Weird Science!

Weird Science !!

So much to write, so little time.

For you Catholics out there, “It’s been 1.5 days since my last orgasm…” (grin)

During that last go–round 1.5 days ago, I had an intense 2 hr session with a Helix, then another 1 hr one A–Less. Unfortunately toward the end of the A–Less session, I felt like I had been arousing my penis too much and had an inkling that I’d get to a wet orgasm if I didn’t stop. But you’re never sure. Anyway I just didn’t want to stop so eventually, I think I came to the point of no return for a wet orgasm. My penis was rock hard, and I ‘d let up on the dry–orgasms, but I could just feel an ejaculation coming, so lay back and relaxed and came, then cleaned up and went about my business. Ejaculations during regular Dry–O’s have a frustrating quality in that the semen, whether it surges out or not, always continues to dribble out drop by drop for a few minutes afterward. I go commando, and a drop of that stuff makes a visible wet stain, and just starts to smell like old semen after a while. Uugghh.

So anyway to today. I’d started feeling pwaves while driving yesterday and figured my body was ready for more, so I’d planned a Helix session last night (Figured I’d try the Helix again after the last intense one). But as the evening went by I started feeling sick to my stomach. Something I’d eaten?. So I went to sleep without any orgasm activity at all.

Spine Tingling Excitement!

Another interesting day.

Last night I tried to have a session at bedtime, but it just fizzled out. It started OK. I had felt pwaves driving about 12 hours earlier in the day, but wasn't feeling horny at the moment. So did a bunch of PC contractions and did feel the prostate warming up.

Used nipple stim and a new thing I learned from @Turnrow which is to rub/squeeze/stroke the base of the penis shaft. Was first time trying that, and I was getting really strong pwaves from both the nipples and the penis, but took maybe 15 minutes before any DO took off. Then had maybe another 15 minutes of Dos – nothing great, then it just seemed to fizzle out.

My prostate/groin area just felt like it was overworked – fatigued – not sore, but spent. So rolled over and went to sleep.

But then in the morning, I woke up and was just lying there and fingering my penis as I like ot do (just enjoy feeling the curves and different skin types…Guess I'd be doing that to breasts too if there were any next to me – grin). Anyway, so out of nowhere, an short orgasmic feeling starts up, but immediately my PC muscles clamp down and it's gone! AARRGGHH.

Transition between plateau and super-O?

Hello,

so I have been using a few of the aneros toys over the past years and couldn't get anywhere. Lately, after reading a few posts here on reddit, I could get a bit further and it's really beginning to feel awesome. My main issue was that I was clenching a bit too much with my PC and sphincter muscles. That meant that the automatic contractions where too strong and this didn't help. I just had to fine tune my grip to a bit less, just where the muscles would move the toy just a bit but not more.

So, last days I had a couple of good sessions where I got those big nice waves of pleasure all over my body but I'm pretty sure there is more to it.

I would like to know from you guys what kind of transition you observe over your body and muscles when you get into the “super-O” phase. I think I'm at the plateau just before and then my body starts to shake all around and the toy is banging so hard that I loose the sensation.

Should I relax my muscles a bit more so that I don't get that shaking at all, or should I keep the same grip?

What are your experiences?

Thanks

TLDR: What change in muscle patterns and strenght do you observe between plateau before super-O and during super-O

Turned another corner?

Here's some of a post comment I made this morning then I added some comments at the end. Pasted it here instead of rewriting the whole thing.

Seemed to turn some kind of a corner last night and this morning.

I think my prostate was still warmed up from the last evening. I don't think I did any kegels first.

Guys, thanks for your posts! It was just at the right time to pick up something you said !

Turnrow, after I read your email yesterday, I followed some of your threads and came across this one.

I'd heard people encouraging to relax but )with my impatience( I never went anywhere with it.

I Probably haven’t experienced the super–O’s yet, but this evening I tried what you described smudgefish, and went into Dry–orgasms from it.

[Quote from smudgefish: I think it was @Canacan who described relaxing every muscle, and the relaxing even more, which is pretty much what I did; someone else has described it as going 'floppy'.]

So in my first try, After about a minute of trying to relax this way, I felt pwaves and the start of a dry–O. But then I immediately I lost it, like you mentioned Smudgefish, I just tensed up against them, and this kept on happening )which mad me more tense(…

Egg )or some other protein( on face…

Well, I maybe can see why the old timers say not to touch your penis…

Argh, frustrating. I had a "quickie" session yesterday evening with my Helix. I shouldn't have had the session anyway, since I'd had two in 1.5 days and I think I really needed some groin R&R.

But I'd had such success with incorporating penis stimulation in A–Less sessions so I tried this time too with the Helix. However this time, I ended up ejaculating just when I thought it might be escalating toward something like a super–O. Nope. That wasn't what was going on. Was a strong regular orgasm though!

I didn't do my normal prostate warm up because I didn't have a lot of time. And, all it took to start pwaves was on nipple touch since it was so soon after my last session.( But I know I've found in the past that if I hurry things along and don't let the prostate really get properly aroused, then any penis stimulation turns into just jacking off.

So, me newbie. I'm beginning to wonder if stimulating the penis isn't just a dead end rabbit trail since I've heard it cautioned over and over not to use your penis…

I know also that in the past, when the Helix is inserted, there's so much more stimulation going on just by it being there, as opposed to an A–Less session.

