Author: PewSmagoo

Fitment Question (Possibly Too Big?)

Ugh, this is gonna sound like a weird question but I suppose that’s what we’re here for, right?

Been working at sessions and such and as part of that, I cut out masturbation. Needless to say, I’m fairly “full” and easily aroused. Sometimes I’ve been putting the toy (Helix Syn) inside and just going about my day at home, to become more comfortable with it. Something I’ve been finding though is that I tend to dribble a lot immediately *after* I take it out, but not during. Same goes for bowel movements. If my prostate is full, I don’t feel much *during* the bowel movement, but it’s immediately *after* I’m done that I get that pleasurable leaking sensation.

Admittedly I sometimes have trouble with physical comfort while the toy is inside during a session; it seems easier to relax all my muscles when nothing’s in. The fact that I’m getting leakage when pressure is relieved from my prostate, be it removal of the toy or after a bowel movement, makes me wonder if this is a clue as to the size of the toy, and whether I need something smaller and more precise. Can you shed any light on this, be it with personal experience or experimentation? Thanks for the help!

Getting P-Wave Shocks… How To Increase Their Duration?

So I’ve been getting better at relaxing my entire backside, and finding that when I fully relax, I feel a quick flex of my (what I’m guessing is) my rectal muscles, and it sends a shot of pleasure through me. It’s a slingshot-like experience, and has definitely brought me the most pleasure so far. It’s a sharp shot, then I have to relax to draw the slingshot back again.
I’m pretty sure this is a P-Wave because it feels hella good. But what should I be aiming for? Relaxing more so that it shocks more often? Or work on elongating the duration of the shock? And if it’s the latter, what’s a good method for doing it? This feels great, I’m just not sure how to make it sustain…

Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?

Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.

**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.

All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation! Read more »

Found it, then lost it! Has this ever happened to you?

Last month, I arrived at my first prostate orgasms ever, after a month or two of really working at it. It was amazing, 10 in a row and all dry. The day after I didn’t have to even try to find the spot, my body just knew what to do. I was even having dry orgasms during sex, it was incredible!

Since that time though it’s like I lost it. Had mild success here and there but I’ve had to fight it. Now I went on vacation for Christmas and returned to find that I couldn’t find the spot at all! I don’t seem to be responding like I did, not feeling p-waves and I’m trying to retrace my steps. Earlier on I could even feel p-waves just during the day while a-less, and I’m currently struggling to feel anything at all.

Could I just be out of practice, that I forgot the common signals? I know it wasn’t a fluke, and I know I’m capable now, but I’m admittedly a little frustrated. I have noticed that I haven’t felt my arousal connect properly, and I have to wonder if that’s part of the equation. But how to become physically horny, and not just mentally horny? I’m not sure. I can get excited from penile stimulation obviously, but it’s difficult at the moment to get excited just by thought.

Wisdom and feedback are welcome. Help me reach that peak again!

First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?

I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.

Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.

Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t? Read more »