As I recounted in the first post in this series, it took me several years after I first discovered prostate orgasms until I learned to be able to have them on a regular basis. But what exactly is a prostate orgasm?
For that matter, what exactly is an orgasm? It is important to understand, first of all, that, even in men,* orgasm is different from ejaculation. It is possible for a man to ejaculate without experiencing the sort of pleasure we associate with orgasm, and it is also possible for a man to experience the pleasure of an orgasm without ejaculating. Importantly, these “dry” orgasms typically are not followed, as ejaculatory orgasms usually are, by a “refractory” phase, during which sexual arousal is essentially impossible, no matter how much additional sexual stimulation one receives. That is, while “dry” orgasms do release some sexual tension, they do not release of all of it. Additional stimulation will increase arousal, and one can have another “dry” orgasm very shortly afterwards. Men who have these sorts of orgasms are thus able to have multiple orgasms, much the same way that many women are.
There is a good deal of debate within the medical and psychological community about how orgasm should be defined. Everyone agrees that orgasm involves both physiological and psychological components: certain sorts of rhythmic contractions of muscles in the pelvic region, and an intense experience of sensual pleasure. The debate centers on which of these really is the orgasm: the physiological part or the psychological part? We know the two can come part. So the question is: Can you have an orgasm without feeling it? If the orgasm is the physiological response, then you can. If it’s the psychological response, then you can’t.
For our purposes, it doesn’t matter very much how this question is answered. What does matter is that the two components of orgasm are closely related. Part of what feels so good are those rhythmic muscular contractions. Who knows why, but we humans experience them as extremely pleasurable. Anything that triggers such contractions, then, will thereby trigger at least part of the experience of orgasm.
And it turns out that one way to cause such contractions is to stimulate the prostate. A prostate orgasm, then, is simply an orgasm that is brought about through stimulation of the prostate.
My own experience is that prostate orgasms feel very different from ejaculatory orgasms. Part of the reason, I’d guess, is that many groups of muscles are involved in orgasmic contraction. Probably one of the reasons different orgasms can feel so different is that different groups of muscles are involved on different occasions. It wouldn’t be surprising if only some of the muscles that contract during ejaculatory orgasms do so during prostate orgasms. That does not mean that they feel less good, but only that they feel different.
More interestingly, many men say that prostate orgasms have a “whole body” quality that ejaculatory orgasms usually lack. Indeed, men often describe prostate orgasms in ways that sound very much like how women describe their orgasms. In my case, prostate orgasms are not centered on my penis and testicles, the way that ejaculatory orgasms usually are. Rather, they feel as if they start deep within my pelvis and then spread throughout my body, enveloping and enfolding me with waves and waves of pleasure.
Many men also report that prostate orgasms last longer than ejaculatory orgasms. Scholarly consensus is that ejaculatory orgasms, for most men, last about 10-15 seconds. A typical prostate orgasm, for me, seems to last about 20 seconds, and it is not at all unusual for them to last 30 seconds or more. I have had prostate orgasms, in fact, that lasted for over two minutes, and some of these ended only because I felt so overwhelmed that I had to stop.
And, as said earlier, most men find that they can have multiple prostate orgasms, because there is no, or only a very little, “downtime”. In my case, I often feel as if I need a rest, simply because the orgasm I’ve just experienced has left me somewhat drained. But sometimes, it leaves me energized, and I am able just to keep stimulating my prostate, so that a second orgasm may follow the first within thirty seconds or so. I don’t think I’ve ever had more than three orgasms in a row like that. )By then, I really was ready for a rest!( And I often find that, even if I do pause in between, if I’ve had a few orgasms from one kind of stimulation, I need to switch to something else if I’m going to continue. Fortunately, there are a lot of different ways to stimulate the prostate, so you have a lot to choose from.
There’s another kind of anal orgasm I’ve experienced as well, and which is worth mentioning here, especially because it is a kind of orgasm that women too can enjoy, since it doesn’t involve the prostate. I call it a “peristaltic” orgasm. Peristalsis is the process through which contractions conspire to move something through a tube. It’s peristalsis, for example, that moves food and then waste through the intestines. And it would seem that at least some of the muscles that are involved in peristaltic processes in the rectum are also involved in orgasm. So, again, if you can find a way to trigger those sorts of contractions, you thereby trigger at least part of the experience of orgasm.
Tag: Peridise
More Aneros positions: Sitting, Standing, Lying on Belly, and Doggie
Hi guys,
In the last couple weeks, I have taken a quantum leap in my Anerosing with the adoption of new Aneros positions in my sessions. In this post, I will enumerate briefly all the Aneros positions I now use, often to great effect!
- Lying on my back. This position I have used almost from the very beginning of my sessions which commenced in early June 2013.
