Losing control

Update at the bottom.

Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.

Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.

Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.

I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.

Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?

I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF?

Shivers

Think I’m starting to get the hang of this thing. Great session Friday, first time I’ve ever felt “owned” by the device, if that makes sense. Thought I could sneak in a fast one this morning.

Fast doesn’t describe it. 5 min in and I’m having 4 or 5 of these big shiver / yawn / need to stretch things. They feel awesome, what are those? Progressed to HFO fast, session wasn’t done but not much after that. Still a new feeling, so I’m happy!

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Massage fail

I go for a massage about once a month, registered therapist, no funny biz. Half way though I’m face down and she was working my hips and and things start happening ….I’m squirming around, trying to stop myself from getting turned on and I guess she thought it was a bad knot and just kept working it. Next thing I know I’m having an orgasm, just couldn’t stop it.

She asks if everything is ok, and I’m horrified. I explain and apologize, she brushes it off and finished the session on my shoulders.

I feel like I cheated on my partner. Has anyone else had this happen during a massage? And what do you do when it happens?

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Yoga pgasms

Question for the Yogi’s out there, when you were re-wiring, did you experience random coregasms?

I have had a handful of orgasms from core work before, but this is different. I’ve had some success with my helix, and Lately I can’t get through yoga practice, the routine I’ve been doing for over a year, without having an orgasm or two!! Good ones too, but it ruins my flow if you know what I mean…water and cleanup break time.

What gives?

Describe the pleasure

Hey everyone, hope to get some advice here. I’ve been making progress, but seem to have plateaued.

Most of my sessions end with a WHFO, but they haven’t hit that next level. Call it a b+, good but I’ve had better. So I know there is more.

Can someone describe how to keep from going over the edge into ejaculation, without killing the good feelings? I’ve always had a somewhat short fuse, but this feels different. I can stop the train easily enough, but when I try to let it build to something more I just WHFO.

What am I missing? Am I focusing on the wrong feelings?

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Yoga triggers an A-less?

I’ve been rewiring for a few months and have definitely hit a few of the usual milestones, including a few HFWO.

Had a new experience today, during a great yoga session I felt something building during some intense core work and I had an orgasm. Nothing earthshaking, but definitely an orgasm. Pleasant, but not really something I want to repeat in the studio if you know what I mean.

Was this an A-less or something else?

The journey starts

My journey started last night, and I’m going to document it here in hopes the Aneros community will comment and help my discovery. Here goes….

Background on me….42M, pretty fit as I do yoga and CrossFit 6x a week. I have dabbled in anal before, but I didn’t even know prostate massage was a thing. My sex drive is way higher than my wife’s, and to satisfy those urges I jerk off…a LOT actually. I’m also dabbling in erotic Hypno with good results, I HFWO regularly.

Last month I stumbled across the Aneros forum and it spoke to me. I had to try it and ordered the helix syn trident, and spent the next week waiting for delivery and reading everything I could find about technique and what to expect.

I was practically shaking with anticipation, and I know I shouldn’t have expectations, but deep down I thought I’d be a natural because of my yoga and hypno training…that had to shorten the learning curve, right? Honestly, I was a bit scared. How intense was this going to be? My wife sleeps in another room because I snore, and doesn’t know I’m doing this (that woman can have multiple O’s on demand…this is about me!!).