Tag: Relaxation

First session with good progress, what’s next? 3

I got myself an aneros helix trident (plastic) and used it for the first time today. It’s my first sex toy let alone a prostate toy, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. I got in a shower tub, turned on an audio from r/gonewildaudio, lubed the toy up and put it inside me.

Nothing really happened for the first 20 minutes or so as I was just trying to relax and arouse myself. I slowly held the aneros with my PC muscle and let it go, repeating that slowly while gently thrusting my hip. Some time past, I felt like I leaked a drop or two of precum. I got distracted by the surprise of it so the leaking stopped quicky, unfortunately. Some time later, every time I clenched on the aneros my lower body started shaking like a maniac. And then, you know when you slept on one of your arms and afterwards it feels like your arm is numb and it feels like there’s sparks flowing through it? That happened to my whole body. My body didn’t exactly get sensitive, contrary to what I’ve read, just that sensation. I also felt like my bladder was full and I had to pee, but everytime I tried to pee I couldn’t, as if there was a wall blocking it even though I wasn’t hard (why did that happen?). Read more »

WOW! Super intense super O! I’m in love with my Progasm!!

I has the most intense session ever! I wasn’t really in the mood but inserted my Progasm anyways to practice a bit, less than 5 minutes later and I had the most mind blowing prostate orgasm ever!

It felt like my ass got really wide while something exploded inside, then constant waves of the most amazing warm feeling, the pleasure was so extreme I couldn’t contain my moaning and I kept having this thing where I thought I was ejaculating all the time.

Im so happy to finally getting to this point!! It’s just crazy how connected my entire genital area felt while it was happening, I felt very connected to my inner alpha or something weird like that.

To all the guys still trying to get here I think the best tip is to not expect anything and just give in and relax, keep going guys!!!

tips and trick

any good to know tips and tricks that may not be broadly known.

anything other then using any substances to help relax

[A first report after 3 months] Today I came twice in 15 minutes (using my hands)

I’d like to share what happened to me with the Helix Syn, I’m writing this after my most successful session.

I bought the Helix Syn about three months ago and had around 10+ sessions. I’m not completely new to anal play but I’m basically a beginner.

The first session were quite enjoyable but nothing special. I tried Mindgasm, I was listening to Binaural Beats, I tried to focus on the sensations and followed many different approaches after reading this sub. All the time I ended the session with a traditional orgasm because somehow I was aroused and the feeling was definitely more intense that normal. Therefore I knew that I was going in the right direction, tho very slowly.

The game changer was trying weed. I’m not a fan of it, I usually avoid it because it never relaxes me mentally, nor phisically. But as soon as I smoked half a joint, the sensations changed. For the first three or four sessions I was definitely feeling something new, they were probably pleasure waves but in the heat of the moment it’s hard to understand what is going on. I noticed that, when laying on my back, I tended to raise my legs and make them close to the chest and that definitely had an impact of the intensity of the feeling. I was moving my middle and base muscles, but I have the feeling I was more in control of them rather than the other way around. All these sessions were quite good and I enjoyed them all. I haven’t rally leaked any pre-cum, tho, so I’m still wondering if there’s something that I should do differently. However, since it’s vastly agreed that you need to focus on the pleasure rather than its effects, I decided not to worry about it and go on with this modus operandi. Read more »

Experienced beginner recap and questions

Crossposted at r/prostateplay but since I’m now officially an aneros owner and user I wanted to post to this community as well for insights.

Hello everyone,

Longtime lurker on this sub and longtime player of my prostate. I started my journey with external stimulation, followed by a stretch where I built the confidence to use fingers inside. It took quite a while for me to realize that I was actually reaching up too far past my prostate, but really wasn’t until I bit the bullet and got a proper massager to understand how it would swell and shrink over the course of a session.

For the most part, I’d feel a periodic surge in pleasure before a pretty epic, wet orgasm for the first couple years of playing.

The first toy I got was a cheapo from Amazon that was actually pretty short and I never felt did a whole lot once inserted without manual manipulation of the handle. I’m a relatively big guy (6’2” and 200lbs) so I always wondered what a longer toy could do for the exercise.

Fast forward to today, I finally got myself an aneros helix syn trident and just finished my first session. I should note that I combined the toy with an episode of mindgasm, which I have found to be by far the most useful audio accompaniment to my journey. I also went with a thicker lube than the typical ky, specific for anal fun. Read more »

First Aneros Experience – Decimated by the Progasm

Last night I had my first experience with an Aneros toy – the Progasm Ice – and was absolutely decimated.

A few months ago I learned about prostate orgasms and impulse bought a vibrating massager on amazon. It was my first time experimenting with anal play and felt great. I experienced involuntary convulsions and light p-waves, but nothing close to an orgasm. The sessions were fun, but after about 45 minutes the vibration would make my prostate numb with over-stimulation.

