Tag: Relaxation

18M I’m only 4 days into this but holy crap does this feel good

I’ve had the aneros for about 2 years but haven’t made any progress with it until 4 days ago I found mindgasm and everything clicked on my first lesson. I already have done a lot of meditation so I think that’s why it happened so fast. Btw I don’t write a lot so sorry if my description is lack luster

My first session I got voluntaries and I felt this intense rush, like the pump at the gym but way more intense and my entire body. It was honestly a little scary it was so much but I relaxed and tried to ride it best I could. Afterwards I felt so happy I started laughing.

Every since than I’ve been totally hooked and I’ve been practicing constantly with my nightly sessions getting more and more insane. It doesn’t feel like the pump anymore but just pure pleasure. It’s like a psychedelic experience. It’s honestly like a drug

At this point I’m pretty burnt out after doing it so much so I’m going to take a break for a couple days.

Couple questions. Do you really start moaning involuntarily? How does the pleasure evolve as it gets more intense? And what do the next couple of weeks look like?

The biggest problem I’m running into is my pc muscle tenses up stopping the spasms, any thoughts?

I finally got an involuntary contraction, but stuck here. help!

I am a beginner and I need help to break through wherever I get stuck. please help and thanks in advance.

– Before this session, I stopped jerking off for about 6-7 days. But I gave enough edging and stimulation so I can be horny while waiting.

– Did full enema. (took about 2 hours)

– I took edible 35 mg after a small dinner.

– Waterbased lube was injected

– Started with a finger and small dildo to stimulate the prostate. I was switching between MGX, Helix, and ProgasmJr to find what feels better. And I figured MGX hit the spot so I was using MGX for the rest of the session.

– And I stimulated my nipples (I think they are linked to my prostate?) and felt tingles around my prostate. Whenever I touched my nipples I felt a little bit of contraction and it led to an involuntary, also a little bit of spasm. I did not know what it was but I just let it happen. When it happens, my PC muscles got contracted and my abs got spasmed. Looks like my body almost did crunch when it happened.

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I felt tingles and was able to do involuntary contractions, but it was not going anywhere from here.

Am I doing this right?

Should I try to be more relaxed when it contracts?

Maybe I felt numb because I took edible too much? Read more »

Something different…

So I have been playing around with and without an aneros for more than a decade with varying degrees of success but last night I think I finally had a breakthrough. A couple of weeks ago I discovered r/mindgasm and focusing on the first three lessons, doing them multiple times. I use the progasm jr and slipped that in backwards, hit some poppers and turned on the mindgasm wave pleasure ride. Wow wow wow!! Relaxing and trying to concentrate on my breathing I had told myself to just do what feels good and not focus on a certain end goal. It wasn’t long before involuntary contractions started. Then my entire pelvic region and my legs just started buzzing. I could have sworn I had a vibrator in my ass. While listening to mindgasm pleasure wave ride and flexing my sphincter and pelvic muscles i imagined my prostate almost as a ball floating in the waves of an ocean. The contractions of the muscles creating the waves and my prostate floating and getting tossed about in the waves. I started to focus on the muscle contractions to create bigger “waves” while swirling and grinding my hips trying to create a wave big enough to crash over the ball (my prostate). The visualization in my head and the pleasure I felt in my body were so in sync. I just let myself go and kept doing what felt good and tried not to focus on a goal (cumming, super o, none of that was even in my head). As I focused more on this visualization in my head I imagined the ball not only floating amongst the waves but that the ball was attached to a string or cable from the top as if connected to the base of my spine. I started to almost visualize this string or cable not only connected to the base of my spine but also to the idea of a tail, the tail of a very happy dog. I know this all sounds so weird as I type this but I was just so overwhelmed and in the moment that it all made sense. My body was buzzing, hips grinding, wave after wave crashing into my prostate. I also allowed myself to moan and groan as loudly as I could. Then I started to feel just a crazy amount of joy and happiness. I even started to lightly laugh and giggle, it was so weird and out of character for me. I was just happy and could not stop smiling like all my cares worries and fears were just gone. This is going to sound dumb,I know, but with this ocean wave visualization and sense of happiness, I felt as if I were in a movie. Shawshank Redemption is one of my favorite movies, and that last scene on the beach, I felt as if I were there, another world, and just happy. Read more »

P-Waves, Orgasms and Expectations?

