Newbie Needs Super O Tips!!!!!

Hey Gents. Just got my Helix this past Friday and used it 5 days in a row. I'm already addicted!!!
Going to try and control myself until Saturday which will be the next time I'll be alone with plenty of time to play. I should be good and ready!! I got the involuntary contractions real easy from the first session. I'm even starting to feel the difference between the anal and prostate contractions now. The tug of war between the two is amazing and feels great. Just haven't had a Dry O or Super O yet. The anticipation of my first one is killing me so I'm looking for tips to help me get there…

1( Should I concentrate on the prostate or anal contractions? Which are more important to reaching the O??

2( When the contractions get really fast does that mean I'm getting closer?

3( Do you have to be clenching up to hit the O or is it more involuntary? Sometimes I think I might be squeezing too hard in anticipation.

4( Which position do you think would give me the best chance of hitting the O??

I know many of the answers will be unique to each person, but I believe the more information I have the quicker I can reach my goals. I want to make sure I'm not missing anything or doing anything that will delay my progress. Any advise will be greatly appreciated..

Dirty talking helped!?

TL;DR:
* Session had vague sensations but wasn't going anywhere
* Semi-forced anal contractions 2 hours in began creating sensations
* When a lot of arousal built up, began dirty talk began happening in my mind
* Out of body experience occurred when dirty talk kept going
* Sweet vibes in abdomen and anus afterwards

The session clarified some loose ends on how the Aneros works, though I say this in loose a way as possible. I'd like to think I'm inching ever closer towards understanding how the device works, but I frankly just do not know anymore at this stage.

Jumping into the session, I worked on understanding the unique feelings I get with the Aneros. On a semi-conscious level I do this every time, but that night I wanted to try and define the two separate aspects of MMO: general and Aneros. Anyone reading this will already state that MMO and Aneros go hand-in-hand. Yeah, I guess – but it's been a sticking point to me that a lot of great developments I achieve with the Aneros are actually pleasures that can be replicated outside of sessions. To me, this does not ring any bells that I'm utilising the Aneros for what it's worth.

anticipation

Will be a day of anticipating the arrival on my new helix syn. I own a classic that I have hardly ever used due to lack of time for sessions and frustration at not achieving instant results. After returning to the Aneros site a few days ago, the call of the twitchings of my anus and desire for the super-o experience led me back. Now sitting slightly aroused from reading the discussions and preparing thru the words of like minded brothers, I feel an inner excitement in lusting to achieve this harmonic experience of mind, muscle, and sensual pleasure.
To the new labor on labor day!
Thanks to all who have led in previous blogs/discussions.

Amazing Session

oh my god, what an amazing session this was, right at the beginning, i started to feel some wave coming from inside, going to my balls, going to my dick, and repeat. i was relaxing thru out the entire process. Then at one point, it hit me, almost like a wet orgasm, but just inside of me, no cum, lots and lots of precum. not as good as a wet one, but different. it started to feel great, when that feeling keep coming back and back for like 15min, then at one point, i really exploded, cum hit me in the eye )was on my back( and drip down my chess, and the feeling kept going for like another 10min….it was amazing. but no shaking, no breathing heavy, i don't think it was a super O but it was good anyway

The Beginning

Let's start with the bio.

I'm a 29 year old male. When I was younger, I purchased a Fleshlight. The site I bought it from was also selling the Aneros. At the time, I thought it wasn't for me.

Over time, the Fleshlight helped me learn enough tantric control to get a full-body orgasm from my girlfriend's handjobs. Seeing as how that's amazing, but requires her to be around, I figured it's time to get something I can do solo.

I've actually known of the male g-spot since I was a young teenager but I've finally grown tired of my own preconceptions about the anus )and grown tired of finding a woman willing to try anal play( and also noticed that Aneros came out with the Progasm Jr. It seemed like serendipity and thus I've started my journey.

To start: I've never placed anything far into my anus.

It turns out my anus is essentially covered in hemorrhoids (I believe 4 total) but thankfully they are all external. It's rather awful and has been the source of me taking this long to experiment in the first place.

So here I am with my Progasm Jr which I ordered because I wanted to start small and I'd like as little resistance as possible as well as little pressure on the hemorrhoids as possible. I lube it up, get into the recommended position )lower leg straight, upper leg to chest( and proceed to take 15 minutes finding my asshole. Seriously, it's hard to find under the hems. 10-20 minutes getting the head of the Progasm in, then another 5-15 minutes getting the rest in.

NEW DISCOVERIES

Over the past 10 days or so, I have had so new experiences that make me think I've made it past the "Newbie" stage.
A week ago, Saturday night, I took to my rooftop deck to watch the Perseid meteor shower, realizing that the chances of a clear, hazeless sky were nil, but hoping nonetheless. So it wouldn't be a total loss, I went up with my Helix in and lay on a lounge chair. This was a good idea and, though I only saw 6 of the brightest stars thru the haze and 4 meteors over 2 and 1/2 hours, I quickly began to feel the P waves )?Perseid waves( and ended up "seeing stars". I then went in and lay on a mat laid on a bed in a spare room with my butt over the edge, but on the mat and I have found that to be consistently effective in getting things going. A 45 minute nonstop series of exquisite peaks of pleasure happened with the "Do nearly nothing" technique.

The major change in my experience has been my nipples "coming alive". With the Aneros in, they become amazingly sensitive and each brush or stroke or flick I feel right down there. I have tried the same without the Aneros in or after a session and it is not the same. That is, until last night )the 19th(, when I began my first aneros-less session with careful light nipple strokes and felt milder but definite stimulation down there. I quit after 30 min, because I needed some sleep.

Breathing is key

Hey guys. Have been gone for a minute but I only like to report new things that happen to me in my journey. So here we go. So I have been having some great sessions. Some long and some short but last night was clearly by far the best to date. So I cleaned out and lubed up. I noticed that I am started to instantly get waves from instant insert. I'm laying on my stomach as I'm reading blogs on the Aneros site and boom huge waves begin to swirl inside my body. My feet, my legs and my butt. My hole is already puckering and only after 4 minutes of having device inside.

I'm loving the build up. I'm keeping calm cause I've noticed if you stay calm and keep the breathes very slow and steady it will lengthen the orgasm and the intensity of the orgasm. So trying to keep calm in this not burning up room that was once just cool from the night breeze. Sweat if pouring and so is my pre-cum. But i feel this pull to my body. Like two great hands were turning me over and that is actually what was happening.

Session Three

Not sure why I can't save this as 3:00am. It keeps reverting to 3:00pm.
Friday evening was another marathon event. Again, I spent three hours in the afternoon and evening reading the Forums. So many different experiences. So many things to try.
I spent a couple hours in front of the TV practicing gentle, pleasant contractions. I am exhausted and I pass out watching TV with my wife. So little sleep but I feel so relaxed. She wakes me up as she heads to bed and I head downstairs to practice in the living room. I have an irrational fear of some insane Super-O ambushing me while I sleep next to her.
I enjoy relaxing for another 4 hours in a very similar manner to the earlier session. Some shallow contractions. Some deep contractions. Focusing on my breathing. Nice little twitches. A couple fuzzy sensations like an electrical buzzing around my prostate–these feel reminiscent of the e-stim devices a little. At one point it feels like a small rivulet of water pours down my abdomen along the left side and startles me. I look to see if I accidently urinated or streamed pre-cum but nothing is there and I am totally dry.
I read about lying on my back and tucking my scrotum between my legs and thrusting up to stimulate a sort-of hands-free orgasm as I start running out of time. The feeling becomes very passionate and violently physical as I thrust harder grunting and breathing and holding my breath at times. As I cum, and I cum hard, I feel like light shoots out of the top of my head. The ejaculate is a small quantity compared to the force of the orgasm but I feel that familiar refractory period again when my prostate tells me, "That's it, Buddy" and the Classic becomes a little uncomfortable on my prostate. This has happened with the Aneros devices when I have used them purely for jacking off in the past.
I do a few more cooldown contractions but the pleasure isn't there. I feel worn out but, again, I experienced something new.
Back to the Forums.

My Second Session-Thank God for the Forums

So, I see a pattern emerging. Everytime I read the Forums I pick up something new to think about and try. A new position. A new way to contract my muscles. Stop chasing the Super-O and just relax. I just spent an incredibly relaxing 4 hours letting the SGX and then the Classic teach me about my anus.
No more brute force approach. This isn't a sprint. It's even longer than a marathon. It might as well be a side career/job since I didn't invest this much time on any recent activity.
I start slowly. It is morning. The wife is at work. I have a couple timers set in case I fall asleep. I am just relaxed and breathing. I practice stomach breathing for an hour with gentle contractions. I notice that on my right side, bottom leg gently bent and left leg on top of it with a more severe bend per the instructions it is very relaxing. I do gentle contractions with the breathing. In this position, as I curl my head gently downward toward my feet and as I breath into my stomach I begin automatically have a gentle, intentional contraction. It feels like I am breathing through my anus. I pull air in and the SGX gently pulls into my rectum. I blow air out and it releases.
I begin to notice subtle differences in the muscle groups. The ribbed base has a specific feel when I grip it. I forget about the pressure of the P-Tab and just focus on the slow pull of the SGX into my ass. It feels like four different muscles as I isolate them. I feel a gentle spasming of my rectum. A pleasant buzz almost. So quiet and gentle. I am not watching porn or listening to anything except my anus. I am focused completely on my breathing and during the pause between breaths I notice the subtle differences in feelings that develop.
I move to my back and place a pillow under my butt and switch to the Classic with the finger ring cut off. It feels different and almost like I am starting over. Then I get little tingles. No P-Waves. Nothing ground breaking. But I feel in comparison to my first session, this is a fantastic improvement. Sometimes my cock is hard. Most times it is not.
Back to the Forums for more research.

on the path of success

Had a very good session last night, started on my back, leg up, feet flat on bed, listen to some Hypnaerosession i found. I experienced some very new sensation, was like very small orgasm, but over and over and over for 15min, it had me do some pc muscle squeeze, then i try to go back to relax, but everytime i relax, it stop. it was strange but fun
i got so excited that my penis felt like a rock hard pole, dripping in precum, never seen that much precum before, and at one point, with some very very light touch on the head of my penis, i came like a mad man, cum everywhere, and a feeling of deep satisfaction. I know it still not the super O, but the small O i experienced, was a good reward after 2 months of nothing