Exciting afternoon

Apologies in advance for the lengthy first time post – I’ve been reading other’s experiences for some time and would like to share my own.

I’ve owned a helix for about 5 years and have enjoyed occasional solo sessions, although never feeling like I was progressing to anything like involuntary movement. These sessions always end after an hour or so with me having a very pleasurable orgasm by stimulating my penis. I suppose I’d never really found the time to dedicate trying to develop the techniques suggested by other users.

I also use the helix with my (female) partner. She enjoys watching the pleasure I get from inserting it, and we find it tends to give me a harder erection. It certainly excites me to wear it and know that she knows I’m being stimulated by it. Cumming inside her always feels great with the helix in and it’s enhanced by the feeling of the helix moving while my muscles contract during orgasm.

Lockdown over the past four months has put pay to the solo sessions (everyone at home all day), so I thought I’d dedicate the time to focusing on my pelvic muscles and understanding the feelings in my anus and prostate.Also been following the threads on here and enjoying reading about other’s experiences. Very exciting to read knowing I had to wait to get my helix back inside.I’ve been practicing clenching, holding and releasing my pelvic muscles while lying in bed, sometimes last thing at night, sometimes in the morning, experimenting with different positions. I feel I’ve come to be able to control them a lot more than before, and hold varying levels of clench. I’ve had some very good feelings after 45 minutes or so of playing around where my muscles seem to twitch and I get a warm feeling around my anus/prostate/base of my penis. This has all made me really excited to get the helix back inside.

My first time experience last night! Wow!

Hey all, i wanted to share my first experience with the helix syn trident from last night.

I’m very new to anal play and prostate massaging. I had bought the love honey booty buddy a few weeks back as it seemed beginner friendly and was on offer for a fiver so it seemed a good way to see if it’s something I’d enjoy. Well I did haha.

After some research online I came across Aneros and settled on buying the helix syn trident, which I had gotten a 25% discount on too which sweetened the deal!

So last night I decided I’d give it a go, it was slightly larger than the first toy I had bought, which kinda worried me as I spent a good 20 minutes trying to insert it! The aneros was no different, it took me about 10 minutes to find the right angle and relax enough to get the wide tip inside. Once I did though the rest just kinda slid in and fit perfectly!

Now I had read about not having high expectations and how it can take a very long time to learn to use and feel it working, many sessions over months or years. So i just kinda lay there and relaxed a bit, watched some porn to get my mind going again (I had already done this prior for about 20 mins).

Prostate orgasms for HOURS everyday for a week in a hotel. Here’s what I did…

About me: I’ve posted on Reddit before about my experiences, so feel free to read through those. I’m <30 y/o. Gay male. Bought my first Aneros SGX in 2009, forgot about it for a few years, and then in 2013 started picking up more Aneros models until now. My new fav models: Eupho Syn Trident, Progasm, and Peridise.

**tl;dr:** I used my Aneros everyday for a week in a hotel room and orgasmed for hours everyday. I did some great things and learned some great things. Sessions are only getting better with each use. Life is great.

A few weeks ago, I was away on business and stayed in a hotel for a week. I brought my Aneros ended up using it every night with incredible results (I have videos that I will upload at some point). It was during this time that I really had a chance to discover myself, my body, my prostate, and how to really use the Aneros to its fullest potential. I had back to back dry orgasms lasting 1-3 hours every night, and finished off with hands-free wet orgasms every time because I get really bad blue-balls if I don’t cum. I alternated between Eupho Syn Trident and Progasm.

What I did:

1) Got myself really horny throughout the day by watching porn and surfing Reddit, but never touched my dick

2) Practiced kegels throughout the day

I feel like the most difficult part is getting/staying aroused

Just wondering if anyone has similar experiences, or any thoughts and strategies to share…

I find the Aneros enjoyable to various degrees almost every time I use it, but I’ve had very few sessions over the years that felt “different.” There was only one where I really felt like it took over and I had something akin to multiple super-o’s. That was probably a year ago and, if anything, I feel like I’ve gotten less pleasure from it over time. I think that’s because it requires a kind of unique and sustained arousal to make the prostate swell, become more sensitive, and have more contact with the toys. Earlier on, I think just the excitement and anticipation of using the Aneros was enough to keep me more aroused, which would account for greater results in the past.

I’ve tried various visual porn, just erotic audio, erotic stories…all of which I enjoy during “normal” masturbation. But with the extended time of the Aneros, not stimulating my penis at all, not really doing anything physically to maintain my arousal, I just seem to kinda get bored and distracted and can’t keep up the intensity.

Eventually (say, after 45 minutes up to as much as 2 hours), I give up and masturbate to orgasm with the toy in, which always feels really good. I’d still like to progress toward the prostate orgasm in the future, however.

So, any comments?

Does porn distract me? Where to go from now on?

