Author: artform

The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 2

The Inflation Cycles

Over time, Mrs. a and I found that we really enjoy taking the M/F Energies Balancing experience further and in a counter-intuitive direction. As we began to experience the energies exchanges more clearly and quickly, we also felt my flaccid penis taking that stimulus back to an ejaculatory circuit, or more frequently, a mixed circuits response and starting to erect, at least to semi-soft or slightly firmer state, what I have earlier here described as the "leatherman".

As this happens we do some "old fashioned" higher speed humping, until we have teased up anticipatory pleasures and more aroused excitement. This too does not take as long as it used to. Sounds a bit like premature ejac about to go off, yet Mrs. a is also getting this more rapid buildup. There is even a hint of edging to it sometimes. Very delightful for both!!

Right about then my body says: "Hold it!" (in every sense)! And wanting a great chain of Super-Os before anything ending in ejac, and wanting the mounting and distracting pains from earlier injuries to ease off, and having the ED timer run out of buzz; my penis deflates and we both are thrilled! Read more »

The Joyous Benefits and Art of Soft (and Semi-Soft) Penis Sex with your Female Partner: Part 1

This topic has come up, so to speak, both here and at KSMO in threads and chats repeatedly over the last few months. The most notable and significant response for me is the unanimous, again to date it has been unanimous, and highly enthusiastic comments by women about their preference for a man who can be a skilful lover in more ways than the hard driving pylon, ejac and doze, apparently regardless of whatever clever and satisfying conventional foreplay leads up to the classic.

The following is Part 1 of a range of techniques that Mrs. a, my dear wife, and I have responded to and embraced enthusiastically as our "mutual prostates journey together" has developed and grown so radically, so deeply lovingly and mutually energizing beyond any expectations, and so out of this world experientially.

Male/Female/Yin/Yang Energies Balancing Intercourse

After mutual caressing, slowly and gently, with a bit of finger assist if necessary, enter your partner's vagina with your flaccid penis. Both deeply relaxing, stay still and feel the contact and sense of connection. Do not thrust. Do not move, even gently. Stay still. Do not thrust. You and your partner may begin to sense micro-"electricity" moving in each direction between you, through you genitals. This may take considerable time and repeated attempts before you start to perceive this mutual energy flow.

This is you receiving female/yin energies and your partner receiving male energies, until your systems achieve an energies balance, which you will each probably feel as subtly but deeply, and peacefully, invigorating. Read more »

Circulating Energies with Your Partner without Including Genital Contact

A couple of days ago, mrs. a and I awoke in the early morning and were feeling sensual and were caressing… general body caressing…

I could feel my energies flowing with erotic overtones but instead brought my left foot up under the ball of one of mrs. a's feet. I felt some energy flow there and asked if she did too. Yes. So I slid my hand down to enable me to touch one of her finger tips with one of mine. It just started… We were now circulating the energies mutually in loops fingers to toes through our bodies!!!

No muscle spasms, but the gentlest of Calm Seas-Os floating bliss while these energies coursed through us and we shared these amazing effects. We both felt energized during and for much of the day following.

If I had to say, I would say we were mostly feeling the effects ascribed to Chi, the Life Force, but there were clearly echoes/elements of Jing and Shen there too…

Doing more research on this and will report back…

Back again! July 14/09

I just added the following post to a thread in the KSMO Complementary Practices Forum section on the subject of John Gregorek's CHAKRAS App for the IPhone and IPod Touch: Read more »

Sex and Death II: More Orgasms, Healthier Males!

With ejaculation being called by the French; "The Little Death" (Le Petite Mort), here is a refreshing bit of science from the Brits, via PubMed/About (with thanks):

Sex and death: are they related? Findings from the Caerphilly Cohort Study.

Davey Smith G, Frankel S, Yarnell J.
Department of Social Medicine, University of Bristol.
OBJECTIVE: To examine the relation between frequency of orgasm and mortality. STUDY DESIGN: Cohort study with a 10 year follow up. SETTING: The town of Caerphilly, South Wales, and five adjacent villages. SUBJECTS: 918 men aged 45-59 at time of recruitment between 1979 and 1983. MAIN OUTCOME MEASURES: All deaths and deaths from coronary heart disease. RESULTS: Mortality risk was 50% lower in the group with high orgasmic frequency than in the group with low orgasmic frequency, with evidence of a dose-response relation across the groups. Age adjusted odds ratio for all cause mortality was 2.0 for the group with low frequency of orgasm (95% confidence interval 1.1 to 3.5, test for trend P = 0.02). With adjustment for risk factors this became 1.9 (1.0 to 3.4, test for trend P = 0.04). Death from coronary heart disease and from other causes showed similar associations with frequency of orgasm, although the gradient was most marked for deaths from coronary heart disease. Analysed in terms of actual frequency of orgasm, the odds ratio for total mortality associated with an increase in 100 orgasms per year was 0.64 (0.44 to 0.95). CONCLUSION: Sexual activity seems to have a protective effect on men's health. Read more »

Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4096&start=15.

>>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond… anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<< Read more »

Great Maintenance Orgasms

I have always also used my Aneros models for prostate massage specific treatment for my chronic Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) and prevention of the previous occasional bouts of more or less serious Prostatitis. One episode of prostatitis a few years ago took 3 months of antibiotic lashings to cure.

