I just had my first orgasm, what was the difference this time?

I have tried this around 10 times during the las 6 years (I’m aware I was not being persistent) very few times and almost most of the times I got bored of aneros and switched to dildo, then got tired and stopped and never really gave aneros a chance except for two times.

Today, after a month of no fap I decided to try with aneros (the basic version) and it worked, instead on focusing on anal quick contractions, I focused on more extended full body contractions, aligning some strength from my legs to help the anal contraction, I was watching some porn but stopped it since it was a distraction

Funny thing is I tried 3 times with a prostate stimulator which has a rotatory head and I didn’t let me focus on the sensations

Long story short, I followed a recommendation to try to feel the prostate with the finger first to know where it is and how it feels, spent 1min exploring that, then around 15min of aneros and came really hard, after it I had and still have, a sensation of floating, relaxed, quite the opposite of the normal masturbation which afterwards makes me feel tired, maybe the 1 month no fap influences here!

I’m really happy since I had already gave up on this, I hope this has been informative, happy orgasms ☺️

Audio suggestions?

I’ve had some luck with hypnosis files that help make you submissive/receptive to new sensations. Porn is just a distraction. Anyone have suggestions of audio files that put them in the right mood or help get you in that headspace?

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Hey all, I’ve been using an aneros for a few years now. I have a Helix Syn, a progasm, and a eupho, but I’ve been using the latter almost exclusively because it works the best for me. Rewired myself to get a ton of pleasure from my prostate, but it almost always fizzled out instead of building toward orgasm.

So I read some of this sub to figure out how to finally take the next step, and oh my god. Nipple play and bearing down on the toy a bit instead of letting the contractions just go nuts is the best advice.

I edged myself a couple of times before my session last night and had an unintentional ruined orgasm. Then I got extremely high (as I always do before a session), put on some porn and laid back and let my eupho do its thing.

It felt good, then it felt absolutely incredible and I was losing control of my body. I was in a tunnel of porn and pleasure, so many different sensations. I remember this like, shocking feeling on the tip of my dick which was a little painful in the best possible way. I’m not sure if I was actually coming or not but it was like a sustained firehose of orgasmic pleasure.

Not quite sure what happened..hips rotating (21 male gay)

I have had my aneros (a Progasm) for a few months now, but kind of went off it as I found that when I used it my sessions wouldn’t really go anywhere. However, lately I decided to give it another try, as I had been craving the feeling of it inside me, the point of lying in bed at night and performing random voluntary contractions to remind me of the stimulation of it.

I lubed it up with Boy Butter and inserted it slowly, after teasing my hole with the end of it for a few minutes. Now in general, I would say that I had a good session, but there weren’t any dry orgasms or hfwo. There was a distinct moment where I was watching this gay porno, getting so turned on, that felt like I needed to contract really hard on it, and moving my hips in a circulator motion. There was excitement and definitely some precum, but it wasn’t amounting to anything concret like a dry orgasm or a super orgasm. My main goal is not actually to have a super orgasm, but dry orgasms. There’s a great porn hub video of a guy achieving 36 orgasms and moaning in ecstasy, while he is on all fours and in various different positions. I want the aneros to consume my hole and rewire my brain into craving a new form of sexual ecstasy. I stayed relaxed in the session and focused on thoughts of sex and the videos I was watching, as well as imagining the device inside me – that seemed to be quite a turn on. But I didn’t get anything concrete. I even touched my nipples. It was a good session but I’d love some advice as to how I could maybe have gone further. Also, as a rule, do you avoid taking it out and then putting it back in again? And, lastly, the position of knelling by the bed and arching my body over it appeared to work quite well but I was worried about the device falling out, and my head was not comfortable – I wasn’t sure where to put it essentially. Are there any tips for that position/people who do it that way?

I think im very close to having a super-O

In todays session I think I had two dry orgasms or mild super-O’s. The first one was very intense, it was pretty late to my session and I just was scrolling some porn and doing some light contractions on my aneros and then something happened and my whole body startet shakin and waves of pleasure from my prostate. It lasted couple of minutes. What do you guys do to end the session? In a wet orgasm? How do you even have a wet orgasm with aneros? 🙂

How to transition from wet to dry?

Can anyone give some advice one how to transition from having HFWO to dry?

I am finally at the point where It seems like I can reliably have a wet orgasm in less than an hour. (30mins is the fastest so far!)

What works for me is inserting the toy, put on porn and play with my nipples. As I start to get an erection the pleasure builds up and feels great. Once I have a full erection the feelings progress as i start to do some light contractions but eventually the feelings sort of die off. At this point I take a short break (1 or 2mins) to find a different video and repeat the cycle with each time feeling better than the last until a HFWO.

Will this ever get me to a dry O or should I start looking elsewhere?

