joeboful, Author at Super-O blog

What am I doing wrong here?

TLDR; Aneros toys only feel good when I wobble them around with my hand. Why don’t my muscle contractions make the same feelings?

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So I’ve been using Aneros toys for over a year now – I’m quite confident that I’m using the correct muscles and stuff to control the toy.

I’m also gay, so anal stuff is not new to me.

Yet a couple of times recently I’ve had sessions that fizzled out very quickly and went nowhere.

But, when I wobbled the toy around physically with my hand, nudging it from side to side, it felt AMAZING. Like getting fucked in just the right spot.

REALLY good.

I can never get the toy to feel so pleasurable with my muscle contractions – only if I physically nudge it around against my prostate.

Same is true with my NJoy Purewand and other similar toys.

Am I doing something wrong? Have I been using the wrong muscles after all?

I feel like this pleasure I get from physically wobbling the toy is the pleasure I’m supposed to get from my muscles, but it’s nowhere near the same 🙁

Help!

Constipated after Aneros sessions.

Maybe I’m doing something wrong or going too hard, but on 3 separate occasions now I’ve made myself ill after sessions.

I think the toys may have been putting too much pressure on my bladder or something? I don’t really feel much at the time but then 24 hours after some sessions my urine flow is difficult, passing stool becomes very difficult, and I generally feel constipated, bloated, and sick.

These symptoms can last for up to a week before returning to normal. It’s very disheartening because this never used to happen to me but now it’s becoming more and more common and it’s putting me off my Aneros toys 🙁

Does anyone else experience this?

for the record, I usually use Helix Syn Trident and/or Maximus Trident. i often use weed and poppers to help out. sessions can last anywhere from 1 to 3 or 4 hours (with breaks) no more than 1 or 2 times per week (usually 1 time)

How often is safe?

Just curious, how often do you think it’s safe to use Aneros toys, assuming your sessions are a few hours each?

My personal guideline is no more than 2 times a week, but I’m curious what other people think.

Cheers! 🙂

Spontaneous sessions are better?

Does anyone else notice that an Aneros session seems to be miles better if you decide upon it spontaneously?

If I’m aroused and decide to have a session on a whim, it always seems to be great and easier to get p-waves going right away.

On the other hand, if I decide I’m going to have a session on a certain night and I’m very aware of it, it suddenly feels less “exciting” and the routine nature of it doesn’t put me in the mood.

I guess most sexual things are better when they’re spontaneous, but just curious if anyone else notices this?

Burning urethra?

I recently used the Maximus Trident for a couple of nights in a row, experiencing some very intense feelings which were all good.

However, a day later I’m noticing pain in my urethra, like a burning sensation while I pee and general pain felt in my penis.

I know prostate problems can lead to burning pee, just wondering if I’ve maybe been a bit too rough? Has anyone else experienced this?

I normally use the Helix Syn Trident which is a lot more flexible than the Maximus and I never have any problems…

It could just be a UTI and I’m making the association, but naturally I’m concerned.

What do you think about during a session?

I’ve been using the Progasm for a while and getting some pleasurable sensations, but I find that it’s kind of difficult to stay “aroused” and in the mood for an extended period of time, especially if the session drags on for a while.

I’m just wondering what other people think about during an Aneros session… do you think about something erotic? Do you imagine you’re in the act? Or do you treat it more like a massage and just concentrate on the pleasurable sensations?

As a gay man, it’s always tempting to think about anal sex, but there’s only so long I can keep myself “turned on” for if that makes sense…