Update at the bottom.
Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.
Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.
Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.
I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.
Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?
I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF?