Penis/Prostate goes numb. Problem with blood circulation.

Hi everybody

First of all, thank you for all your posts and tips. I’ve been making great progress until now.

I’ve been using my Aneros Helix Trident Syn since around April this year IIRC. I am at a point where I can have low/medium p-waves and even had an orgasm using LSD once early into my journey.

Problem is, since the last 3-4 sessions (ca. 1 month), I start to get a tingling feeling in my penis when using the toy and shortly after I lose pleasure and feeling in my penis and prostate. My penis even shrinks to an unusual small length. When this happens (after like 2-5min. into the session), I remove the toy and rub my penis, which gets blood into my penis again after some minutes and I can get an erection again.

I have never had any erectile dysfunctions before, but to be honest, I am a smoker and I guess it is linked to it. So my questions are:

Did anybody ever experience the same? Was it because of smoking? Did you stop smoking and did it improve?

Thanks in advance for your help!

I think I’m finding the Helix Syn Trident slightly big, is there anything smaller?

Maybe I just have a really tight asshole haha, but I’ve had the ‘syn trident’ for a while now and I’ve never had luck getting a prostate orgasm. I always find it feels really good for the first 7-8 minutes, but then I just start feeling slightly sore (not like super painful, but just slightly). And especially after I take it out my asshole feels a little sore.

This makes me wonder if maybe it’s a little too big, and that’s why I can’t get a proper PO? If thats the case, is there anything slightly smaller I can try? Thanks šŸ˜‰

Way to fix the Maximus trident?

So I started off with the helix syn trident. Loved it and wanted to move up and try something new. Ordered the Maximus trident. Tried it out and it’s just decent in my opinion (I think I prefer the feel of the syn material). I do also believe the top Knob loop thing grinds into your P-spot from the outside and is very uncomfortable. I had heard pellets removing it and making it not sharp.

Anyone ever modify their toy and remove the P tab (think that’s what they call it) successfully? I don’t want to ruin a toy is all.

Thank you! Happy new year

Advice?

Question for those who are able to cum from anal / prostate stimulation alone…

I’ve heard that one of the keys to being able to do it is that you have to not cum for several days. Up until now, I’ve never abstained from cumming for more than a day or two (at most).

So far, I haven’t cum in 9 days and am really looking forward to my next session. My goal is to ONLY cum from anal / prostate stimulation from now on.

As far as the aneros goes, I’ve read some comments saying to just ā€œrelaxā€ and other posts saying to do kegel contractions. I’ve tried both as well as various techniques with my other toys.

I have an njoy pure wand as well as a dildo, butt plugs and a few of the aneros models. Etc.

Looking for any advice that could help me finally achieve this goal.

Thanks!

The journey so far!

Hi all. I’m relatively new to this, I purchased a helix trident (the plastic one) about two weeks ago, then a progasm jr about a week ago. It’s been interesting! On my first try, I used coconut oil as lube, but found the insertion uncomfortable as I’m pretty tight and sensitive down there. When it went in, immediate shaking and spasms, pleasant sensations but not much else. Then I bought some anal lube, totally different with a very pleasant sensation on entry for both devices. I’d got to the point with the helix where I’d reached a sort of block, just nothing much after half an hour.
The first time I used the progasm jr, wow! I got an amazing tingling and hot sensation from my prostate, shaking and panting with the onset of some involuntaries. Unfortunately I had to end the session early! I’ve been using it every night for a week now as I’m totally addicted and I’m not even sure to what yet! I had a session this afternoon where I think I almost felt the onset of an orgasm, the pulling feeling of rushing build of pleasure, but it frustratingly ebbed away in a ghostly way just as it arrived. It’s so subtle I’m not sure if it’s just my mind wishing for it if you know what I mean?
Anyway, I have read up on here about the best ways forward so will keep trying. I know it’s early days and I’m so hopeful to achieve the incredible feelings I’ve read about.
Happy New Year to all!

Does prostate milking help with the rewiring process?

Basically title.

I have not been able to orgasm using my Helix Syn yet. However I sometimes have short involuntaries and am generally able to controll all the muscles on their own. I just think my rewiring process is not completed yet, as I am not too far along the journey, timewise.

However I own some other toys and today I have been able to, for the first time, milk my prostate and get some cum out of it. Not much, maybe a teaspoon full but still. Does prostate milking help with the rewiring process?

My rationale would be that getting the prostate “accustomed” to touch would make it more sensitive.

Anyone have experience with this?

Again and again..

There I stood with my knees shaking and my cock drained still in my grips. saying “Wow, what just happened?” I am thinking there will be many new adventures to follow. Can’t wait to try it during intercourse. I love this thing! You guys that haven’t tried prostate massage because you think it’s about a gay thing are definitely missing out on a brand new world!

Not feeling anything

It’s been almost 1 year since I have my Aneros helix syn and many many sessions with it. In all of them I tried numerous approaches with all kind of different positions and methods. Yesterday I wanted to try it one last time in 2020, with some guided audio experience. I think it was called ā€žsuper O slutā€œ. It was one of the longest session ever (almost 2h) and I would say I was in a pretty relaxed stance/trance kind of mood. Basically the perfect condition to feel at least something (as far as Iā€˜ve read). Unfortunately the same fate met me this time as always.
I felt absolutely no pleasurable sensations whatsoever.
Since the beginning of my journey, I never felt discomfort or anything similar which would tank the experience. After a while I get used to the aneros and then nothing really happens apart from very little leaking in the first 10-20min. Many times I fell asleep during my sessions and woke up hours later without any special feeling. Just like a normal nap, only this time with something up my butt. Masturbating with the aneros inside feels not much different than normal.

Is it possible that I am just not fit for this whole prostrate stimulation thing? Before buying the helix syn, I’ve read that it’s the model ā€žthat fits allā€œ. I’ve tried a lot of different things, all kind of approaches as listed in the aneros wiki but sadly without any sensations.
Hopefully you guys can enlighten me. Cheers

Short trip to Peridise

I’ve been getting back into Aneros recently. I’ve used my smallest Peridise a few times this month with little success. This evening I decided to relax with it in while watching some youtube and it was *amazing.* It started moving on it’s own right away and it was so pleasurable. Everything in my pelvic region started to feel really good, especially my sphincter and anal canal. My prostate was involved, but only tangentially. It really made me appreciate that all the muscles and nerves down there have their own role to play with us feeling good, not just the prostate.

What I liked in particular was how light the contractions were. It felt way different from an intentional contraction, as if I couldn’t tense those particular muscles like that on my own.

Overall it made me feel happy.

Which one to buy?

Hey! I am a gay bottom so i have a lot of experience with anal play. I also had a aneros mgx classic sole years ago but it didn’t do much for me.

I have a good relationship with my prostate. Sometimes when i orgasm with my penis i have an amazing feeling in my prostate and those are the best orgasm i experience. But i never managed to feel those wirhout touching my penis.

So i am no stranger to my anus, i know how to feel my prostate with my muscles. So which aneros do you recommend?