Just chiming in here regarding my Aneros experience after many, many years. For quite some time now, I have gotten to a point with my Aneros use where my sessions are quite enjoyable, I do look forward to them. I think I was always chasing after some sort of explosive “Big O” experience and am now just trying to enjoy my sessions *for what they are* *and* *not for they are not*. Leaving my expectations at the door.
After initial insertion, I do often get some really nice erotic feelings and what seems to be a swelling-like pressure on my prostate. This often is accompanied by a hard on and “sweet feelings”. This may last for a few minutes before dying down. If I relax, and concentrate on my fantasies I can get the feelings of pressure back and the aneros will get sucked deeper into me and I get heavy heartbeat with what then feels like sexy energy, excitement and pressure “percolating” up inside of me like electricity. This can increase in intensity along with rapid breathing and some Aneros wiggling and in-out movement- kind of like an erotic massage deep inside me. This is also acompanied by feelings of submission, out-of-control and helplessness- all of which are also pretty sexy in their own way. I may often vocalize all this with little yelps and moaning. This energy will continue rising for up to a minute, reach a sort of “crescendo” of muscle tension and then sadly peters-out/short-circuits as my anus muscles seem not able to sustain holding the aneros. If I relax again and delve into fantasy it will start to percolate back up.
This cycle will rise and fall like this about 4-5 times over an hour. It is enjoyable and “hot”, but after all is said and done leaves me feeling HORNY AS ALL HELL, unsatisfied, and without release. Pretty much just a severe case of Blue Balls. I know we’re not supposed to, but I then seriously need to shower off, spank it the old-fashioned way, and clean up.
I would rate the pleasure I feel during these sessions as, on a scale of 0-10 (with a traditional penile orgasm being a 10), around 5-6, but on a longer, more subtle, extended plateau. Like when sex is getting good and exciting, but before the final minute of no-return. It is enjoyable and interesting, but always feels like there is something more that is left to discover and/or enhance. Perhaps I am wrong here and setting myself of for unrealistic expectations coupled with disapointment.
Just curious what I seem to be experiencing at this point? Are these P-Waves? Mini-O’s? Or the fabled Prostate Orgasms themselves? So many definitions and terminolgy is thrown around in the forums that I don’t sometimes know what I have experienced (or not).
I know everyone’s experience is different and what is intensely pleasurable for one person might just be so-so for someone else. Having read some others testimonials here though, it seems there is still much more that the Aneros can do. Some describe the feeling of an intense, sustained, erect orgasm with strong penile contractions, but hands-free and completely dry. This certainly sounds pretty great and I would love to experience it! Maybe one day…
Just my thoughts at this point along the journey.

Knocking on heavens door

I have had some success with prostate play in the last three weeks – i own the wand and 2 Aneros ( MGX white – ribbed base) and ( helix – the vibrating one).

F**ound pressure points and exploring – story**

I have had some amazing orgasms — the Trident – was working all by itself a couple of nights ago — the thing was fucking me like it was automated. I played a bit and then relaxed I find I reach around and raised the back arm slightly it puts me over the top a very nice pressure point. just release after a while and let the mechanics of the aneros do its thing

Yesterday – I felt horny — lay on couch – left side – ( leg bent up toward my chest) i left my underwear on and inserted the trident — not a full insertion – just enough to be locked in placed — the aneros was held in place by the back of the underwear . i slowly did kegels and contractions and after a while the thing need to go in and do its work ..

But before I found just a partial insertion and aim it up seems to find the sweet spot.. i was in heaven.. I rode that for a bit and passed out the Aneros was now slightly out and just touched the tip of my anus. I fell asleep in that position and was woken up my an amazing stimulation on my ass — i guess I may have moved and the pressure of of the tip excited me — any way it prompted me to have another session with the toy. Read more »

I hit a wall every single time

When I get the chance for a session I find that they always start well – precum, involuntary contractions, great feelings – and they build up to a point where I feel like I’m at the edge of something really great, but I find that after about 45 minutes to an hour I hit a wall and suddenly the arousal all disappears and it feels like I’m back at square one again.

This seems to happen no matter how good the beginning of the session was, and I find it really hard to relax again and build the arousal back up. At that point I usually switch to a different toy or my hands and get myself a traditional orgasm.

I don’t know if it’s just that I run out of patience or I get taken out of the moment but it happens every single time. I’ve tried mindgasm, I’ve tried other audios, none of them stop this from happening. Every time I feel like I’m on the edge of my arousal moving up to new heights and then it just plummets. What can I do?

I am a beginner, I need some advice

I bought prostate massager https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08C4Y165X?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share from amazon last week and started to use it.

I had only 4 sessions so far.

First session was all about how to use the toy and feel it in my anal. After first session, I started to get some infos from here.

Next day, second session, I took edible (25mg works best for me), used douche and rinse it around 3-4 times and took hot shower. After couple hours, it started to kick in and I got really relaxed. I injected anal lube and used my finger. It felt good even just rubbing it with my finger. And I inserted my toy and started to find prostate. It took a while but I was able to find it. It was tickling at the beginning, so I just let it tickles. This feeling was gradually getting bigger and it felt totally different than stroking dick and cum. It was amazing.

