Tag: Perineum

My Sexual Trinity

There are so many aspects to rewiring I don’t know if I can cover them all or provide adequate description of them all. It would be like trying to describe life itself or the meaning of sex. But at three years into this journey, aside from the mental changes and the changes in my sexual outlook, the most significant impact of rewiring on me was my experience of the sensation of sexual pleasure.

By the time I hit my third year of Aneros practice I had been experiencing orgasm and serious sexual pleasure for 30+ years. For me the focus of that pleasure was my cockhead and the first 3 inches of my cock behind my cockhead. Masturbation was a race to the ejaculatory “finish line” and the ceremonious spewing of a rope of semen.

As I described in the previous entry, the rewired me experienced sex in an entirely new way. The two most significant changes in my experience of sexual pleasure were: (1) the slowing down of my sensory systems and the shift in my perception of those sensory systems. The outside world gets shut out; all I can feel or sense is the pleasure inside my body. Everything outside my body ceases to exist, I feel totally isolated and contained inside my skin. As reality fades from my awareness I am transported inside my mind to a state of perfect happiness in a hazy soft idyllic place and (2) my physical experience of sexual sensation expands. No longer is my penis the nexus of my sensations, they are felt across the landscape of my body with particular expression in my cock root and cock slit, my nipples and my anal canal. Read more »

Kegeling and Diddling in a Jock and Cup

Hi guys,

About a week or two ago, I composed a blog entry on how to choose correctly the best fit jock and cup for your gonads and cock. Tonight I declare that both items are ideal for Kegels and Diddling yourself.

Ordinary jockstraps and jocks with pockets for holding athletic cups are ideal for the Kegel Exercises and for the pleasures of diddling your nipples. Athletic supporters and cup jocks have the elasticity of material in the waistbands, leg straps, and pouches that facilitate the Kegels and enhance the pleasure of nipple diddling. If you are wearing an athletic cup for contact sports or a cup for maintaining your chastity or sexual continence, just be sure that such cups and their jock cup holder fit your genitalia as perfectly as possible. An ill-fitting jock and cup combo may be downright uncomfortable and lessens the beneficial effects of the Kegels and even your diddling.

Kegeling and diddling in a jock and cup is ideal any time of the day, say sitting at my PC, or sitting on a couch watching TV, or even walking outdoors in a natural fashion. A cup bulge in your jeans or slacks may be noticeable, or even obscene, but heck, you are doing something good for yourself, and it is certainly health promoting.

@goldenboy has inspired me to wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. Kegeling and diddling in the still of the night are indeed sweet and powerful. @darkbond through his daily Kegel routine has inspired to look at the Kegel Exercises anew. Take care! Read more »

Progasm p-tab modification question

A couple days ago I gave my new progasm ice for its first ride and enjoyed it immensely. However, I noticed that the perineum tab on it is nearly a finger’s width away from making contact. It is fully inserted and the rear k-tab applies noticeable pressure. Though I enjoyed my first couple times with it, I cannot help but wonder if I am missing out without the external stimulation.

I have seen people mention that some people modify their aneros in comments here and in the aneros forums, but have not been able to find any with specific examples/descriptions of what was done, why, and or how. So I have a few questions for you fellow pleasure seekers.

Has anybody else encountered this issue with the progasm?
Did it lead you modify it and if so how did you go about doing it?
Were you successful or not in your attempts?
Does anybody have any links to threads that already cover the above? (I can really only go online on mobile so that maybe my issue in finding it)
Any other just general progasm tips or experiences you’d like to share?

Also, thanks so much to all of you that take the time to share your journey. It sure has helped me along in mine.

Another step in the climb to bliss

Damn it, I was …………this close.

There I was standing to take my last pee before going to bed when she decided to say hello. I could feel helix starting to ever so slightly move around causing my prostate to say “Hay, what is this? OOOOOHHHH this feels interesting, I’m going to let the brain know this feels quite nice. A tingle started that changed to almost an itch than changed again to a feeling I don’t know how to describe but it was starting to expand to an almost glow. Out of nowhere I heard “I need to use the bathroom also”. SHIT!!!!! it all went away just like that.

