Tag: Prostate

Third Time is a Charm

For the longest time I’ve been curious and wanted to explore prostate massage. So I bought a Helix Syn Trident. First try, a 3 hour session, not much happened but some slight pleasurable waves. I was more or less learning what felt best and how to get the ball rolling.

Next day I decided to give it another go but this time I propped up my legs on a large Swiss ball that I use to stretch my back with, I have a severely herniated L4L5 disc. My back flat on the floor, legs in the air resting comfortably on the ball just as I do when I’m decompressing my lower back. After about 20 minutes I began to shake starting in my legs and then it slowly progressed into my whole body. Keeping my legs on the ball became difficult but I managed. A couple of P-waves began shooting through my body but nothing I would call Earth shattering but it felt wonderful.

Today, 2 days later, I had some spare time and decided to give it another whirl. I began the shaking again after only a few minutes and soon after massive orgasms began, one after another and over and over. I had so many I lost count. During this I decided to try other positions on the ball…my body draped over it while on my stomach. The orgasms began to be almost blinding, uncontrollable, and seemed to last for at least 30 seconds or minute each. Over and over and over. Holy Shit!! Read more »

Wild session

I just had a session and I was focusing on breathing through my nose. Within ten minutes I felt my body shake and tremble. I didn’t feel much sensation in my prostate but I did feel super aroused. Am I on the right track?

Wait for the “whisper”

A lot of good advice for a successful session is not having expectations and not trying to force something to happen. It’s as much of a mind thing as a “I’m hitting it/clenching it the exact same as I was last time why is nothing happening” physical thing.

I was reading the Aneros wiki a month or so ago and came across this in the “Advanced Skills”

[Waiting for the Whisper](http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills)

“Waiting for the whisper is a variant of “do nothing.” The whisper is the irresistible message coming from your groin that you are MMO horny. Waiting for the whisper means you don’t schedule or decide to have a session. You wait till your body whispers to you that you need it. When it does, you let it have its way. At that point you can do nothing, or try any other technique, and your body will be very responsive.”

Well shit… if that hasn’t been the key. Rather than trying be like, I have some time imma try and make myself scream, it’s more of a, I’m ready for this now. Getting hard and/or aroused, watching porn, that might help set the stage, but if you go into a session with your prostate already kinda twitching… It’s almost a guarantee super 0. If I’m kinda flexing the separate muscles while just finishing up work or something and kinda horny, things can get intense. But if I’m doing some keagles and things don’t start stirring, it’s just not going to happen. Read more »

Is aneros a game changer over njoy and others?

I have used the njoy wand for awhile. It feels great, but I have never achieved the p spot orgasm (from that or anything else). I’ve been using it for well over a year. Are the aneros products that much better, and will that be the difference maker? I look forward to your feedback. I’ve tried other products as well, but not aneros yet. Some with larger size (njoy 2.0 and bvibe xl). Any guidance?

Experience after sex with wife

So I just got the helix last week and I am completely new to this prostate massage business. I had a couple decent sessions this week, the second one I think I might have reached prostate orgasm, although I’m not sure if I can distinguish it correctly (it felt really damn good). Anyway tonight I told my wife about this and then we had sex while I had the Aneros in my ass. Once I knew she was satisfied I let myself cum and had a fantastic regular orgasm which absolutely drained me! My wife went to the shower as I just relaxed on the bed, so I thought I would do some Kegels for the sport of it, not expecting anything. Within a minute or two I was already trembling. By the time my wife got back from her shower I was going wild and I told her to get over and hold me tight! She didn’t know what the hell was happening but we shared the experience. I was feeling this full body tingling sensation for probably ten minutes or more and it was incredible. Can anyone tell me if this is the actual Super-O I keep hearing about or am I getting close or what stage am I at? Anyway, for those of you learning this like I am, maybe this is helpful.

Thanks for listening, I don’t know who else to tell!

Almost there … aaand it’s gone.

I am a bit frustrated. User of an Helix once every 1-2 weeks since.. 2 years? All tridents. Note I am quite a thin person (136 lbs) per 5 foot 8. I usually need to do something like 2h of session. My best position seems to be on my back, with a pillow below, On the side i loose track soon.

Here’s what I usually do: I get there, empty out, wait, relax, get aroused and pull the helix syn in. Start breathing deep, after a few minutes, also with my stomach. I tend to feel the pressure as need to pee. After a few minutes when I exhale i can feel something happening, like a bit when you did something wrong as a kid and you got something sinking in your stomach, but pleasurable.

After a while, I would get to a point where it starts feeling quite good very few seconds. Those sensation come and go. Some precum.. Then my dick would get hard and things starts to go south, as i usually don’t get contact with my prostate anymore. I move position and i manage to get it again.

At this point (say, 30 mins in) I usually need to start some contractions (I am trying to Kegel these days) but in general i try the Tug of War technique. Nothing, would change from the above scheme. I can go slow, I can go fast i still get some of those erections, some of those good feelings but then things die out. Read more »

Is it really that good?

So I’ve been pretty frustrated with my prostate sessions. I’ve never used a Aneros product before but after reading a bunch on here and on the wiki I’m thinking of going for the Helix syn trident, is this the right toy for a Aneros first timer?

From what I understand this is a more passive kind of toy where you don’t have to do anything?
I’ve used regular dildo’s and the njoy pure wand before without any results so I’m pretty desperate in finding something that works.

So is the helix syn trident going to help me on my journey? Does it really feel as good as everyone is saying?

I’m very sceptical of ever achieving a p orgasm so I hope this will help me.

What to do when you feel like youve hit a wall?

Ive been using my aneros on and off for probably over half a year now, but have been using it much more frequently in recent months. Lately the biggest progress ive made is getting to the point of my legs start shaking, but thats it, I dont feel anything when they do shake or anything that makes it more of an annoyance. People have told me to keep at it, that its normal not to feel anything, and to just keep doing the usual because things will slowly improve.

That was maybe 5 sessions ago with no improvements so far, if anything the only improvement I had was slightly changing my position so theres more pressure on the prostate, or at least I think thats what is happening. I did get a very mild amount of some feeling today, that felt like a sort of warmth coming from my prostate, but I dont think it was anything noteworthy as it only lasted for about 10 seconds and then wouldnt come back.

Im almost starting to believe a lot of the stories are exaggeration or something because it seems the *majority* of users are in the same boat as me or have had very little happen to them. Right now my aneros is feeling like an expensive piece of plastic, I wish I could get better results or know that im actually making progress but im just frustrated at this point because its taking up hours of my day each time I do it. Any tips on how I can keep making progress?

aneros without an aneros

i discovered that if you pulse your pelvic floor muscles while masturbating it evokes a small amount of pleasure from my prostrate area. i personally don’t own an aneros (hopefully will) but this is exciting!

Prostate sensitive after Aneros?

One of the things I’m most curious to discover is if after playing quite frequently with my Aneros, how does that change anal sex? Do you guys have any stories to share? I’ve become more of an Aneros users during the pandemic and only achieved my super Os a couple days ago. Since then I haven’t had anal sex with anybody but still very curious to know how anal feels like after becoming a pro with Aneros.

Anyone ?