And help or previous post for reference would be greatly appreciated

Hiatus and Arousal (Re-Posted)

I think I have reached a hiatus and can’t seem to derive a lot of pleasure from my Aneros recently. It feels dull if I’ve masturbated or had sex recently, or I get extremely overexcited without masturbation and sex, so I often end up masturbating instead, which loops back around.

If I try and hold back to not ejaculate for several days, I know the sessions can still be mind-blowing. But I get so aroused I am unable to work or study and end up watching porn and masturbating. There’s nothing else I can think about all day, except teasing myself and I cannot find enough time to have a lengthy Aneros session. I also have to think of ways to avoid ejaculating during sex.
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If I ejaculate through sex with my partner or masturbation, I cannot reach the same level of satisfaction through prostate play for several days, even if I find time for it. I am either not interested or the sessions are dull.

It is also difficult to learn to combine my solo sessions with regular sex with my partner, and that does not always go well. He is simply not interested in trying any toys (including Aneros) himself, and does not understand my desire to have solo sessions independently. I should be happy about that as in he only wants me when we have sex, but I have always been a more sexual person, and I am fascinated by Aneros and prostate play. What was your journey in learning to combine sex or masturbation and Aneros Use? And how do you deal with the refractory period that follows after ejaculating when it comes to prostate play? I suppose it is a learning experience to get to a place where I can rewire and combine both, or enjoy both without affecting the other. This is just one of those things that I haven’t yet mastered.

7 years and counting

So, I’ve been on the journey for around 7 years now. I started with the Helix Syn. Then I got the Progasm Ice and finally the Helix Trident.

Alll three have given me different sensations but none have pushed me over the edge. I probably like the Helix Trident best and he’s definitely my go to. I haven’t really used the Helix Syn for some time as the material seemed to cause me a little bit of discomfort.

Now as I said. All three have given me good sensations. I’ve tried pretty much everything with all of them. Doing nothing, doing something. Holding at a low pressure, doing straight up Kegels and/or Reverse Kegels.

Laying on my side, my back and my stomach. Standing up, kneeling. Hard surface, soft surface. Watching porn, not watching porn. Listening to binaural sounds. Abstaining and not abstaining.

I tend to leak pre cum quite freely during sessions, and I go from soft to hard and back again a few times.

Don’t get me wrong, I love the Aneros, and I tend to reach for it whenever I get a private moment. But I will admit that I am starting to lose the sheer excitement I had for the first 3-4 years.

Do you guys have a pro tip I should try to maybe reach the next step? Pretty much willing to try anything. I’ve seen a lot of guys make great progress using weed and/or gummies but that’s out of the question for me.

I’ve unlocked amazing pleasure

I’ve been on a quest to unlock receiving pleasure from prostate play as well as aless for a while now. Every now and then I would have an enjoyable session with my aneros but I never had patience to rewire correctly.

I finally decided that this was an important goal of mine after reading success stories and other posts from those who have learned how.

Well, I decided that traditional “jerking off” was off limits. With that, I also stopped watching porn constantly. I told myself that from now on, I only want to receive sexual pleasure from anal / prostate play.

I also decided that I was going to start practicing nipple play and meditative breathing.

It’s been about a week and a half and I have been more horny than I have ever been in my entire life! The feeling is off the charts crazy good!

I’ve been away on vacation so I haven’t any privacy nor do I have any toys with me. However, every time I am in the bathroom and even just lightly touch my nipples, I instantly get ROCK hard and start leaking precum. I can literally feel my prostate swelling up and start throbbing.

Every time I take off my boxers there is literally a stream of precum that I have to wipe off with a tissue. Lol.

my journey + looking for someone for aneros sessions

So long story “short”: I’ve known aneros for 3 years now, bought my helix syn trident in 2019 and it’s one of the best sex toys I’ve ever bought. So here’s how it went

may 2019:
I buy my helix syn trident online after reading about prostate orgasm and full body orgasm. I try it, don’t feel much, but it’s still pleasurable, a feeling of “warmth” in my ass, but I always end up sleeping. So i use it very rarely and usually masturbate with the aneros in.

november 2019:
seeing videos of guy fucking themselves with dildos, I buy one and have huge 100% hands free orgasms and sensations I never ever experienced before.

may 2021: the past year and a half I literally never used my aneros, and occasionally rode my dildo. It is by far wayy more pleasurable but also requires a lot of time, lube and it can be pretty tiring! so bc I’m lazy I often just wanked.

I was taking my finals at college (4 days with exams from 8 am to 4 pm) and needed something to relax a bit. At this point I had almost totally forgotten about aneros, I thought that dildos were way better. But searching for old stuff in my bedroom I find my helix syn trident and decide to give it a try.