I rest one day and tried again next two days. One with edible and one without it. During these two sessions, I was not able to even get to “tickling” part.

Am I doing this too often? Maybe prostate needs a rest after one or two sessions?

Thank you in advance for your advice.

Orgasm after radical prostatectomy

This is my first blog ever. I had nerve sparing radical prostatectomy about 2.5 years ago. A great deal of time is spent talking about erections, but I was at a loss when it came to information on pleasure and orgasm. The only results I got from Cialis or Viagra was partial erections while urinating while sitting down, for a few days following. I also tried pumps but was not a big fan. Through it all my wife has been supportive, but I was left feeling that she was more on the sidelines waiting for me to figure it out leaving me frustrated and unjustifiably angry with her. The stress on our marriage has been extreme. I was given very little support from my doctor other than erection pills, penis injections or surgery to put a pump in my testicle sac to pump up an erection. Nothing addressed sexual pleasure other than being told the only kind of orgasm I could have would be a dry orgasm. “WTF” does that even mean.
After 2 years of trying, failing, and doing my own research to address the fact that there seemed to be some correlation between my erections and stimulation of the internal nerves that were spared during the surgery. I researched prostate massagers to if any might stimulate the spared nerves even though the prostate was removed. I discussed the possibility of benefit with my doctor’s office and had a very difficult discussion with my wife. I was so relieved when she responded that she loved me and would work with me to figure it out. I settled on the Helix Syn V and Progasm. I found the Progasm comfortable enough to wear while slept. Within a week or so of leaving it in all night every night I started getting erections while peeing sitting down even though I hadn’t taken any erection medication.
I have been able to give my wife orgasms without having an erection, but I was denied any form of physical pleasure myself. One night lying in bed on my stomach facing away from my wife, my legs spread and the Progasm inside me, I asked her to roll over and put her leg over mine. When she did I my body responded and did it ever. Every muscle in my body was contracting, my toes curled, I started panting and maybe even whimpering. This built up for several minutes until I was able to catch my breath and relax, but not for long before I started to blast off again. I not sure but I think this rolling orgasm lasted more than 30 minutes. We were traveling the next day and that night it happened again. So much of my frustration and anger was feeling that sexual pleasure was something that I would never experience again. I can honestly say that I have never had an orgasm as intense or satisfying. Any more my wife can roll over and rub my ankle and get me fired up. I feel the sensations when on my own but never to the extent as I do when my wife is with me.
At this point I’m looking for some counseling. I’m still frustrated with the medical community for their lack of help finding quality of life solutions for their patients. I shouldn’t have had to spend the amount of time I did in pornography to find medical information that the medical community is to squeamish to talk about. Grow up already!

Advice needed – no involuntary contractions

I’m having an Aneros Helix for a few weeks. Unfortunately, I have not yet been able to induce involuntary contractions of the sphincter and PC muscles by tensing and relaxing them. It also doesn’t make sense to me how this is supposed to be brought about by training these muscles (-> mindgasm). After all, if I train these muscles, they get stronger, get used to the load, which is rather counterproductive to involuntary contractions due to fatigue, isn’t it?
Does anyone have any tips on how I can achieve involuntary contractions as a precursor to a (super) O?
The massage of the prostate by the Aneros is also rather weak/barely felt by me. I suspect that the Helix is too short and thin (I feel more with the Nexus Glide) and will try the Progasm. Thanks in advance for your tips.

Helix v Progasm Jnr : a 48 hr road test

So I picked up a Helix Trident Friday after having a Progasm Jnr for a little while. I tossed up between bigger and smaller toy and after some consultation here decided on smaller. Wow 😮 Big isn’t always better.

I had the weekend to myself so it was time to make some progress and I wanted to compare these two toys. I’d had some success with the Progasm with what I’m assuming was a mini o. It was time to see if I could replicate it or better.

I don’t do much prep. No drugs. Not a lot of porn. I just get turned on by my sense that anal play is a bit of a kink for me. I jumped into bed albeit tired from the week and not sleeping very well. Popped in the Progasm, got into usual side position and relaxed. As expected, it didn’t take long to replicate what I’m calling a mini o. Pressure building from my source and then a wave of intense contractions in my abdominals. Then another smaller less intense wave. Then I think I fell asleep and was awoken some time later by another smaller wave.

That was pretty cool. Time to try the new helix.

Same deal. In, side, relax.

What happened next was incredible. 45 min of wave after wave of these intense abdominal contractions until they started getting less intense and less frequent.

Sleep. Read more »