I know Aneros doesn’t recommend sleeping with their toys in, but I know a lot of people have done it anyway. Are there any serious reasons not to, and what are things I should do to prepare for it or make it through the night?
Author: Jack_Erman
When did you first feel something?
I just had my fourth or fifth session, and I don’t know if I’m making any progress. I like how it feels, but I still haven’t identified the Aneros hitting my prostate. I think I may have started feeling the need to pee (but I’m not sure because I did stop and pee in the middle of the session but I felt it after peeing too) but it’s very subtle. When I use my fingers, I can definitely feel the contact with my prostate and the needing to pee feeling. When did you first feel something, or how did you know you were actually hitting your prostate?
Coconut oil as lube?
Is coconut oil a safe lube to use when using an aneros? I have a water based lube, but I don’t want to have to reapply once it’s absorbed into my body or dried out outside during my session.
Finger better than Helix trident?
I’ve just started experimenting with prostrate play, and I’ve read up on what everything is supposed to feel like. The idea of a super-o excites me, so I got a helix trident to help me get there. I know it’s a long process, and you have to let go to get there. But when I have the trident in, I don’t feel contact with my prostate (the needing to pee feeling). I am able to get that feeling of needing to pee (and pleasure from it) with my finger(s) though. I would try to just use my fingers to stimulate my prostate, but I can only go for so long without my hands getting tired. Do I just need to stick it out with the trident until I start feeling something? Any tips for how to get that feeling of contact of the prostate with the helix trident?