I found that placing a folded pillow underneath my butt is a great help in Anerosing. I find that lying on my back is an “active position.” I can engage in nipple stimulation and caressing other erogenous zones such as hairy pecs, abs, thighs, pubic area, and scrotum. Such erotic stimulation has fueled my Anerosing in a most powerful way.
Later I discovered that lying on my back is great as well as hosting my legs up in the area or even up to my chest works very well. - Lying on my right side in the fetal position. This is my preferred position for sleeping. Many guys use this position for the Do-Nothing Technique, I believe, because it is a passive Aneros position. Here I just let my Aneros work on my anal musculature, sphincters, and prostate. In a way, this position resembles sitting in a chair, although on my side. Hence this position, I have discovered, is ideal for both Maximus and Progasm Classic, as both these big guys autof**k me in subtle, yet sweet fashion. When the winter temperatures moderate into warmer spring temps, I’ll use this position for sleeping with my Aneros tools.
Do Nothing Aneros Technique and Two New Aneros Positions
Hi guys,
From almost the very beginning of my Aneros sessions more than eighteen months ago, I have been using the Aneros position of lying on my back with a folded pillow to support my butt. I also used four pillows to support my upper body and head. That position has worked very well as training for my Anerosing. I say this because this position works especially for active Anerosing.
Then shortly after Thanksgiving last, when I began using Peridise and Tempo in my sessions, I discovered that I could use these two models comfortably inserted while sitting at my PC. Soon after, I discovered that Progasm Junior works equally well in this position. The sitting position utilizes both active Anerosing and just letting these models work by themselves without doing much of anything. These three Aneros models produced new pleasurable feelings never experienced before. These new feelings are centered in the autof**k action of these three models which produce an insistent rhythm closely akin at times to a drumbeat.
I applied the rhythmic f**k action of Peridise, Tempo, and Progasm Junior to my other Aneros models which both enhanced and transformed my Aneros sessions.
Finally just about a week or so ago, I discovered the lying on your right side in the fetal position with my Aneros models inserted. I found that Maximus and Progasm Classic works very well in this position. Lying on your side makes for passivity in Anerosing. It is closely akin to the Do Nothing Approach. It is amazing to see and feel both Maximus and Progasm Classic autof**k me with slow, long strokes which are insistent. All this may lead me toward my first Super-O's very soon.
Change and Transformation in my Aneros sessions
Hi guys,
Yesterday morning, guys, I experimented with positions and experienced some really awesome new Aneros sensations.
For as a preliminary word of explanation, in the Peridise Full Set, there are four Peridise models labeled from left to right: P1, P2, P3, and P4. They are equal length but P1 has the largest head. P1 is the suggested model for Peridise beginners. In my sessions since Thanksgiving I have been using P1 and P2.
To be brief, I experimented sitting with some of my models inserted while at my PC. The Peridise models, the Tempo, and Progasm Junior are ideal for this. I came away from my new position with some amazing sensations.
Then I laid on my side with my models inserted. Laying on your side while Anerosing is preferred by most guys. I experienced some amazing involuntaries with Eupho Syn. This is a position I must pursue in coming sessions.
However, we had another absolutely dark, gloomy, and rainy day. It is the foul weather we have had too much here this winter. The weather put a real damper in my session yesterday.
So for now on, I will limit myself to two or three models in sessions. I also plan to short my sessions to possibly 90 minutes. I am making these two big changes to add focus and concentration to my sessions.
Spa Day
Today was a Spa Day. My wife was going shopping, and I enjoyed a big part of the day during which I was alone and could enjoy myself. I began with a tiny puff of herb, then followed with a quick shower. I closed off the bedroom and turned on a small heater to let things warm up a bit.
It wasn’t long before I was ready for my first session with the Helix Syn in several weeks. I’d done some Anerosless sessions and a Peridise session, but otherwise, I hadn’t had much in the way of opportunities.
My sessions tend to be fairly short, a half hour to 45 minutes. But when I can have a Spa Day, I usually stop, rest, have some tea or a bath, then have a second session a bit later. So it literally becomes several hours of pleasure.
It was a bit tight getting the Helix Syn in, though I’d lubed pretty liberally. Once in, though, it went wild. I began with some very light nipple touches. I just graze my thumbs over them, then wait for the echoes and waves, wait, then do it again. Very quickly I began having small orgasms, and they became bigger and more powerful. Some seemed to rival the biggest I’ve ever had, and then they began running together. I told myself to relax and enjoy this, I give myself permission to have this pleasure.
Recent Aneros Milestones
Hi guys,
It has been a very long time since I have posted entries to my Aneros blog here. I believe the last entry I posted was sometime late last summer.
