic pleasure through direct stimulation of their genitals. Boys generally discover that their penises are dynamos of pleasure around age five. Hence many boys instinctively learn to masturbate at that age. While most boys achieve successful orgasm and ejaculation of semen during their adolescence, some achieve dry orgasms through masturbation at age nine or ten or even earlier. Hence boys derive sexual pleasure primarily through stimulation of their genitals. This sort of direct genital stimulation even continues when boys begin having sex with girls or other boys, even into their adulthood. However some males discover pleasure through stimulation of their erogenous zones, including stimulation of their nipples by themselves or through sexual relations with an understanding and loving partner. I didn’t discover the thrill of eroticism of stimulating my erogenous zones until I began working with Aneros five plus years ago.

Rewiring (and perhaps nipples)

So I had just finished an AMAZING session today (writhing, moaning, immense pleasure! Still no super O yet, though!) and I got to thinking: How do you know you’re rewired? Rewiring is mentioned on the Aneros wiki, and its been mentioned here too, so I’m just wondering the threshold here?

And speaking of which: I had heard that guys nipples get hella sensitive when they have been using the aneros for a while. Now, my nipples have NEVER been an androgynous zone for me. My wife has tried rubbing my nipple during foreplay, and it barely registered that she was touching them. Since starting my aneros use, that really hasnt changed…until sorta recently. They arent “sexy” zones yet, but I have noticed that they are more sensitive (a tad). What got me thinking about it, though, is that during a particularly nice p-wave, I actually felt them tingling. Like, totally isolated, separate tingling from the rest of the great feelings centered entirely on my nipples. It was faint, but there.

I tried playing with them a bit then, but it sort of went away. They were sensitive a bit, but nothing feeling “good”. Just feeling. Anyone else feeling this? Or has someone went from “Nipples? Meh.” to “Nipples?? Aww yeah!”? Im wondering if I am slowly “rewiring”, as they say.

October 10 Columbus Day session, with super hot Aless following

Hi guys,

Sunday morning, yesterday, in the hours following sunrise, our first true autumn weather arrived with blustery winds which cleared away the days of high humidity, cloudy, and drizzly weather. By mid morning, we had bright sunshine and clear skies with hardly a cloud in the sky. When I arrived back home yesterday afternoon, the apartment felt cold. I woke up this morning feeling like an icicle. I had to wait for the noon hour for the temps to rise to the upper 50’s before I could attempt a session.

The session began at 12:30 and ended at 1:30 or thereabouts, about an hour. I used in order Progasm ICE, Maximus, and Progasm Classic. It’s been a while since I used Progasm ICE to begin a session. Insertion was easy because of the sleekness of Progasm Classic. I rode that model for about 20 minutes. It was a fairly good ride and it didn’t slip out which it tends to do.

Then I used Maximus, and wow! Maximus slipped to the hilt in one gentle penetrating thrust. It seemed to hit a spot of pleasure that I hadn’t noticed before. Plus Maximus reached around my prostate once again as in other previous session. Hence, I was in business as Maximus became once again the Energizer Bunny that he is. I allowed Maximus to massage and exercise me in his own way. Waves of electric pleasure ensued. Maximus was doing some amazing things I hadn’t noticed before.

Change

Just over a week ago, I decided to change to the Vice that I purchased about month ago. At first, I didn’t like the Vice much, the vibrations were a distraction, but because I enjoy sitting at my computer with an Aneros inserted, the Vice (without the vibrator inserted) is the perfect partner As it doesn’t have those stick-up bits that can hurt. So I inserted it whilst doing my Tax on the computer, and WoW, I started having mino O right there. I would have to stop work and just enjoy the waves of pleasure flowing through me. It is easier, whilst seated, to move the Vice inside me, to stimulate the prostate.

On the Monday, I was travelling for business and decided to take my new found friend (Vice) with me. I enjoyed a week of imence pleasure every night with MMO after MMO, 4, 5, or 6 MMO’s. These were all less intense than the SuperO i had recently, but none the less, very enjoyable.