Although I can also use Aneros as a an erection encourager at times for my medication induced Erectile Dysfunction (ED), that is a different circuit, rewired and expressed consciously as a different intention. Such are the needs of Aneros multitasking! 🙂

So a normal BPH treatment session has the objective of a good vigourous hands-free prostate massage to break up those micro-crystals and other debris molecules so they can be flushed out with the next ejaculation, thereby "clearing the pipes". This restores a full and easy flow of urine where it can have gotten congested, narrowed significantly, and uncomfortable from time to time. Thank you Aneros and HIH!

These sessions usually start off in bed with relaxation, insertion, more relaxation and some voluntary/involuntaries opening movements. Once the energetic magic is working, relatively soon, my prostate is seeking something more vigourous and I get up for a walk about the house, particularly up and down stairs! Boy, can that Eupho move and MASSAGE!!!

Up and down, in and out (at first), side to side, round and round as we go (dance!) up and down the stairs!. At the exercise area, some toe-touching is fantastic! Deep Strokes! Recently I added a good ten minute speed walk on the treadmill. Nothing like it! Read more »

M/F Couples Mutuality: Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms

Mrs. a and I are so charged and thrilled with the erotic > ecstatic energies and the floating bliss we have discovered within us together on this Aneros/KSMO "training wheels" adventure.

The times when our energies combine to create a full "flowing waters of the goddess" ejaculatory orgasm for mrs. a, and we then bring me to a rollicking rocking rocket of a Super-T, and "we all flow together when we flow" as we did about a week ago a few days after the Full Moon Club, are so swirling and mutually engulfing and energies sharing inside and outside that they are always a highlight for weeks and months, even if we do not specifically pursue them in most sessions. They can be physically exhausting and are NOT still-body floating! – they are active body soaking!!!

For example, our ecstatic Full Moon Club session previous to this latest Super-MEOs (Super-Mutual Ejaculation Orgasms) event, after some initial jumping Super-Os, was ssssoooooo…. such beautiful and all-enveloping bliss ecstasy energies that as we returned to Earth, there was no need, desire, or thought of Super-T-ing and we carried that still-body flowing joy with us for several days, even into the Super-MEOs session above.

At our age the still-body flowing joy is such a gift and where we seem to fly more frequently. Yet we always love to visit the full flowing waters and semen, and touch our youth from time to time… Read more »

Full Moon Club parade of orgasms

J4 and a bunch have launched the Full Moon Club, where members, anyone who cares to join, all have sessions at (about…) 9:00 pm local time on the night of the full moon each month. The idea is to see if there is any resonance from/between all these orgasmic energies being loosed like a wave around the planet. A great P-wave circling the globe in 24 hours…

Mrs. a and I began later about 11:00 pm EDT (March 11/09) and after wonderful warmups found ourselves in mutual prostate massage and ultimately in the Wedding Band position, each digitally caressing the other's P/G spot… better than ever… parades of Super-Os repeatedly (and the old bod calling for more! not avoiding them!)…

butt then up, up, and away into the floating bliss of the Calm Seas Os!!! Twice I briefly left orbit and touched down on the planet for a few seconds butt right back up onto/into the endless oceanic bliss… Those two trips back down and back up were new and very interesting in themselves, like a ride in a new glass bubble elevator on the outside of a tall building, butt not the same in other ways; more like my being being stretched painlessly, even pleasantly, like a gooey yardstick of existence. Ahhh! so much… so many… so everywhere…

About 2:30 am EDT this morning (March 12/09) we came back to the home planet, cleaned up, and floated blissfully off to dreamland… Read more »

A Four Hour Orgasm….

Last night getting to sleep, the walk down the steps into Hypnagogia was great fun. Have you or your partner ever broken into laughter while halfway to sleep? The lower steps were almost completely covered with brightly coloured kitsch teapots shaped like little cottage cabins. Hypnagogia itself was a riot of images, colours, interactions, flow…

Mrs. a and I had had a fun discussion in bed, but were too tired for a lengthy session and went right to sleep.

This morning we woke up and, after morning ablutions, got back into bed and were reading and talking when I suddenly got a significant and persistent energy bloom in my lower abdomen, right perineum, testicle, public bone area, and growing!!! I felt the possibility of it expanding and tried mentally to open to that, or encourage the expansion.

Sometimes when I do that the energies are not strong enough or there is some blockage, and they just dissipate away… Butt not today!

After a brief pause when I thought they had disappeared, softly and in scattered points of energetic flares they started up, all around and throughout my body, at first most clearly in the extremities, around the perimeter. In a few minutes I was in the throws of a full body, campfires everywhere, Mitochondrial Orgasm again! Hallelujah! Read more »

Sex and Death

The following is quoted from a post of mine in The Tao Bums Forum. I believe that it reflects another dimension of the life force energies we are working with in their orgasmic and ecstatic forms here and connects us all to the poet's long held assertion of the union of sex and death:

My mother in her mid-80s had two surgeries for a life threatening condition; the first emergency to stop the condition and the second to repair temporary elements from the first. She had thought out her choices and intention long before and had prepared a living will.

After recovering from the violent hallucinations induced by the morphine given her after the second surgery, she talked quietly with me and said that she could not continue this medical path, and invoked her living will with absolute, crystal clear intent.

Soon she was transferred to a palliative care ward. It was cramped and noisy; restless and uncomfortable for her initially. That evening she manifested many symptoms and several nurses and her doctor attended. My brother and his partner and my wife and I were there. At some point she escalated into severe coughing, mucus, and cramping; sitting up rapidly and falling back repeatedly. Read more »