Tag: Prostate

Cleansing beforehand feels like a chore and a buzzkill. Any tips?

I have yet to have any luck with the Aneros products I own (Vice, Helix Syn, purchased in that order). I imagine this is mostly from a lack of persistence and practice; I'm still at the point where I don't really get any of the feelings described on the wiki and I wonder if the Aneros (especially the Helix Syn) is even reaching my prostate at all. The fact that this stage is described in the wiki makes me hopeful that this will eventually change.

Anyway, one problem I have that prevents me from practicing more than once every few months is the fact that cleansing beforehand feels like a huge chore. I'll feel like using the Aneros, but then by the time I've made sure my rectum is clean, some of that arousal will be long gone.

I used to do full enemas to clean my insides before anal play, but I guess that's overdoing it, and possibly even counterproductive. So the last few times I've resorted to only using an anal douche, but it's still quite a hassle. If I do any anal play shortly afterwards there's often some water left in the rectum, so I tend to wait 1-2 hours after cleansing before inserting anything. This means any time I want to play with the Aneros, the whole process can easily take up 3-4 hours of the day. Which is an especially disappointing investment of time when there are no results by the end of it. 🙂 Read more Â»

The Erotic Bridge Between the Reality and the Forbidden

The sexual connection I have with my wife is unique; I can’t have it with anyone else, unless I fall in love with that person and have sex with them. The blending of our emotions and our experience of sexual euphoria when we make love, or do mutual masturbation or partner focused pleasure makes the experience of intimate connection, other worldly and profoundly intimate. I acknowledge that I can never have a sexual experience bound in the complex dimensions of our relationship with anyone else and I never hope to. But I also recognize every sexual experience has a physical and emotional dimension and provides unique pleasure. As much as I have sworn to be monogamous I am also an intensely sexual man with erotic desires. As a result I savor the experiences I have and have a voracious appetite for sexual experience. It is a big dilemma.

The last dozen or so years have taught me that sexual pleasure that is tinged with an element of the forbidden or the vulgarly erotic adds a quality to the experience of pleasure that speeds up my pulse, makes me giddy with lust and deepens the orgasm that results. I derive intense pleasure from sex. It may not provide the deep spirituality and emotional high that sexual intimacy with my wife does but it imparts the resonant vulgar ecstasy and desperate euphoria that makes the pleasure extra sweet. Read more Â»

My first experience

So my first experience with my new Helix syn was quite something. How it would be classified I'm not sure but god did it feel good.

Time was a bit of a blur so I'm not sure when things happened but I know I was in bed for an hour. I started off relaxing in bed while lying on my side. The first sensations I remember noticing were of the syn sliding out. After checking a couple of times I realised that it had started to move slightly on its own. I then began to concentrate on these feelings while deep breathing and really got into the feeling of the movement inside me. I then noticed a fizzing sensation in a location I can only presume is my prostate. With deep breaths and small contractions I could set off waves of fizz which was highly sensual and got me very aroused. However at this point for what ever reason I lost concentration and as quick as the feelings had started they dissappered. I was able to get back to this stage again but I got no further. At this stage I would say that was a good first session and I was very happy with my experimenting. Read more Â»

Is it really just like pissing? Please don’t let me down guys…

Some guy on 4chan said this:

sorry to spoil the fun, but do you guys know that it feels like shit? Jerking off plain is 100x better than doing it anally. I wouldn't even call that an orgasm, because it feels more like pissing when you have to go really bad…

Try it yourself it's not that hard, stop masturbating for a week or so and then edge all day, put a condom on a cucumber and shove it up your ass. Do it sqating but keep your back straight that's the best way to do it. Also when you hit your prostate a bunch of time it will hurt and you'll want to stop but you have to keep going and you will "orgasm" like 30 seconds after that. One time I orgasm on the floor and then decided to just plant my face in it while I keep fucking the cucumber but the most of it it's not cum it's just piss. You're basically pissing out what you had in the tubes from all the edging… Men don't have a g-spot, you don't actually get any real sexual pleasure from hitting your prostate, it's all in your mind. All of it just psychological.

Is he right? Because I, just like him, end up pissing maybe an hour or two into the session even if I pissed before starting. But some people have said that it's because you're hitting your bladder, possibly from pressing too hard(?) What is it supposed to feel like?

Experienced something new

So last night, I decided to try sleeping with my Helix inserted. I went through my normal prep and got ready for bed. I'm a fan of being on my back when I sleep and when I use my toy.

I did some gentle contractions for about 20 minutes until I started feeling with small waves. But by this point, I was exhausted from the day and just went to sleep. I woke up about 2 hours later with a rock hard erection and some pretty good waves coming from my prostate. I just laid there and let myself experience it. Couple minutes later I was asleep again.

So up to this point, nothing was out of the ordinary. Everything so far I had experience sometime before. Then something happened a couple hours later. I was awoken with a jerk and this intense feeling in both my cock and my prostate. It was something I had never felt before and unfortunately it passed rather quickly. I'm not really sure what happened but for a few seconds it felt incredible.

Three weeks away from Aneros and wanting it so bad!

Hi guys,

From July 11 until this evening Saturday August 1, I was forced do without Aneros. I had a financial emergency come up which caused me to suspend my Aneros sessions. Yet, the Aless continued unabated during the interim, and wow, I wanted to have a session real bad. Fortunately the crisis cleared up and later on tonight, I am having a session to celebrate.

I have washed for my session my usual Aneros buddies. They are in order tonight: Helix Classic, Progasm Classic, Tempo, and Maximus.

This morning I awoke this morning before sunrise with a delicious erection. That in itself is an indication that I am hungry for a session. My glans was engorged and I enjoyed stimulating it. But I could not linger in bed this morning. [In fact, I seldom do]. I had a function to attend this morning.

Most guys realize that their sexual apparatus is a dynamo of power and pleasure. It is not only their cock that is the wand of this pleasure, but also they know that their testicles, prostate, and subsidiary organs there are involved too. But also, many guys discover that the Aneros unlocks new worlds of experience for them also!

The "Golden Years" Are Here

It's been quite some time since I entered anything into my blog. I've been on my aneros journey for over 6 years now; and, I've recently retired – some 4 weeks ago. I haven't found a new rhythm in my daily schedule yet. A couple of health issues have arisen in the past 3 weeks, with eye surgery scheduled for next week. I find myself with time on my hands and wanting more than ever to share with like-minded men — who thus far have been very elusive. As the days slip by, I am constantly reminded that the "Golden Years" are here for better or worse. I have come to the conclusion that I'd better use whatever means of arousal I can get while I can still get aroused – not clear sailing though for a straight but curious Christian guy. Read more Â»

Made some progress! :D

So after several boring sessions, I'm glad to say I've made some progress. During my last session, after 50 minutes I finally feel what it's called P-wave, I assume. My whole body was in spasm mode and the spasm starts from my thighs, and then it flow to the butt cheeks, and then around to my pubic area. I always thought the feeling of P-wave is something like a continuous prolonged orgasm (similar to the female orgasm) but apparently it's not! The spasms feel good, satisfying and subtle.

One question though, since it took my 50 minutes to get to that state, how long can I enjoy the body spams? In the manual it says between 60 – 90 minutes for each sessions for beginners but I already wasted 2/3 of the time relaxing. I just don't want to push myself too much and risk injuring my prostate.

EDIT: I enjoyed the body spasms for around 15 minutes only. I'm just too afraid to continue.

Will I Get Bored of Sex?

I just bought an Aneros Syn today and it's coming in the mail. I've done some prostate play but nothing too much. Just a finger here and there when I masturbate.

I'm wondering if I'll lose interest in sex after having used the Aneros?

The Sexual Ecstasy of an INFJ

A number of years ago I took a Myers Briggs personality test. The other day as I was cleaning out old files and papers in my desk, I came across a folder with my resumes, it contained the results of that test. It was a very interesting read; I had not read it in a long time. Beyond the fascinating insights it gave me in its explanation of decisions that I have made in my career after I took it, it was particularly intriguing when I considered it in the context of my sexual journey. I had taken the test in my late 30’s before I began on this path of erotic discovery.

The first thing I did before I read it and prejudiced myself about its results was get on line and take it again. I scored it after carefully answering all the questions; I was pleasantly reassured that nothing had changed in 30 years, I was still an INFJ.

The interpretation of each MB type was explained in a set of profiles that accompanied the test on line. For an INFJ like me the summary profile said that I sought meaning in relationships, ideas, and events. Relative to the last several years of my sexual journey I had indeed done that; I had joined some sex forums but left them because they were shallow and a lot of the talk on them was inane. However, every forum that I was on I met people who became close personal friends in my real life off the forum establishing meaningful relationships with them. Read more Â»