I learned about Aneros after a few weeks of using it and started to learn more about how to improve technique. A few weeks ago, I tried using the massager without the vibration at all, and relied only on my rectal muscles. I immediately realized that the vibration wasn’t necessary and broke new grounds of pleasure. I’m not sure if I can use definitive terms for what I felt, but it was much more powerful and long lasting than the p-waves and involuntary convulsions I had before. Immediately after that session, I ordered a Helix Syn and Prograsm Ice online.

I’ve never been more excited for something to come in the mail. Since I started prostate play, I’ve been more aware of how horniness manifests in the prostate. The rewiring of my brain was becoming noticeable, and I kept getting the feeling that my prostate was begging for another session. Yesterday I checked my email and saw that the package had been delivered. I immediately got butterflies in my stomach, and my prostate began to swell. I opened up my Helix Syn first and admired its craftsmanship. It was a bit smaller than expected, but I knew from reading on these forums that size doesn’t matter. Read more »

Major progress!

I’ve been playing with the Aneros for about a year, reading in and learning a lot from these forums, but have never contributed. Sorry in advance for the lengthy post, but after yesterday’s amazing session, I just have to share a few useful things I learned. 

First, some background. Before yesterday, I’d had a lot of great sensations, some involuntaries, but no dry or prostate orgasms. Most sessions ended with a sort of supercharged penile orgasm, sometimes HFWO (always a thrill.) Yesterday was my first truly mindblowing, holy shit experience. Here are few reasons I think it was successful. 

The house was empty. Especially during the pandemic, I almost never have time totally to myself. Yesterday, my wife was out of town, and kids were busy all afternoon. I had the house to myself and could really relax and let go, with no time pressure at all. 

Smoked weed. I took three or four deep hits off the vape. It helped a lot, in terms of relaxing and really feeling my body. 

Edged. In the days before the session, I’d watched a good amount of porn, so I was already super turned on and ready to go. 

Exercised. Before starting, I did several sets of pushups, and some long, deliberate yoga poses, with deep stretches and very slow, very deep breathing. It made my body feel alive and really got the blood flowing. Then I got in bed, on my back with knees up, and inserted the Helix. Almost immediately, I started feeling a tickling and a warmth spreading through my pelvis. Within minutes, the first in a seemingly endless series of mini-Os, which had me moaning, stomach clenching, thrashing.  Read more »

Long sessions

Much longer sessions tend to yield greater results for me. Started with Eupho around 2pm and was wearing it all day for second day in a row. By 8pm I was in bliss , lying prone and getting strong pushes that were sending me over the edge. I was trying my best to relax but was hitting great peaks and valleys in my journey. The best thing happened which was new to me, my muscles usually reacting to the squeezing just gave out entirely. Not sure if I was tired but I could feel everything ‘give up’ and the feeling of loss of control. The eupho was dancing around and I was doing nothing to stop it. I couldn’t if I tried. I was on the edge , calm and relaxed. I I could feel eupho’s gentle rubbing which was building once again. You can sense the tremendous rush of energy building in your prostate before it wants to release it. I was helpless to the experience and could simply enjoy the euphoric state.

I had a hard time stopping this session because it was so good. The aless I’m getting today will be worth a new post entirely.

Anyone else had an O so hard their body rang like a bell?

Progasm session. Weed b4 hand. Some poppers in a mason jar… about 35min into session and crusing the waves .. body going nuts .. really long inhale of poppers.. relax EVERYTHING… fingertips touch nipples… huge surging wave of pleasure then my ears rang my abs spasmed colours danced behind my eyelids and my groin rang for minutes like a bell…
Afterwards had to take nurofen so be able walk without coming… its still tingling down there…
Havent had the post session tingles and spasms last as long as today before… its like that O hit every single nerve in my body and is still echoing around…
Much wow and a little unnerved about just how insanely powerful this prostate O thing is. ..

I just felt… Amazing

I’m not so sure where to start this post, I have so much stuff to share in my mind… I hope I can let it all out somewhat cohesively.

tl;dr: I felt a wonderful sensation in my prostate and lower body, paired with mental bliss.

My journey has been an on and off one. Usually I do sessions for a while then I just forget about it for months. Also the ‘major historical event’ took away my mental health so anerosing wasn’t my top priority.

Anyway, recently I’ve been getting back to the Aneros community, lurking for a bit, having a couple of sessions. I’m also cumming a lot less usually these past weeks, which made my arousal increase. Last session I didn’t have much fun. It felt good, it intensified my ejaculatory orgasm. Nice. But this time, it was definitely a new sensation. Well, actually, it didn’t feel unfamiliar. It felt both new and familiar at the same time, if that makes sense.

I started by smoking some ouid. I know this step isn’t necessary, I just wanted to. I watched some porn before inserting the MGX (modified tailless version). I also watched a bit of porn while using the MGX but eventually I just listened to the sound of it. I began touching my nipples, laying up feet on the bed. My sheets were covering my legs, I think that’s worth mentioning cause it allows you to relax your legs at angles you can’t do bare naked. Read more »