Got into bed and waited for this to hopefully restart. Nothing. Left, right, back, even tried the front. Nothing. So what to do? Do what I know works. Glance at the clock it’s after 12 now. I really should roll over and sleep but nope I need an orgasm of some type. I reach down and start massaging the sweet spot ever so lightly but my finger keeps bumping into the p-tab and each time it makes something happen inside. I stop massaging and grab the p-tab and ever so gently rock it back and forth, just enough to make the head jiggle against my prostate. The feelings I had just 45 minutes before started to return. A tingle, an itch, than the feelings of electricity reaching back to my anus. I let go and ever so gently contract/release, wait, again. The sensations slowly changed to a feeling I knew from external massage, this was moving into an orgasmic feeling. I have had more intense by hand but this was the first time that one was sustained by the tool only no hands involved. This was enough to make me satisfied, I had opened a door if ever so slightly. By the time these sensations ended it was after 1 something. Read more »

I was given another puzzle piece.

I was enjoying myself Friday night, riding my waves of induced pleasure when out of nowhere helix gets sucked up hard… Let me explain what I mean

Seems my prostate still hasn’t decided to join the party yet. How do I know this. After spending multiple times doing nothing, and nothing happening except the random twinge, this can be the only answer. Now don’t think I’m getting frustrated because of this, I’m not. I feel that I’m still ahead of the curve. So in the mean time I’ll do both, some do nothing and some external massage of the sweet spot inducing orgasmic bliss. Doing this is cheating but not interfering with progressing as this point is going to get stimulated in the process and allows me to work on the amount of contraction required to get the involuntary’s going plus the head is dancing around on the pleasure center.

So as I was saying, I was enjoying some light bliss, when without warning helix was thrust deep inside. My orgasmic sensation went away which I thought was strange but was presented with a new sensation. I had been holding a 50% contraction when this happened. I could feel my anal & rectal muscles moving in opposite directions in flowing waves like they were fingers trying to learn about what they now felt. This was the first time when I stopped massaging that a feeling didn’t stop at the same time. I’m unsure of how long this lasted, seconds perhaps? This did stop when I slowly started to release the contraction to completion when I tried to just relax and let it flow. I think If I had just held the same 50% these waves would have lasted much longer but having never experienced it before I was unsure what to do with them, I won’t make that mistake in the future. Read more »

latest encounters

It has been a few days since my last entry so here we go.

Monday 12/3. I planned all day to have a meeting with my new friend, I was excited to see if we could return to a few days prior. While in the shower I joined up with my friend and it was smooth and easy. Helix slid in so gently, wanting to be together with me, feeling like an old lover who new all your subtle curves. Once fully locked in embrace my friend just disappeared, I could feel the slight movements letting me know she was home. Curled up in bed to start a sensual dance but my lover decided that all she wanted was to penetrate with no movement, cuddle with me and be in the moment. We drifted to sleep never making a sound or releasing our embrace. Read more »

How to choose your jockstrap size and your cup size correctly

Hi guys,

Over last weekend, @SOwithoutAneros sent me a PM on how to choose your jockstrap and your cup size correctly. He seemed bashful in asking me his questions. So I answered him matter-of-factly giving him all sorts of information from web sites selling jocks and cups in the USA, UK, and even in Australia. I hope he found my e-mail helpful.

This blog entry is a summary of the information I gave him.

Ordinary jockstraps worn by men come in sizes of medium, large, extra-large (XL), and even XXL and XXXL. They are the waist sizes of guys. Guys may buy jocks in medium or large. The waist and leg straps secure the fit of the jock whereas the jock pouch holds a guy’s genital. Thus a jockstrap should fit securely but not too tightly. That would be downright uncomfortable for a guy. A jockstrap is ideal for holding a guy’s erection. Just be sure to wear your cock in a up position or the twelve o’clock position.

