Tag: Relaxation

Gentle Sensations Progressing

Hey r/aneros!

Tl;dr: relaxing into the sensations and letting go has resulted in my first gentle orgasmic sensations; thanks in no small part to the guidance I’ve received from all your fine posts.

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I’m a long-time reader, first-time poster; here because I’m starting to experience orgasmic sensations (I but not fully sure what they were). I’ve decided to try and create a habit of writing (both here and offline) about my experiences as I think it will help me build more awareness and tune in to what’s happening in my body. I’m excited to share my progress with you and also say thanks for everything you guys have posted that’s helped me along so far.

I bought my first aneros (Helix Syn) in late 2017, and I’ve been using it on and off since; but more regularly for the last 6 months. I’ve had my fair share (more than my fair share imho) of frustration along the way, but I’ve been experiencing more and more consistent sensations and progress recently.

When I first started my sessions consistently (save for the odd dud session) progressed in intensity BUT; all that intensity was in my body’s reaction; not in sensation or arousal. It was as if my body was progressing in its journey faster than my mind was. I had sessions that involved loud moaning; spasms, tingling, muscle-clenching and even strong full-body shaking, with little or no localized pleasure. It felt erotic, but not pleasurable. Read more »

Am I almost there?

I have had 4 sessions. 60-120 mins each. Yesterday I constantly felt that “tapping”. This was achieved after some relaxing slow contraction exercises. I sat back and enjoyed the feeling. However the tap would be hard, and intense, but no p waves and after a minute it went away. I would contract more. And maybe get another 20 seconds of tapping.

Relax for 10-15mins of do nothing and I literally felt nothing. No discomfort but no pleasure either.

I’d do 1/4 strength contractions and hold for 10sec. Tapping again. But then it goes away.

Should I keep doing this the same way? I feel like I’m relaxed and I can even feel the whole shape of the Aneros. I’m definitely aware and I’m absolutely feeling pleasure. Just can’t get over the hump.

past week +

Things just went side ways.

Friday 1/18 I some how buggered my neck at work, cant tilt to the left at all. Tried heat, cold, even tried a muscle relaxer from back when I pulled my back. nothing worked. I couldn’t get out of bed Saturday, ended up rolling off the bead as any movement made my head scream in pain. I went to the walk in clinic, they gave me a few shots & some pills to help.

Saturday 1/19 night tried the Jr just for s&g. I got nothing, almost couldn’t tell I was joined w/ him.

Sunday 1/20 I went ahead and did a full double release to restart my cycle,

Monday 1/21 tried some edging, it was like my cock was numb. I could feel myself stroking but got no sensations and only got half hard. Once I did get something it was to late and I just blew if you will, was an ultra lame orgasm/ejaculation. It was a waste of time. May as well give up till I stop the pills. You would think taking a muscle relaxer would work the same way as weed but seems not so much. Read more »

Nipple diddling, Kegeling, and jocks and cups!

Hi guys,

We are in the midst of winter here in DC, but it is going to get even brutally cold here for the next few days because of blast of Arctic air due to arrive late Tuesday night. Actually these blasts of Arctic air are the Arctic Vortex which breaks out of the north polar region. They are more severe some years than others. Actually we have some mild winters than others. What are Aneros guys supposed to do when such brutal winter arrive. In my case, I suspend my Aneros sessions for a while when milder winter weather returns.

I enjoy reading @goldenboy’s posts. He is so insightful when it comes to his sexuality/sexual experiences, his Aneros experiences, and his seasoned approach to jocks and cups! 🙂 His latest blog post, “Cup or No Cup?” piqued my interest.

Like @goldenboy, I wear a jock and cup to bed most nights. A jock and cup supports and protects my manhood for sure even in bed. Plus a jock and cup enter into my male sexual intimacy in the nighttime. Yes, like @goldenboy, there are some nights when I wear just briefs. They are OK, but nothing can compare to the raw, yet very sweet feel of a jock and cup at night! Read more »

MGX Classic, Progasm Junior, and Maximus : an amazing combo : Sessior for January 24

Hi guys,

Thursday morning, January 24, just around sunrise, I had an amazing sessions with MGX, Progasm Junior, and Maximus which lasted about an hour. All three models performed exquisitely. What impressed me most of this session was that I had to do anything but to relax and the each plow my ass and massage my prostate effortlessly. Yes, I breathed slowly and rhythmically which actually propelled the effortless action of each model as well as add in an occasional Kegel.

Immediately after the session, I had Aless which lasted throughout the day and overnight last night. I wore my BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 all night in bed which enhanced the sweetness of my Aless as well as my Kegels.

I hope to have a session with the same models tomorrow Saturday. Take care!

current findings & updates

Latest updates. Some findings, things I’m going to do different, kind of long.

