unable to relax

No matter what I do I seem unable to relax into the pleasure. As soon as I start feeling anything I try to relax and focus on the feelings but the moment I do so all the pleasure leaves. I’ve tried edibles but have had no noticeable difference on how things feel in my prostate (maybe i’m not taking enough? usually I take about 5 – 7.5mg). Any suggestions?

Adrenaline?

I’ve been getting some incredible sensations while doing aless and with aneros. However, whenever the sensations begin to build my heart rate increases and I have a strong urge to move and it feels like i have a very strong rush of adrenaline. If i try to relax the sensations seem to build but eventually the adrenaline becomes too much and i feel the need to squirm and move and all sensations seem to fade. Is there any way to avoid this from happening or has this happened to anyone else?

can have mini-o a-less but not with aneros

I got my first toy 4 months ago (helix syn trident) and have since then being using it regularly. About a month ago I started doing a-less sessions and on the first session I had my first ever mini-o (it was incredible). Ever since then I have been able to consistently have at least one mini-o per a-less session.
However, I’m unfortunately unable to have mini-os with my massager, at all. I’m really unsure why. (if it’s the toy, if it’s me or what) Everytime it feels like i’m about to have one I try and relax into the feeling and it immediately goes away. Is having a p-gasm different with the massager than without? Any help would be appreciated.

First mini-o(?)

i have a helix syn trident and have been getting pretty frustrated that i hadn’t been making any progress. Yesterday I realized my problem, i was amplifying the wrong feeling.

After reading about “letting go” on the forums and reddit i tried doing that by just letting my body take in the pleasure. Feelings started to get intense and when things started to get intense i felt a familiar feeling that was like extreme butterflys in stomach. That feeling was so extreme that it felt a little scary and i mistook it as a fight or flight response. I got scared then stopped.

Was this the right feeling or was i focusing on the wrong feeling?

Syn models vs not syn models help

I know one is made of silicone and the other isn’t. Other than the lube restrictions of the syn models, whats the difference between the syn and not syn? To me it seems like the not syn is better since it’s cheaper and has a wider range of lube options.

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How to apply prelube help

I have a few questions:

1. Can I use a syringe without the needle to apply pre lube to the anus? If yes should I use a luer slip tip or a luer lock tip?
2. How far should I insert the syringe in order to prelube?

Edit: The lube I’m using is ID Glide.

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Lube Help

I find myself quickly reapplying lube often during sessions and it can ruin the mood for me and sometimes be a session buster. I use the Helix Syn Trident, which is made out of silicone, and my question is: Can I pre-lube with olive oil, but use a water based lube as the lube for the aneros?

Helix Syn Trident first time use. WOW.

I finally decided to buy the toy and wowza is it a different experience. The pleasure was intense, but i wasn’t able to orgasm. Every time it seemed like I was getting close I forgot how to control my PC and sphincter muscles. Does anyone else have this problem? If so do you know how to fix it?