Men and boys normally wear a jock and cup for contact sports, but quite a few of us wear such for fetish reasons, or just because they feel real good. Hence they wear them for everyday wear.

Originally athletic cups came in just two sizes: one size for boys and one size for men. In recent years, for men, cup sizes came in large and extra large sizes to accommodate one’s penis and testicle endowment. Shock Doctor, for example, has large and extra large sizes, whereas Nutty Buddy has three sizes for men, medium, large, extra-large. So choose the cup size to hold your “junk” comfortably. Read more »

Another Partnered Session

After the couple of years of proficiency doing mmo’s, I had reached the milestone of rewiring. That achievement altered me in many esoteric ways that I shall discuss in the next post. However, one of the very pragmatic things it did to me was give me control of my pleasure and the confidence to invite my wife to participate. It was this confidence that opened to door for me to tell her about my surreptitious use of her bare derriere in the middle of the night to coax exquisite orgasms into my anus.

It needs to be mentioned that I am much more sexually motivated than she is. Regardless she has always been willing to engage in all sorts of sexual activities with me. In our 20’s it was the power she had getting my penis erect and aroused. She became incredibly adventurous; it was this adventurous spirit that allowed her to go outside the conservative comfort zone of her younger years and led her to perform analingus on me unrequested.

One of the things that stimulates her arousal is seeing me ejaculate. The sight of thick creamy semen erupting from my pulsing cock slit as she holds it in her fist along with the tactile experience of feeling my shaft pump its steamy hot load in her grasp is such a turn on it makes her pussy weep. The feeling of a hot stream of semen rolling over the back of her hand during a handjob only adds to the visual delight. Like most women her experience of sex is predominantly tied to what she is thinking and feeling and who with. Read more »

Minor progress after 1 week even if I was cheating

Last night I had a partial brake through. Went to bed with the mgx. I started on my left side. After 30 minutes of do nothing and nothing happening, not even a twitch I decided to roll over on my back. I reached down and started to massage my perineum just above the p-tab. An orgasm started almost immediately than rolled into another more intense than the first. I lost count after 5 as they started to come closer together with out a break between. They just kept coming each getting slightly more intense.

The entire time I was riding these orgasms I was holding different levels of contractions allowing my muscles to involuntarily contract but this was not happening as a feed back loop. I think it was just happening from trying to maintain a set level of contraction.

The last orgasm I remember my body was so fully engulfed that I lost track of time. The one thing that stood out about it was the sudden feeling of a strange sharp pain that exploded from my prostate that caused my belly to clench than start to flutter maybe a dozen times before stopping. This feeling was scary but exhilarating at the same time lasting mere seconds before passing to allow the orgasm feeling to swell even higher before fading off. I believe that this was caused by the mgx sliding along the prostate as it was designed to do to create these feel good feelings. Could this have been the aforementioned p-waves? I looked at the clock to find I had been surfing this session for an hour plus but didn’t want it to stop. Read more »

The Starting Point

The last few days- which happen to be my first few days with the helix syn, have been interesting.

Since the first day, I’ve started to pick up on a slow, very gradual rise of just little things. Most important: cleanliness. Purging often, showering more, shaving the hair down there… it shows to me I care, and am setting the stage for further adjustments.

More kegels, more of the time. Decided to do 100 on the train today. I’m finding that the kegel exercise is a good way to open and relax the anal muscles, which I assume will lead to good things. The main thing I’ve learned from kegels so far is that if I hold a contraction for almost as long as I can- I get spasms. They target my sphincter and perineum the most. It feels good, at least to me, it’s something new so I’ll get more used to how it feels.

What I’m finding works for me regarding the helix, is slow gyration and thrusting of the hips. Something happens where it feels like the tip of the helix is tickling- and waking up, this hidden blossoming flower. Now it appears to me I have a choice. Wake up that flower, or go on my way, and maybe stay away from this kind of stimulation? Well I’m undecided. I guess I’ll have to explore a little further and figure out if this is the kind of energy I really want to have.