Tag: Relaxation

The Point of Aneros — In My Opinion

This is a very slight edit to the original post.

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To a new Aneros user or anyone feeling frustrated:

Seeing the length of this post with the thought of, "I simply don't have the time or desire to read all this!" Let me give you a Rika's Note version of what this is about. I understand initial frustration and expectations of the new user. I detail what those frustrations are and why they occur. Then I proceed to describe a way to change the mindset and approach of Aneros in order to reduce frustrations and expectations so that this product and adventure becomes fun and rewarding. If you're a new member stressed and wondering what to do, you've already spent time trying to figure it out, spend a little bit more time to read and hopefully find a few answers to your questions. Thank you.

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I see new threads and topics all the time, as well as men in chat, just at a total loss about Aneros.

I'm going to use some creative speculation here for a minute, so please follow along.

What I see in chats and the forums essentially boils down to a feeling. That feeling is frustration. Read more »

4th session, I think my prostate is starting to live

Hi guys, just to talk about this.
I got my 4th session, I relax a lot more then usual, not trying anything, just get use to the feeling.
A couple time, i had some strange feeling, i very huge hardon, very very excited, almost like on the edge of coming, but not been able to go there. I let this happened a couple time, then at one point I had to finish up jerking up. Very satisfying orgasm, but still not the big O, some feeling of having to pee, huge hardon, edging, lots of precum…..cant wait for the next one

Refraining from masturbation has been a catalyst. Late night session blew my mind

For the past 20 days or so I've only orgasmed through masturbation once. I'm currently on an 8 day streak of not masturbating and I hope to continue this for a long time. I've tried to avoid masturbating before and found it very difficult, I usually become unbearably horny and end up masturbating to satisfy my urges.

This time is different though. I've been using the Aneros during my break from masturbation and it's helping me progress with rewiring. I can only get pleasure from my penis if I stimulate myself but my body now knows it can get pleasure from my prostate without me physically doing anything.

Previously when I avoided masturbation for long periods I used to wake up in the middle of the night and find myself with my hand on my cock stimulating myself even when I didn't want to. Last night I woke up half asleep and began subconsciously caressing my thighs, stomach and nipples. As I began to wake up and become fully aware of what I was doing my arousal strengthened. Looks like my body has found a new way to get its dopamine rush.

Luckily I had my peridise set at the side of my bed. I lubed up and inserted the largest one. My body sucked it in eagerly and the contractions began straight away. Very gentle but feeling so amazing. Read more »

A very sensual session… feel like I made love to myself?!

This was a very short session. I knew I would only have an hour and a half max, but I was yearning for a session so I went ahead and had one anyway. I've been extremely aroused for the past few days so I felt like I needed it.

I relaxed very quickly, quicker than usual. I had lots of small involuntary contractions all over my body, every contraction felt very nice. I started listening to Kelly Howell's 'Ecstasy' to help me keep focus and relaxation, which really helped.

I began to get very pleasurable feelings in my anus around 5 minutes in. My prostate swelled and I could feel my PC muscles twitching and dancing. I relaxed myself further and just enjoyed what was happening to me. I became so relaxed that I arrived at that 'special' place between sleep and consciousness and I began to fantasise, not intentionally though. I feel like my body brought out these little fantasies to help me with my session.

I imagined that there were calm waters inside me, I could see them inside myself. As my prostate pushed pleasure through me the water began to ripple and wave in sync with these pleasure waves. The water began to ripple more and more as I felt increasing pleasure through my body. This vision of water made me more aroused as I could feel exactly where the pleasure was, but it was also keeping me relaxed and tranquil. It was beautiful. Read more »

Mini Orgasms?

Around a month or two ago I didn't have any particular 'pleasure' that was generated by the Aneros, but this has changed dramatically.

I haven't masturbated for a while now, maybe a few weeks? I'm pretty sure it's had a really positive effect on my sessions, and on other aspects of my life. It's very easy for me to become aroused before I start a session. I can feel the sexual energy inside me. Every time I insert the aneros I am guaranteed some form of pleasure and I feel like I'm very close to the edge of something, the pleasure feels like it's leading me to something bigger but I don't have any idea what that is going to feel like! It's hard to imagine.

The past two sessions have been really nice. They were both quite different but they followed the same pattern. In both sessions I've been extremely relaxed and comfortable, which has been difficult to achieve in the past. The summer weather has probably helped this since I can keep warm without the use of radiators/space heaters!
I've felt warm waves come over me at around the 15 minute mark of each session. Then my anus starts to feel very warm, my legs begin to twitch a lot, almost vibrating. After a short while I begin to feel a gentle, tickly pleasure in my lower abdomen, my prostate and my legs. It's subtle at first but grows in intensity a little. It's constant for a minute or two at first and then disappears. It comes back in small waves, each wave brings me a similar amount of pleasure to begin with but the feeling lingers for longer each time. Read more »

Quite a happy surprise

I didn't think it was possible. I'm str-8 without a woman and 73 years old. I saw some videos on line and decided to take a chance trying the helix. When it came, I couldn't wait to try it out. I didn't expect much at all. So, after lubing I inserted it and was amazed how it just seemed to pulled in. I was thinking that perhaps nothing would happen, and if it did it would take at least 40 minutes. I just cleared my mind and relaxed and gently massaged my nipples as I was conscious of slowly breathing.. Much to my surprise in 10 minutes I started to feel something (maybe like subtle twiches). Then in rhythm with my breathing I started to gently draw the helix up inside me. After another 5 minutes wonderful feelings started to happen and shortly thereafter I was shaking and gyrating like I never expected could happen to me. It was wonderful. I enjoyed the session for just about an hour and then felt sort of exhausted — but GREAT. The only thing was my mouth was so dry, probably from breathing through my mouth (at times gasping). Is there a solution for this, or should I just keep a water bottle handy?