Got helix all polished up, ultra shiny and as smooth as progasm jr. Going to do a little more to see if I can get that deep glass look, almost there. Joining is so much easier, glides in so smoothly and takes hardly any lube unlike before. I have also changed over to using just straight silicone lube, ‘wet anal’. Only takes .3cc prelube and a drop on the tool spread out to go all night, plus because of the molecular make up it is not absorbed into the skin, molecules are much larger than water based lubes so no drying out or having to reapply on those long sessions. A side benefit is it makes the skin feel smooth and supple even after cleanup.

I think I am starting to get a feel for my rhythm. Whether pre ejac release or full on refractory ejac I have an every other day cycle, ie day 1 nothing, day 2 things start to get moving, day 3 slightly more than nothing but not much, day 4 really picking up, day 5 caries on from day before. day 6 ok but not great, day 7 getting better but seems to plateau but duds seem fewer but not great. So based on these findings and my previous experiment I was going to start doing light pressure releasing, just enough to keep things flowing. Read more »

Amazing things happen with Aneros when you are relaxed : Session for January 20, 2016

Hi guys,

This morning Sunday had a rare session because of course, I would be in church. But today I stayed home I had a lingering cold which I didn’t want infect anybody at church and other places. Also shortly before noon today, an front passed through ushering excessively cold air for the next few day.

Fortunately in the seven or eight o’clock I had enough heat in my apartment to enable me to have a session. For some reason, despite my cold and the wintry weather, I have been horny, randy, and HARD, I guess of some very good exchanges and ideas shared in Aneros Forum and the blog section. Last night, I had an ardently erotic night wearing my BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 to bed and so I was HORNED for session. I decided to use one of my very favorite MGX and my rediscovered Progasm Junior.

Both models performed exquisitely. All I did was the breath rhythmically and calmly as well as to let my anal musculature work calmly together. MGX has its distinctive ribbed stem which massages the anal canal while the head of MGX massages fully my prostate.

Likewise I let my body do the same thing with Progasm Junior. One beautiful aspect of Progasm Junior are the P and K tabs which “lock” themselves in the area surrounding the anus thus the intensifying the massage action of Progasm Junior. I just relaxed and let both MGX and Progasm Junior their magic on me, each in turn. I have strong yet sweet Aless since then today. Read more »

Baby Steps

Started the same way as last session – relax, contractions, lubricate. On back, deep breaths, anal massage, introduce device. Anus was slightly more accepting than last time, but it was still slightly challenging. Gently contracted anal muscles to slowly draw the device in, which it did much like last time, but more reluctantly. This might have been due to using more lubrication than before. Will consider amount next time and adjust accordingly.

Gentle, gradual contractions, then release, felt good. could feel the same gentle stimulation around my scrotum, testicles, and this time, anus. Penis remained mostly flaccid, but sexual arousal was quietly simmering in the background. Went a little longer on time to see if I got any additional effects or different sensations – this time, it was more of the same, but nothing new. Minuscule movements of the device felt good – purely using my sphincter muscles. Again, body didn’t want to give up the device. It’s like once it’s locked in place, my body wants it to be part of my body permanently. Gradually used breathing and relaxing to get it out again. Anus felt normal. Same amount of precum produced as last time, and definitely could feel prostate stimulation / “fullness” – especially when pressing on perineum. Again, did not masturbate, did not orgasm.

Wondering about device placement – how far in is a supposed to go? Past the last bulb? Leave the last bulb out? will ask on the forums and see what people have experienced themselves. Still feeling things out, but definitely want to keep going. Read more »

Pleasure generating pleasure

Recently, the Aneros stroking my prostate has been so pleasurable in itself that I haven’t found the need for audio files like I always do in my previous sessions. The pleasure causes the PC muscles to contract and moves the Aneros to stroke the prostate and the cycle keeps on going.

The pleasure from the Aneros combined with erotic fantasies and circling around my nipples has been enough to tip me over to orgasm. This lets my body determine when it wants the orgasm instead of letting the audio dictate when I should receive pleasure.

I also noticed that my porn consumption has decreased because I realise that if I ejaculate, the session comes to an end. I would rather enjoy a longer and relaxing Anerosession than a rapid masturbation session and worry about ending it too quickly by ejaculating.

Wake Up Call

Well…its been 5 days since my last ejaculation. Also 5 days since my last bit of prostate play. Between work and just being tired…just havent had a chance to explore with myself. Well this morning I had an opportunity. The wife left for work early and it was just me and the dog. Started to look at some pics on Reddit and that got me warmed up pretty quickly. Today showed a lot of growth in my prostate stimulation journey. Once I got to the state of pure arousal…I pretty much stayed there for 30 mins and the only reason why it didn’t last any longer was because I needed to walk the dog.

30 mins of pure tingling sprinkled with very intense super-Os that made my head spasm. Thats actually the tell tale sign I am having a super-O. My head shakes involuntarily like I am having a seizure, my toes curl and relax without me really doing anything, my body is rigid but doing like the most minute spasming. It all feels like an exquisite rumble emanating from the center of my body. Most of the time my cock is rock hard but sometimes it starts out super soft and then the longer I am in the state my cock just rises. It’s such a good and relaxing feeling.