Tag: Prostate

Having trouble isolating muscles / feeling pleasure

I feel as if I’m doing something wrong. A lot of people here talk about enjoying the experience, and learning the contractions, and just enjoying the p-waves. But I feel no contractions; I keep thinking I do, but it’s not my rectal muscles fluttering, it’s just my pelvic muscles. And I enjoy the experience of being aroused, but it’s really hard to keep that up when I feel disappointed at not getting any kind of warm, fluttery feeling. The big issue I think is that I’m having trouble actually isolating the muscles I should be using. Like:

* should I feel muscles in my plevis, or up my back squeezing my base muscle when I try really hard?
* how hard do the actual muscles clench? is it a really sublte feeling, or does it feel like clenching a bicep muscle?
* what does the pre p-wave pleasure feel like?

I’ve been following Mindgasm, trying to deeply relax (almost like entering a trance), but I don’t even know if I’m flexing the correct muscles. At *best* I’ve felt a light pleasantness in the prostate, but it barely feels like enough to keep coming back. Any tips? Diagrams? Better descriptions of what pre-p-wave pleasure is supposed to feel like?

first poppers session and I got questions

Cheers,

after some time I tried now a different approach on using Aneros toys and used a VR-scene and tried poppers. The one thing I noticed, after sniffing from a ziplockback I got lightheaded after a few seconds, well and I was horny. Got a fuzzy feeling but it didn’t got me farther to anything prostate-orgasm related. After about an hour without many involuntary contractions or anything happening I just grabbed my cock, jerked off, took a sniff and came in the mid of the high. But I can’t say the orgasm was stronger or lasted longer.

So, just for generic orgasm-enhancement: when do you sniff the stuff? Once? Just before the PONR? While cumming?

And for gaining prostate pleasure? When do you use it there? Before you insert the Aneros? After it but before you have any involuntaries/waves? Or after?

Helix Syn Trident Question

First timer here. I have been using my thumb mostly, and have been reliably hitting my prostate with it. I was looking at the Helix Syn T rident model, as maintenance seems to be easy and the size is not too large. My preferred lubricant is coconut oil- is that compatible with the device?

Alcohol and the Prostate?

I see lots of post about illegal drugs (at least in my country) helping us to reach our goal .

What about alcohol?

Has alcohol ever been an enabler for a prostate orgasm?

First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world

Hi there,

Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.

Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.

First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help. Read more »

Questions from a first time user

Gotta say this group sold me on the Aneros just from reading and decided to try it for myself. I ordered the helix and the progasm red ( couldnt pass up the sale 🤷‍♂️)

I was so excited when they arrived in the mail. Couldn’t wait to use it. I’m sticking with the Helix for now as I’m not used to anal insertion.

So here are my questions.

During my first time using it my body experienced involuntary shakes, is this a P-wave?

What are some of your favorite positions to hit the prostate just right?

How long should you leave it in as you are just getting started? And how often? Daily? Weekly? Etc.

When it was in I found myself tensing my sphincter to kind of help move it in and out? Should I be doing this or is the key to keep it relaxed?

Afterwards I farted a lot…. like a lot and I kinda liked it. I didn’t really see anyone else talking about it and wondering if anyone else out there experiences this and enjoys it as much as I did?

Looking forward to this journey and will update as I continue.

Thanks!

A Progasm Ice Review.

Introduction:
The progasm is large in comparison to most Aneros toys. So being relaxed and well lubed is a prerequisite. For me it’s been a bit intimidating and I’ve found that because of this is I tend to stay over tense and consequently I felt it didn’t move much and pushed too hard on my prostate espc as my prostate woke up and started to swell. These minor criticisms aside I always felt I’d not given it a fair chance as I was too busy riding my helix Syn to take the plunge into riding the Progasm. And truth be told it scared me a little bit.

Riding the Progasm Ice
Ok. Here we go D Day for my ass. I’m writing this after two great sessions with the Ice. Waited till this morning’s session settled down to make sure that yesterdays insanity wasn’t a fluke. It wasn’t.
Smoked a little pot, about 1/3 of a joint. Had a coffee. Did some stretches, put some soft music thru the earbuds. Lay down on back, copious lube on progasm. Open wide. And it’s still girthy as hell on insertion, not painful just feeling of being stretched. It’s fully in and well seated now. No contractions, just trying to relax everything. One short snort of Poppers. Breath…. still not contracting anything… here it comes… SLOW DEEP WAVE into thighs lower back and abs. Ok.. shit… slow rolling wave contraction… hold.. release.. breath… at this point I felt compelled to arch my lower back (lordosis?) and then… good bye world… 45minutes of nothing but orgasm, some light and some totally savage. Every time I tried to relax back off and slow down to stop another would blot out my intention of stopping… 90+ minutes in and I finally manage to stagger to the bathroom, having another 4 or five world bending orgasms on my knees back upright on the bathroom floor.. fifteen minutes later I literally grabbed the progasm and removed it before it could destroy my prostate anymore… aftershocks still continuing and if I touch my nipples now I won’t be writing anymore of this… I’ll be back getting fucked into oblivion. Read more »

How to progress from involuntaries

Hi there, I’ve been new to this game and over the last 6 months on and off I’ve attempted possibly 10sessions since I first purchased the helix trident syn.

I’ve attempted and tried a number of the tips that are commonly posted here and have made some progress strengthening the PC muscles etc. The stage I am currently at is that I can (without much effort) cause what I believe to be extended periods of involuntary contractions. These involuntary contractions usually lead to periods where I feel very aroused but that is all. If I focus on these involuntaries sometimes (with my eyes closed and focusing on my breathing) I can cause myself to start spinning but not in a dizzying way. These two results of involuntary contractions are the only progress I have made. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong, what sensations I should be focusing on to try and achieve p-waves.

I’ve also considered the toy isn’t working for me. When I have tried or my girlfriend has used a finger inside me it has felt like my prostate was actually being stimulated and besides being a nice feeling using the toy and having the involuntary contractions I don’t feel it actually stimulate my prostate or any sort of build up of pleasurable feelings in that area. Where exactly should the pleasure or p-waves originate so I understand where to focus and cultivate them?

Any help anyone can give would be most appreciated.

Let me tell you a story all about how…

My concept of orgasm got turned upside down.
I’ve made a few posts in this forum but they’re not a good summation of my Aneros journey so I’ll try to sum it all up here and I’ll start with this morning..
Wake up at 0350 with not much sleep and a 60+ hour work week just finished feeling a bit wrecked from it all. Not a lot to do at this time of day so thought I’ll have 3 or 4 drags on a joint and have a go at an Aneros session and given the above and the fact I had sex two nights ago I wasn’t expecting much from it.
Was I ever wrong.
20mins into the session and I’m at maybe my fifth pgasm and I can feel myself melting into the joy coming from my prostate and sphincter area with escalating waves of pleasure pouring out into my thighs groin and abdomen. Read more »

Interesting thing happened to me

Hello guys. Here is a strange story about a thing that i haven’t encountered before in this subreddit. So yesterday i just finished a workout and after a workout i like to do a cold bath. So i entered the cold water and when i felt the adrenaline rush from the cold i got hard and had and orgasm with ejaculation.
What do you think about adrenaline and prostate orgasms? Tor me its strange because most of the time on this subreddit veterans and nonveterans mention that in order to have a progress in this prostate awakening/rewiring you have to be super relaxed, chill and focused on the sensations.
I turns out adrenaline plays a role too 🤔..