Category: Aneros blogs

surprise! – further steps

Yesterday I did my sixt session. Mostly I practice every fourth day so that there are 3 full days between a session. Often this fails because I have no time or aren't in the mood. So I had two weeks of abstinence between my last two sessions.

And I experienced the benefits of that! What this was I will describe a few lines later.

The first (right done) Aneros session I did, I experienced a Super-T (wrote a blog entry to that). All other sessions were similar, because I always ended up with a Super-T. The quality of the first Super-T was the best and reaching Super-T’s all the time began to bore me.
But yesterday I broke the wall of Super T's and gained a new level ;)
Instead of lying on the stomach or back, I spontaneous decided to do something new and chose the position lying on the side with the upper knee bent.
The second big difference to the other sessions was the technique. I didn't produced hard contractions, but tried to hold gentle sqeezes with light differences in strenght. After a while I contracted the muscles in a way, that caused little shavings. This was a the first sign of very small involuntaries and time by time I got better in holding the right sort of contraction for causing more of these involuntaries.
You have to play with the different muscles you have in the pelvic floor and need to level the magnitude of tension. The involuntaries were very slightly and disappeared when I relaxed all muscels, so it was not this strong kind of involuntaries, described by other members. But it was a beginning. Read more »

Chat Inspiration: Morning Coffee

Comment during chat session other day got me thinking:

"I love how we contain our bursting sexual mayhem when ordering coffee at Starbucks."

On the way to work. Standing in line at the Buck for morning cup ‘o 4-buck joe. Squirming in my business suit as my buried Progasm ICE is works me over. I’m trying not to show it, but I’m melting inside out. I’m next in line, just a little longer! The Progasm’s fullness and hard prostate pressure are so wonderful. Auto-contractions kick in .

I’m breaking down, can’t contain the fire within. It spreads to my whole body and a soft moan escapes my lips. Some in line look at me, but I don’t care. It’s all about my inner pleasure now. I nurture it and do my best to push the energy all over my body as I bear down hard on my Progasm. I’m visibly trembling now.

OMG! Orgasm is here! My whole body tenses, a giant Tsunami wave builds higher and higher with my ecstasy. My whole body tenses. I audibly whimper my submission to pleasure.

Strange, I can feel my muscles not just tensing, but flexing and growing. They strain against the suit fabric. I hang on the edge; the anticipation is so delicious…

OH YES! OH YES!! OHHHH! I explode from inside out in extreme ecstasy. The orgasm is so violent and wonderful. As I let go, I cry out, “YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!” Read more »

Erotic Cock Massage

It is usually the case with me that when I set out to learn something I wind up learning so much more about something else in the process. When I began this sexual journey the goal was to learn about female sexuality and sexual response. In the process I have not only learned so much more about my own sexuality but I have expanded it as well.

Ultimately I have pushed my orgasmic response and my experience of sexual pleasure almost to the limits of my ability to cope with it.

I have become so much more aware of my sexual proclivities and the nature of my sexual desire . Most importantly I have really enhanced my sense of the erotic and sensual.

One of the things that I have learned to do is to relax, perceive and give in to the sensations that my body can create. If my mind is still and my body is relaxed I can experience erotic pleasure that I never knew of previously and savor it like a rich burgundy or the silky sweetness of fine chocolate. One of the most intimate and intensely pleasurable experiences is the giving and receiving of erotic massage.

So for all you ladies here is what I have learned and taught J about how to give me the most exquisite and ball draining perineal and cock massage. Read more »

Beyond Expectations

I hadn't been blogging about recent events. Things had progressed real well in the past week. I had my first experience with Super O's only 8 days into my journey. One probably lasted 3 minutes. I was overcome with pleasure and whimpering "Oh my god" over and over. It wasn't quite like what I had in mind. It's easy to say you'll put expectations aside, but it's hard to actually prevent any kind of images in that will form an idea of what will happen. There wasn't a sudden transition like with a traditional orgasm. The ebb and flow of sensation in my pelvis grew over time. It was almost imperceptible the way it grew and took over in the end. In retrospect it really had a lot to do with relaxing, exploring and letting go when my body got to a state that things could start to cascade.

Anyway, as for this evening I had my first session since my breakthrough Super O session on Sunday. My anus has been more sensitive lately. That has been a surprise. At times I've felt P-waves and then tingling from my anus.

I had hopes of having more Super O's, but I was able to continue focus on being relaxed and not trying to do too much. A couple times when the P-waves would start to ramp up I'd take a step back in my mind and take in what I was feeling without actively urging it on with nipple stimulation or any added anal/PC contractions. Things still progressed faster than in any session before. The P-waves were more "gritty", more tangible than in previous sessions. Read more »

No Sleep

Hi guys. Here again to tell one of my crazy nights on this aneros journey. This one will be all over the place so bare with me. lol Ok I was in the chat a couple of days and were decussing our emotions as we ride and afterwards and how different we all are as men since using this great product. We were all imputing and talking about how now a few of use my shed a few tears as we let go and let that passion control our emotions and movements. I have once burst into tears as i rode cuase the pleasure was so unbarrable that i didnt want it to stop.

It varies with everyone. but since I'm rewired so much has happened to me emotionly that I was not ready for. But I am up for this challenge and journey and here to show my real true self. Also yesterday Rumel mentioned to us that Aneros is just helping us express our selves better. It was all hidden away. It's like Aneros is a key that in due time unlocks these treasures inside us that feel so great.