The blog entry will be just summary of milestones I have achieved since then:
The first milestone occurred early last summer when I acquired Progasm Junior, Eupho Syn, and DeVice as additions to my Aneros Team. DeVice is a silicone version of Progasm without the battery found in Aneros Vice. In a way, it is the thickest model in the Aneros line, but it is still comfortable to use. Now I use DeVice occasionally, but perhaps I'll use him more often now that I am having sessions at least six days a week.
The second milestone occurred about mid October. I live in Georgetown here in DC near the epicenter of politics. We experienced a shutdown of federal government agencies due to political wrangling in Congress which was perhaps the most ugly I have ever seen. I quickly fell into a deep funk. During these two weeks, I had no Aneros sessions. But shortly after the Columbus Day Weekend holiday, I decided to have a session. I was afraid that it would be a dud, it had been so long. I started this session with Eupho Syn. He worked on me like never before. I was off and running at a much greater level of sophistication and pleasure like never before!
Interesting …
With my wife out shopping for a couple of hours, I thought it was a good time to take a brisk canter with my trusty steed.
Cleaned up, lubed, and inserted, only having the slippery dickens shoot out once this time. It only took a couple of minutes before my anal sphincter was nibbling at it by itself.
Tried the trick of telling it to move from one side of the prostate to the other, and having it obey without trying to do it by working the muscles. Feels good.
Gradual build-up of excitement, starting me flopping after about ten minutes. Rolled from side to back. Now it started riding me. into rolling super-O's letting it work its will on me. Onto my belly, I was thrusting wildly, with the sensation of being fucked by a sweet lover, with my sex undetermined. It felt like I had a pussy being loved. That's gooooddd.
Knowing that my would be coming home before too ling, I didn't let myself totally bliss out, but rolled onto my back, and enjoyed my ecstasy for a while. Then I noticed that it was no longer riding me, the orgasms were farther apart, my base level dropped from 7 to about 3, as I had noticed with the peridise on an earlier ride.
Ya cain't never tell …
My knee was giving me fits in the morning, and I took two alleve tabs. When my wife went shopping, i thought it was a good time to relax … I cleaned and lubed and put in the smallest peridise. But instead of howling ecstasy, I just got a couple of mini-O's and one small thrash. After a good whil lying there dozingly, I gave up and moved to the next size up. Again, I had my pc's playing soccer with the bulb, and went nowhere but to sleep. Gave up, cleaned up. and my wife came home.
I'm suspecting that the Alleve interferes with more than pain coming up the nerves.
However, when I went to bed, I was thinking of telling my internist about my newly found gift of calling up dry orgasms at will, tried calling up a couple of p-waves that brought minis, licked the end of my finger, WOOOO! I got a Aneless super that kept me rolling with p-waves and supers for an hour before I collapsed into sleep!
Now I'm sort of scared of what the Eupho Syn will do to me next time it rides me. Last time, I was hallucinating I was in a woman's body having intercourse with my beloved. And I haven't had a dick in me since high school when my best friend and I, with inadequate lube, tried to find out what sex felt like.
This is absurd
Well, I gave it a rest for a couple of days, and tried the peridise again. After about half an hour of just letting it happen and settling in, I was howling at the moon. )Quietly, my wife was asleep in her room( I was having a super-O every pwave, my consciousness expanding to fill the room, locked with a hard belly for about 20 seconds, and either getting harder into it if I did anal contractions, )like the last involuntary push into her at the end of your ejaculation( or relaxing into convulsive spasms and bounces for about 10 seconds or so.
I was feeling experimental … I know ears are erotic for some people. I flicked my right earlobe a couple of times and it set off a pwave. WOW! About 15 years ago, I was off on a new job and separated from the family; so I did a lot of experimentation with my sensuality. I could ejaculate by jacking off the forefinger of my left had. I guess there was enough conditioned reflex from the right hand stroking it. So, for the hell of it; I tried giving that finger a blow job, and just licking the tip was enough to set me off.
Second ride, Helix Syn
Well, after my first helix ride last week, I was feeling pretty beat-up around the prostate, and figured I'd let myself recover for a week before trying it again. I had a couple of sessions with the smallest peridise, and the peaks were not as they had been. )Still very nice(. Including a wet one Saturday night.
But, last night, my tail seemed to be in fine fettle, and yearning for something substantial. So, very late, I prepared , lubed, and inserted. I don't have total control yet; twice the helox squirted out as I rolled over from position to position. That may have lubed the perineum tab; so It didn't anchor. But i was in no state to calmly examine it.
After about 20 minutes, I was in a blissed-out state; cruising along at about 7 out of 10, peaking with superO's on the waves that I was in no shape to count. After )I guess( about an hour, I decided it was time to ejaculate; so I gave it a shot. Having an old reproductive system producing scant bodily fluids, I didn't load up and fire, bit I did have a yummy one, releasing the shot of relaxing and happiness hormones that we all know so well.