Greetings everyone,

I bought the aneros helix trident back in august 2018 and have been using it once a week. I also bought the Progasm and my newest purchase the eupho trident. At the beginning of my journey i had mixed results and no orgasm in the first 6 months, so I thought that its because im not aroused for the whole session, just at the start, so I started to browse porn on reddit and sometimes watch longer videos 15 min+ . Because of that I was basically aroused the whole session and had some wet orgasms thanks to the helix and the eupho (progasm is a bit to big for me). Now I can force a wet orgams nearly every session if I want to, but since the holy grail of prostate orgams is the super o or rather a dry orgams im not quite satisfied yet. Of course it feels really good having it inside me and making it move, but i didnt have much progress since that. Last session which was a week ago, i had a suddenly a strong pleasure which was something different. Am I to focused on the porn im browsing? How can i stay aroused even without it? What else can i try? Im thankfull for any help 🙂

Just got the progasm ice

Ok after a lot of reading on this forum and elsewhere online, i decided that the progasm ice looked like it was going to be the one for me so last week i ordered one online. The day it arrived i wasnt that horny so i didnt know if i should give it a go but i got too excited, so later that night i decided to try it. First impressions were good, it looks good, the hard plastic is good and the shape and size looked perfect (ive got a few toys already so decided that the larger one would be appropriate). After preparing myself properly, i put some silicone lube on it and put it in, and it felt awesome straight away. It slid straight in and both the tabs rested perfectly where they are meant to. I ended up doing a heap of relaxation kinda stuff and figured on my back with my knees up, feet flat on the floor was the way to go. I mostly tried the do nothing method to not much avail, and kegals seemed ok, i ended up getting some shooting pangs of pleasure rarely but i ended up jerking off and going to bed, pretty happy with how my first time had gone.

A question about sensitivity and abstinence

Hi, I’ve been following this subreddit and using my aneros. I had a quick question about the process for all the experienced guys here.

Here’s my progress:

I use the aneros syn, I recently took the advice to stop masturbating and porn and I’ve seen a rise in general pleasure in my aneros sessions.

So my question is, relating to saving cum to increase sensitivity.

a) Does the body only need to save cum (as in dont ejaculate) before an aneros session to build sensitivity over time?

OR

b) Does the body need to save cum, AND abstain from nightly aneros sessions to build sensitivity?

I ask because I’ve stopped touching my dick at all, I dont cum, but I have an aneros session every day or every other day now and I’m wondering if I’m shooting myself in the foot here or if it’s okay to do regular aneros sessions to build practice and sensations AS I build up cum storage (i.e. more sensitivity).

Do regular (daily or almost every other day) sessions dull the sensations? Or does the practice help the journey to create more sensitivity?

HOURS of ecstasy, the rumors are true

Holy shit. Holy shit. Holy shit.

Long post. Reading some of the user posts here helped me, so maybe this will help someone. It’s also a way to process the experience for me.

I’ve been reading about the benefits of prostate play for about a month now and, truth be told, I took everything I read with a grain of salt. I assumed some men might achieve these waves of pleasure and super-Os, but most would need years of practice and even then, maybe not experience as amazing as some made it sound. Well after some time on Sunday, I can say I’m a true believer.

As a way of background, I’m 31, gay male, in a long term relationship. Ass play is not something i’m a total stranger to, but it’s never been my cup of tea. I’ve bottomed plenty of times and found the experience to be enjoyable, but topping was always better. (My partner and I are more “sides” and anal sex is kind of rare. I’ve had plenty of anal sex with prior partners to know what i’m missing.) Over the years I’ve bought a couple of dildos and prostate massagers and played with them on and off, but to me they were never better than recieving anal, and the toys would be used a couple times then forgotten about and thrown away.

How to find deeper arousal?

So I’ve noticed the only sessions where I feel strong P-waves are those that I start feeling aroused even before I insert the Aneros. It feels like my prostate is craving the stimulation.

However I’ve found I don’t get to that highly aroused state very frequently. More often than not I insert the toy and feel relaxed but not very horny, and so not much happens. Porn doesn’t really arouse me as much as I’d like (maybe I’m desensitized?) and I’ve also tried abstaining from masturbation for several days and haven’t had much success with it.

On the other hand there’s been times when this prostate arousal comes up in a totally natural and effortless way (usually a day or two after my last session, even if the session itself was mild). Sadly it almost always happens during the day when I can’t take 30-60 minutes for an impromptu session. By the time I have some time to myself, the prostate arousal is long gone.

I guess my question is how I can access this deeper arousal within me when I *do* have time to play. (I think I got the relaxation down pat, I have some experience with meditation). Thanks for any advice!

The biggest orgasm of my life, and how I got there

I’m floored. I’m lucky to have had pretty good luck with the aneros from the beginning. Though, I did have some experience with prostate stimulation before I ever tried the aneros.

This all started for me maybe 8 or 9 yrs ago, in my mid 20s, when an older woman (late 40s) who I was fooling around with talked me into letting her slip a finger inside me while she was edging/blowing me. I reluctantly agreed, but a huge part of our dynamic was her teaching me new things with her mostly focused on me. She loved exploring my body and I miss the fuck out of those edging sessions, and even more so the forced orgasms (she would legit make me cum 3-5 times over an hour or two). Anyway, she made me really comfortable before sliding her finger into me, and just left it there while she continued to play with me. After a while, she started giving me a light prostate massage (at the time, I had no idea what this was) and 20 minutes later I’m shaking and moaning like the most over dramatic female porn star as I cum buckets down her throat. I’ll never forget squeezing this woman’s body with my shaking legs as I opened my eyes gasping for air when I came back to reality. It was extremely intense.