In saying that I had the time of my life yesterday. I had the chance to ride most of the day with my progasm ice. My parents were out visiting friends so i had the whole crib to myself. I was so excited. I got freakier and did things very risky but i was so horny and turned on that I really didn't care. Read more »

Partnered MMO Part One

This journey that I have been on for the last 18 years has been so rich and varied. It has also been internally focused and driven by me. I have shared my experiences with my wife and she has benefited from my enhanced ability to perform sexually and my newly attuned ability to coax shuddering orgasms from her lust dripping pussy.

To achieve each new step I took, I read and studied. I read all kinds of books about ESO and ejaculation retention; I dabbled in Zen and meditation, and in tantra. I am by no means accomplished in any of the eastern psycho – spiritual skills, but I have been informed and guided by them. I have always been a thoughtful – introspective person about my work and my experience of the world. When I embarked on this sexual journey I applied the thoughtfulness that I put into gazing at a beautiful sunset into my experience of sexual pleasure. When my sexual self discovery was beginning to resonate and illuminate a path for me I looked inside myself and I followed the path. I applied the intuitive prowess I applied every day at work to my sexuality and my sexual response. It was transcendent, transformational, tumultuous and a lot of other T words like terrific. Read more »

Aneros Springiness and Mushiness

Hi guys,

We had several days earlier this week with frigid weather. I had to end several sessions then prematurely because it was so cold in my apartment.

I do not know if it was Thursday or yesterday Friday. But either of those days, I was working with Helix Syn in a really wonderful way. Towards the end of my session with Helix Syn, I used the doggie style and just let this model massage my hole with subtle anal contractions which produced a very delicious and sweet sensation. When I withdrew Helix Syn and stood up to go back to my bathroom, I felt that my standing was springy and mushy, almost like I was floating on air. It was uncanny!

Take care.

P.S. I add that I didn't feel any weakness when all this happened. After I witndrew the Helix Syn from within me, I stood up with my accustomed strength, but felt that I was standing or "floating" upon a cushion of sweet, sexual energy.

My Response to Lingaman's 01/07/2014 Blog Entry ["Her Orgasm Delivered with Love"]

Just read Ligaman's terrific erotic entry of January 7th, and responded as follows:

["Lingham –

DUDE! What a beautiful and erotic post. Surely the giving of pleasure is a most satisfying amplifier of the giver's own bliss on our journey to ecstasy.

I firmly believe sex is a god-given gift, meant to convey spiritual truth, and to put ecstasy well within the reach of each of us. However, as a glue in intimate relationships, particularly the intimacy in our conjugal relationships, this gift is designed for us to communicate with passion the excitement of profound pleasure and erotic arousal, and its fulfilment to our significant others.

I just now read your great blog post, and commend you for it. I found it moving and arousing. Like you I'm a grownup married guy and have been blessed with a libido that motivates me in positive directions. I also work and have children, all four )mostly( at least somewhat on their own and out of the house. In spite of a modestly conservative demeanor, I've considered myself open and sophisticated in matters of sex, but was totally naive regarding my prostate, anus and breasts as sources or channels of erotic pleasure, although I understood and accepted that others were less penocentric than myself.

It was not until the fall of 2010 that I obtained a Progasm Classic and began in earnest to attempt rewiring. At the same time I incorporated my nipples and, of course, my asshole into my solo sexual activities. The rest is history, but the journey continues. Read more »

Penis Envy

Ok gentlemen … here is the most honest blog entry I have ever done. Any of you who have chatted with me already know this, but to the rest of you all …. Here it is ….. enjoy. The motivation for this entry is a fascination that has come from rewiring; that is my newly awakened sexuality. Being open and honest about this took some time but a few years ago I crossed the thresh hold and shared my feelings with friends on line and now here it is here.

I find erect cocks and male nudity to be incredibly sexy and very sensual. I am turned on big time by the sight of guys in aroused states, their members rigid and straining against their crotches, as if they were desperately trying to separate themselves from the groin they are anchored in.

I am particularly turned on if the cock is hard set in it's erection, gently curved in rigid lust and shiny smooth as it oozes a big fat drop of crystal clear pre cum or even better is erupting with opaque white cum. I have discovered this appreciation is not unique to me. I have talked to a number of other guys here on the site whose sexuality has evolved deeply as mine has as a result of MMOing and experiencing deep prostate orgasms. It does not signify any diminished appreciation or desire for women on my part, in fact if anything it has enhanced by desire for and erotic appreciation of female sexuality. Read more »

Not so do nothing

I don't ever moan involuntarily during a session, but yesterday I had long, quiet, breathy whimpers that couldn't be helped. The non-verbal equivalent to a whispering, high-pitched "Oh my God".

My prostate was vibrating out of control with an electric hum. It was doing this all on its own, and I was at its mercy. I could do nothing but watch it flood me with an overwhelming tingling orgasmic rush that didn't want to stop. That wanted to turn me inside out.

You know you had a good session when you're getting a buzz just thinking about it the next day. And I had a damn good session.

I've always been a fan of the "do nothing" technique, but what I never really asked myself was – Does "doing nothing" really mean I'm not doing anything?

What I discovered yesterday is that by attempting to do nothing, I wasn't doing something that I should have been doing. Which was to make sure I continued doing nothing!

This is confusingly worded, so let me break it down.

I do nothing, which builds initial good feelings and contractions. But as I sink into these feelings, I lose focus and allow my body to interfere. These interfering actions feel right, they feel deceptively natural, as if this is what my body wants right now. It wants me to add a little tension here or there. I feel like doing this will help me along, so it must be where my body wants to take me. Therefore I'm successfully doing nothing. Right? Read more »