Expanding the Envelope

[Didn't proff read this…]

Had a 3 hour A–Less session last night. Then when I woke up this morning, my prostate was so hot yet that I just played with one nipple and went right into a Dry–O. So I kept it up for another hour this morning.

Highlights: All of the following happened AFTER my prostate was so hot that just about any groin move would cause pwaves and or prostate pleasure. And seemed like the prostate was engorged because I could always seem to feel pressure down there. In the morning, my prostate was still in this condition.

Also, FYI I kept checking my scrotum when I was using penis stimulation, and if it started turtling or the balls started pulling up, I backed off so I wouldn't build up to ejaculation or blue-balls.

So, Last night, I tried to progressively stimulate more of the glans, and by the end of the evening, found I could rub and touch all of the glans and the sides of the penis without turtling my balls. Grabbed it and rubbed it and handled it a lot. The only think I stayed away from is rubbing the frenulum since that caused pwaves that seemed close to jerking off for ejaculation. In the morning session though, I did try that a little and it's 50/50 in my mind whether I'll ever rewire the frenulum to the prostate instead of to eventual ejaculation… The jury's still out!

Think I realize now why it’s called “Riding”!

So last night, I wanted to have an A–Less O session, but things just weren’t working. I went through 600 PC contractions #1 1–9, #2 1–9, etc. and started getting a few little pwaves at the end, but nothing that would move into an O.

Was Frustrated, but figured there’d be other better days so dropped off to sleep.

Woke up 5 hours later, around 6am, and out of habit grabbed my dick with a couple fingers )I like to drift off to sleep like that occasionally(, but instead felt a pwave )!!(.

So followed it, and wound up with a 15 min rolling intense penis DO, and I kept my fingers around the base of my now erect dick because I was afraid the O would slip away otherwise, but it didn’t.

Waited a few min afterward to relax, and then another 15 min rolling DO started )!!(. OK, but as I was enjoying this one, I kept feeling pwaves as my dick head brushed the sheets as I was moving around. Hmmm…

So I moved my fingers to lightly touch the left & right edge of the glans and touched/rubbed the pee–hole occasionally as I had found in previous sessions, and the rolling O kept going… Whew. OK. Kept getting pre–lube drops from my dick and that allowed me to keep rubbing & touching the parts of the glans without chaffing anything. Also, used moving my hips around/rolling ’em to follow the prostate pwave.

First involuntary twitches during a Dry-O

Last night tried to have an Aless session and nothing worked. Dud.

This morning, was just feeling up my penis like I often like to do )enjoy feeling the shapes and different skin types, folds of skin, etc(, and noticed a pwave! So figured I oughta check it out.

Rubbed & tickled the outside edge of the glans for a minute and went into a mild penis dry–O, so figured the power's on! So enjoyed that one for maybe 5 min, then had 4 – 5 more really intense ones over 45 minutes. Testicals started turtling if I rubbed my frenulum or front of the glans )which for me always leads to ejaculation )or blue balls ARGH( (, but not if I only played with the left and right edges and top of the glans.

These Orgasms started with a strong PC contraction and pulling in of my groin, then thrust out with solid erection, then slow moving grinding/thrusting in/out, rolling side to side, etc. No semen, but drop or two of pre–lube with each orgasm or each major grind. My testicals weren't turtling up either.

Was really satisfying and pleasurable. Didn't need to stimulate my pee–hole this time to cause them, but the times I did, that would set off another round. During one of these, I spent like 5 minutes solid with a hard erection, just slowly moving my groin in and out with several drops of pre–lube coming out of the tip.

Prostate Massage

My situation is the more I cum the more I need to cum. It is kind of a use it or lose it state of being. So after a ball draining hand job the night before last, my desire last night was steaming and hissing like an old radiator on a cold winter morning. When J and I got in bed I doused the light, and she cuddled up against me and put her hand on my chest. I reached up and put my own hand on top of hers in a reassuring pat. After a few minutes I kissed her forehead.

My sexuality has been evolving and shifting over time. The nature of my desire has swayed as it has increased each year. It has been a process of expanding need as I sought edgier and edgier experiences. The path has led me to the most extreme thing I have done so far, engaging in M-M sex a few times. Having reached that watershed I feel like it is the end of the experimentation phase of my sex life. The last few months have witnessed me turning to more and more inward and intimate relations with my wife and a move away from male involvement. It is a welcomed home coming to female intimate connection.

She began to be involved in my MMO sessions a couple of years ago as an active participant and has been a willing passive participant several times a week. We have never done anal sex on her but she does love both cunnilingus and analingus. Most of the edgier sex we have done has been on me.

A*N*E*R*O*S is happening!

I went for it again overnight as I was ready and knew I would get the most session time as needed. The wife dozed off and I lubed up. This time I went straight to the family room couch. I quickly went into a blissful session. My prostate swelled up and took the Syn for a ride. I really would like to add some expletives that are not appropriate in my blog especially if the lady reads this. But my goodness it is an awesome experience to pleasure oneself. I went further than the last 2 homerun sessions. I was hitting homeruns with men on base. Wow I am still now A-less riding the P-waves and having mini's since I left for work. I can not have imagined that my bottom owns my sexual being. I got back into bed as the early alarm went off. Now I want to leave work early and go home and have another rock my world session with my Aneros. There is more to come and I am the way. SoFunLoving