The place where I stayed had a swimming pool and I wondered what it would be like to swin with the Vice inserted. I thought about the hygene aspect, for other people who would also be using the pool. But the Aneros would seal the anus, preventing anything from coming out, so I inserted it, using a gel lubricant and went down to pool.

Involuntaries/P-waves

So, what exactly do Involuntaries/P-waves FEEL like? I’m so confused because I sometimes feel like I’m in control of the rhythmic contractions, and I have to actively not think about them to let them go on, otherwise they will stop. Help!

Holy shit. Holy. Shit.

Ok, so I’ve been trying to use my Aneros more lately. It’s tricky, being married with two kids, to find time to set aside an hour or so to just lay down, relax, and enjoy myself. I’m also trying to balance hobbies and such, and some evenings I quite simply have to choose between hobbies and aneros time. And I value my hobbies, so the Aneros is only getting love once a week, at most.

However, last night I decided to indulge. Kids went to bed, the wife was watching her dumb shows, and I went to lay down. And it was the best session I had experienced. I’m still getting mostly just P-waves, but it’s amazing how sticking with it has you make some progress, little by little. And I was laying down for about 2 hours, and finally I had to get up. Whew. It was amazing.

Until today.

You see, at work I got a little frisky thinking of my progasm. So I made some flimsy excuse about going home for lunch for errands, and I drove home for lunch (10 minute commute FTW). I got home and it was quiet. I laid down, carefully slipped it in, and put on my headphones with a binaural beat youtube video “designed” for prostate stimulation.

Yes, I realize that binaural beats are, basically, total bullshit, but the noise DOES help me block out outside noises and concentrate on the fun. So they might not sync up my tantric energy, or something else about universe energy, but they help in some way.

First Aless Orgasm

According to the Glossary on the Wiki site, ALESS means Aneros Less. or without an Aneros.

Last night I went to bed and I didn’t insert my favourite Progasm toy. For those who are following my progress, I have been sleeping with my Progasm inserted and last week I awoke in the middle of the night and had my first MMO experience.

Well, last night I awoke at about 4am and felt the warm P waves building, I lay there enjoying the experience while they increased and increased in intensity and then into a nice mini dry orgasm. My hard started to pound, my breathing became deep and heavy and it felt like I had cum, but there was nothing more than a dribble of pre-cum. It was shortly followed by another one. They didn’t last very long, probably 30 seconds, but it was very pleasant.

What amazed me was there was no Aneros inside me. And it all happened relatively involuntary. I say relatively, because I now can recognise the little sensations to focus my mind on and they do build when you focus on them.

It is like my body has learnt how to do it now and has taken over – I am just a passenger going along for the ride.

Energizer Bunnies Maximus and Progasm Classic: Super-O’s and MMO’s!

Hi guys,

Early this morning I believe I had a session in which I achieving some major breakthroughs! Achieving Super-O’s and MMO’s with Maximus and Progasm Classic! And also being able to replicate all this in Aless!

As I said in my previous blog entry, yesterday’s weather was blah with overcast skies with a touch of autumn in the air. I cold front passed through around midnight Thursday which cleared the record setting heat and humidity of the day before. Yesterday we had a day that we hadn’t seen since mid May! I had felt unwell. Finally I had to take a couple naps and then have an early bedtime last night.

However, I woke up around midnight and then listened to my radio for a couple hours. Finally I got up at 2 a.m., dressed, and intended to do translation work till dawn. Instead Aneros horniness hit me as I remembered my encounter with Progasm early yesterday morning.

So I had an 1.5 hour session with Maximus and Program Classic. I have gotten to the point that both these models insert easily in their unique ways, and so I was in business. Maximus is just as long as Progasm but more slender. Maximus penetrates deeply and so is intensely satisfying. But in this session, I discovered a knack with the various Aneros models. Let them work for you according to the needs of your body as activated by your psyche. It is said that the human brain is “the” sex organ. So this morning I rode Maximus in a new, refreshing way which produced waves of pleasure that felt like Super-O’s and MMO’s!