Experimented with using the condom this morning. It works well and feels very different.Lube the outside of the condom and lube the device. Insert the lubed condom first. ) I used my Rocks Off Naughty Boy to do it(. Hooked the neck of the condom on the P tab.Allows much more movement and clean up is a breeze :(
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First Session
It looks large at first glance. However, it inserts with very little effort. Size is full but feels nice as you feel it on all sides or all the way around.
The vibe is powerful and extends though the device due to the design. I chose a high speed setting for this session. Make sure you lube the vibe before inserting it into the device, otherwise it is difficult to remove.
Have tried KY and Olive Oil and so far olive oil seems to be the better of the two. Since it is filling and making contact, the lube is important for the most comfort.
I laid on my back with my knees bent.
About 7 to 10 min after inserting it, I began to sustain an erection without any contact. It continued to grow on it's own. Small spasms were starting on the inside.
Wife began lightly touching my cock as the sensations continue. A few minutes of light touching and teasing result in a nice erection and awesome feeling.
She then takes my cock into her mouth and performs a fantastic blowjob. As she pushed down on the base, I could feel the vibrations deep in my balls. I continue to contract around the device and enjoy the vibrations.
She began tugging at the device and pushing it forward and inward. This created a nice sensation and I began stroking myself. The spasms grew stronger and closer together.
Those who know
Those guys that think they aren't into this or the results of this Don't know !
Coming out
I've been thinking about how I came out as gay at 32 years old recently. I noticed in chat how straight people don't understand what an earth shaking event it is to initially acknowledge yourself as gay. Some people come out early and some later but is it always a big change in how we think of ourselves. I cam out after 32 years of being afraid of that side of me that is sexually and emotionally attrracted to other men. And it IS an emotional attachment as well as sexual. That's a lot of fear. What made it possible for me to come out was a gradual bonding with people I trusted, who respected me and wanted the best for me. I was at a weekend workshop in the country with the peer counseling group I belonged to then. The purpose of the group was to exchange roles listening to the other one and eliciting emotions that may be blocking our developement. Anyway I was sitting under a tree with a young man holdiong hands )this is how we counselled each other( and taking turns telling our deepest secrets. At some point when I was getting his attention, I noticed how good I felt with him, safe enough to feel attracted and NOTICE that I was attracted. I did not tell even him but I thought to myself "this means I'm gay". I had not thought this )that I am gay( in years, since I was a teen, and had immediately shut that thought out of my mind for decades. I was not ready to look at that side of myself. I had been living a sexless life, nominally heterosexual, dating off and on since. I took this thought to an older woman friend in this group and asked her to listen to me. She was the first one that I told. She held me for more than an hour while I shook mostly and cried, trying to process this. I felt like I had died. I felt horrible. I understood why some guys killed themselves rather than face this. It's a new identity that I was handed and I could choose to accept the new identity or continue to live a lie. Some choice!
Awired50 Vice Journey
I got my new Vice today. My third P massager. Did not have allot of time and wife participated…which was freakin awesome !!!! So allot more experimenting to do. So far looks Very promising 😀
Energy Transfer Perhaps??? Or just my crazy mind…
A couple of nights ago I was in the chatroom and something new and interesting (at least to me) happened. So here it is.
The usual regulars were in chat, and the topics were quite random. I love that about the chat it can be anything from sessions to whats for dinner you just never know. I got a private chat request from one of the members in the room. We'd talked before in the main room but never privately. Hmmm… I thought. I'd read some of his posts in the forums before (as i've read many peoples posts), and had a general idea of what he felt about the things he posted on. I could tell from his posts that he's a pretty dynamic guy. A pretty funny guy as well, he's always one to crack a joke, but manages to remain a level headed gentleman.
So while we were chatting privately we talked about numerous things. Just general everyday conversation about mundane things. The conversation was very pleasant however. I'd already had Peridise in before I started talking to him so I guess my slightly aroused state made me a little more ballsy than usual.
Attention!!! Calling All Women…and Men
Ok so this post is kind of a documentation of where my stance is on women and prostate/anal for men. I am not excluding anybody from reading it, but I'll be honest, I hope some woman who is struggling or needs clarification, or even a man who wants his woman or partner to understand his desires reads this and it helps at the very least. So strap yourself in…here we go!
Intro…a little about me and my blog…
Well, I've been contemplating over a while now on whether I should create and maintain a blog on this site. Well, I finally decided to take the plunge and did it! I'm actually excited about it, and the adventure that I'm taking on. I already write for another site that I dont own but the owner is so generous and welcomed me so lovingly )shameless plug www.cumeatinghusband.com devajones on there as well( where the topic matter )although aneros is mentioned on there in a post( will be different from this blog. The topic matter may overlap some but I'll try to keep this one more fitting to Aneros related things. I guess this blog will be a catch all for various things from documenting my sessions, things I've learned about myself though my journey with Aneros, or just what ever becomes my muse to write. I just go with how I feel at the moment so just stay tuned as you never know what you might see on here. I welcome any and all constructive comments )no assholes please!!!(.
About me: I am first off one of the VERY few women on this site )if there are any ladies reading this join us there are some exceptional guys on here, as well as grade A information and various points of view to draw from(. If you are a guy that has a wife or girlfriend that is hesitant, doesnt understand, or is grossed out by it dont be afraid to contact me )send a message or leave a comment(, I'd love to help women understand that there is nothing strange about this. I think I'll make a blog post about that…haha sometimes I inspire myself!
Attention!!!…a continuum…
Ignorance may also be a huge factor. Most women dont experiment with their own anus let alone a mans. Then there is the whole sexuality topic. Being a black woman in the deep south, I live in a place where you cant get any more conservative )thats a nice way of putting it…( than that. Most men are told that anything near your ass other than fecal matter )again being nice( is gay. That bleeds over to women as 'thats how you can tell if he's gay do he like his ass to be played with???' When that is simply not the case. It is misinformation that is propetuated throughout social circles.
Personally, I dont feel that any mate of mine should only feel one type of pleasure. The kind supposidly solidifies his heterosexuality. There are plenty of times when I'm close to orgasm or I am orgasming and he looks into my eyes and I know he can see the love and endearment in them, and even sometimes my vulnerability at that moment. I have the same desire to see that in his eyes as well. For a man sometimes he needs to feel a more intimate type of stimulation. A male friend of mine called to tell me how since being able to super o with his progasm, he had a moment when thinkning of his wife and he felt pleasurable waves go through his body, then he became emotional, and went into a blissful state. I found that to be such a enlightening experience that he shared with me. It made me think of how I have a feeling it will make the bond between him and his wife even more special. That lead my thoughts to my husband and I and how I have a need for him to experience similar bliss.
Happy Anniversary
First I would like to thank all my brothers who wished me a happy anniversary. I felt all the love and waves that were sent my way. When I tell you that the last three days were the most beautiful orgasmic days of my life. I'm still buzzing from all the anal play that went on.
It all started on Friday evening after my parents went on a mini vacation to visit family. As i saw them pull out of the drive way I began to prep for my own weekend utopia trip that was going to be taken in my mind from all the orgasmic pleasure that was going to be going on. I lit scented candles, I shaved my whoe body clean, and i showered and hot my ass ready for the time of its life. I entered my room with slow jazz music playing setting the tone and mood. I didn't want to to cum yet since the real big day was on saturday so I thought a nice long edging session would be just good enough to give me that plasure but nover board to the point of explosion. Mind you its been 5 days since i had a wet orgasm.