Wow!

So I'm not much of a blogger but these results I just had to share.

I purchased my aneros about 4 years with limited success. I could get some movement going in the first month but didn't stick to close to the program. Because of the limited results I basically put my helix into a drawer and didn't think much about it.

About 2 months ago I rediscovered the toy and thought, 'hey why not give it a try.' Well tonight I'm writing because of my phenomenal results.

Over the past 2 months I have gotten closer to many of the experiences described on this site with anal contractions, feeling of pleasure in my prostate, but no grand finish. That all changed when I read forum "The quick and dirty path to the super-O." After reading it and trying out the techniques I reached an orgasm that too me over the edge.

My muscles began to spasm, my body locked up and then this amazing wave of pleasure washed me as I rocked in place. After my muscles had relaxed I laid back to marvel at the experience only to get hit by another orgasm!

After that one subsided I rolled off the futon and squatted to catch my breath. As I was there I felt the same sensation and let my body take me to a third orgasm. I crawled on my back and watched as my penis engorged to a huge size as my whole body shook. Read more »

Astonishing session but a disappointing finish…

Feeling like a bit of an idiot at the minute… the session I have just had has been the most incredible, pleasure-filled four hours of my life. Almost an hour has passed I'm still not over it. Every part of my torso is glowing with orgasmic energy, my cock is rock hard and my prostate is still sending orgasmic feelings to my pelvis and stomach.

I'll give you the short version first… my session ended because I got a bit scared of what I was feeling. It makes me feel stupid because the pleasure I was experiencing was exactly what I've been looking for. It's what I could only previously dream about feeling and I got scared and removed my massager. I think I was having an anal orgasm… i've only ever had one experience that I could call an orgasm and that was last week so it's very new to me. That orgasm was also in my penis so I was obviously confortable with that.
The pleasure in my anus is kinda new. I've felt pleasure there before but nothing of this nature. It took me by surprise.
If anyone has any tips for me it'd be awesome, hopefully I can experience that again. )Without the fear(
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I've not masturbated for around three weeks, probably the longest I've gone without ejaculating before. I feel very energised and it takes very little to make me aroused. This morning I woke up feeling incredibly horny. My anus was twitching as I woke up. I ignored it and carried on with my day. By 11AM the twitching was back along with very subtle p-waves. These I couldn't ignore. Read more »

Things are really hotting up. More sensations! Possibly an orgasm?

I've had a couple of sessions this week and they have been brilliant. A couple followed the same pattern as the last session I blogged about.
**Pleasure waves that grow in intensity as the session goes on, lots of pre-cum, intermittent and very intense erections.

This mornings session was very nice. I got up early so I could have a few hours with the helix before university if I felt like it. Turns out I did! Good planning.

15 minutes after I inserted I started to caress my stomach and work my way up towards my nipples. As I got to the bottom of my pectorals, my nipples started to tingle. I kept my hands away from them as they became erect. The feeling of that was really pleasurable. All I had to do was rub the area around my nipples and it made them feel really nice. It felt better than anything I'd felt in my nipples. The tingling grew in intensity and then faded away to leave an almost orgasmic feeling, actually thinking back it was definitely orgasmic. I also had a very small circle of intense pleasure in my chest.

As that feeling continued I felt my prostate swell, this was kind of new to me. In previous sessions I've had a small suspicion that this was happening but this time there was no doubt. I could feel the helix rubbing against it without me doing anything. The anal twitching returned and all of a sudden things started to feel incredible. Read more »

First blog – A History of my Anus.

Hi there! I've been interested in prostate massaging and the Super-O for years now but only just registered to be a part of this community, if you'll bare with me I'll explain what's brought me here.

I'd first heard about all this lark about 6 years ago, when I was perhaps younger than I'd like to admit, I'd became very interested in anal play. Before I'd bought myself any proper sex toys I'd really enjoy sticking miscellaneous and probably unsafe items up my bum. I knew where the "sweet spot" was because I'd like to press into it really hard.

When I was about 16/17 I managed to get my first ever sex toy, not an Aneros device but a Nexus Glide. I remember getting home with it, being giddy, it was barely out the packet before I'd lubed it up and stuck it in me. I read a lot relating to prostate massaging from many parts of the internet, although Googling "hands-free orgasm" only ever gave me information on women's orgasms – not that useful for somebody with a penis.

I'd had numerous sessions but, with hindsight, I'd fallen into the trap that many Aneros users have fallen into: impatience, expectations and trying too hard. I'd have nice sessions which at their peak gave me waves of a dull orgasmic pleasure. It was still fun but I knew from other's that there was more. I'd still use the same toy every now and then, occasionally having periods where I'd use it multiple nights. I'd never prepared myself properly and still had expectations of more traditional penile orgasm. I started to doubt everything I'd heard, thinking it was mere myth and cynically a marketing tool to get people to buy sex toys, and I haven't used the toy since I was 19. Read more »