Category: Aneros blogs

“Flatlines and Cravings”

Introduction
I am currently in Day 7 of SR and Day 71 of NoFap ® PMO. I still feel like I’m in a ‘flatline’ period but just the other night, I experienced an intense craving for sex (or at least an ejaculation). I have night-time erections every night but this one was different. At the time, I believe I was wearing a ‘cup’ and the unusual thing about this erection was not only with the physical reality but the mental state I seemed to be in at the time. Let me explain….

Extreme Craving
The steel-hard erection was accompanied by a mental state that I can only describe as an unsatisfied need for sex. Yes, I mean penetrative sex with ejaculation. It was a strong feeling and one which I have not felt in a long time. I have read that these cravings are entirely normal while in NoFap ® and the best way to cope is to focus on something else! Thank goodness I was wearing a cup!

More Spontaneous Erections
I have noticed recently that I am experiencing more erections (or at least half-ones) not by looking at porn but a pretty woman or a great, sexy body! I suppose this is an entirely normal reaction. It means that I am being turned-on sexually the right way! This is almost an automatic response from me. It can, however, be somewhat embarrassing if the erection comes-on at an inappropriate time such as on the beach or in the pool. But a guy has to cope the best way he can. Read more »

The Nutty Buddy Cup is Ideal for Diddling and Kegeling (with a shout out to @goldenboy!)

Hi guys,

Early this morning after a blissful night of diddling and kegeling in my BIKE CUP. I decided to the same thing with a Nutty Buddy Cup which I have had at least for a decade.

The Nutty Buddy Cup was developed by retired MLB great and baseball coach, Mark Littell, who was concerned that many baseball players were shunning athletic cups because they were uncomfortable to wear. With the help of two design scientists at Arizona State University, he created an innovative athletic cup that has two chambers for a guy’s testicles and contoured to fit a guy’s genital anatomy from right under his scrotum to just beyond his penis. Littell produced a Youtube video with him wearing this cup and being hit in his cupped area by baseball pitching machine. That was late in August 2006. I was so turned on that I jacked off to his video, and told myself I must buy this cup! 🙂 When it finally was marketed in March 2008, I was one of the first to purchase this amazing athletic cup.

Over the years, I have had an erotic dalliance with the Nutty Buddy. But it was only early this morning when I discovered for diddling and Kegeling. It is great in bed, but it is even better sitting in a chair, as right now as I am composing this blog entry! Read more »

subtleties of prostate stimulation

New tools teaching me the intricacies and subtleties.

In my last blog post I mentioned getting some new pleasure tools. I have been having lots of fun with the Njoy large plug. this thing just sits on my prostate giving me the pressure I require without interaction since I’m a do nothing guy (but that is now changing because of these new tools) inducing some wonderful feeling orgasms. These ‘o’s are different but also the same from the ones I experienced from using an aneros product. I also love the fact that I can join in the am and go about my day feeling a constant stimulation of my anal canal and lower prostate area, gets me and keeps me aroused almost the entire time I’m moving.

I think the biggest take back is since these new tools are so unforgiving on the body if used to aggressively, I am really starting to become more mindful of the subtlety of prostate massage. When using any of my lovers and doing clenching (kegels or some type of muscular interaction) I would get overzealous without even knowing it thus chasing away the pleasure I was seeking because I had no feed back if you will, I couldn’t feel it moving inside me until an orgasm had started. Using the new tools force me to pay more attention to what and when I actively do something since I got overzealous one time using the Pfun and became fairly sore. The large seems to return a light feed back to me letting me learn the light touch required. Read more »

“Meet The SGX (Again)!”

Introduction
I probably have not used my SGX Classic in a year. The SGX is the smaller version of the MGX Classic and it is no longer offered by Aneros. I decided that the time was right for a session; the SGX was the massager of choice.

Session
I lubed-up the SGX with SSG. I did not pre-lube for this session but that was okay. One think I like about the SGX (and the MGX) is the ribbed anal stem which provides a distinctive level of anal pleasure with each contraction. In spite of its small size, I knew that my prostate was being adequately engaged.

Almost right from the start of this 25-minute session, I began to experience an erection while wearing my XO ‘chastity cup’. I definitely had some ‘pumping’ action going on during this session which I could feel. I did quite a bit of low-grade moaning too. Being still in SR and NoFap ® I would consider this to be a therapeutic prostate-massage. About mid-way through the session, I removed the cup and just observed the nice amount of fluid emanating from my cock. After a while, I felt that this session was winding-down to a conclusion and I was quite satisfied with the feeling. As I have noted before, I now will be entering a ‘pseudo refractory period’ of about 1-2 hours during which time I will generally not be experiencing any erection or feeling of arousal. Read more »

Sweet, timeless memories about jocks and cups (inspired by goldenboy)

Hi guys,

Many of who have read my Aneros blog over the years have heard my stories about jocks and cups dating from my puberty and the glory days of adolescence up to my old age. This fascination represents a lifetime of experience and gives me even now the thrill of wearing these quintessentially male items which men and boys wear for athletics and even daily, leisurely wear.

I was eleven or twelve when I encountered my dad’s jockstrap for the first time. Mom had laundered in February or March 1962 and hanged it on a hanger to dry above the bathtub at home. Dad was going to wear it under his Little League navy blue umpire uniform pants when Little League began in late April or May that year. I decided to try it on when it was dry. I was baffled in how to wear it correctly, but I figured its mesh pouch was to contain my privates, but I was mystified that its leg straps gave that “bare ass” feel, so unlike the briefs I wore as my own underwear. However the “bare ass” feel of a jockstrap provides needed ventilation to a guy’s sweaty buttocks on the athletic field. This also applies to a guy wearing a cup jock. Read more »

Cheating on my Aneros toys

I know it’s been a good Long while since I have posted. I’m very patiently waiting for the vice 2 to be available for order. I’m actually very excited for this toy to be out. More appropriately I’m ready for this toy to be in and nuzzled up to my prostate for a couple of reasons, I have never tried the vice but have always wanted to and thanks to the Lelo Loki and Bruno my prostate has gotten some very new treatment with vibrating massagers. Honestly both these massagers are something every prostate pleasure man should want in their toy box. The Loki to me is what the rabbit is to my wife. It’s big, it’s bad and it will make me drip, dribble, moan and cum buckets. Put it in her skilled and oh my. The Bruno is smaller more wearable and throw some kegals in and look out. Hopefully all the vibrations don’t ruin the Aneros models for me.

“I’ve Been Cupped! — A Primer”

Introduction
While reading some recent posts in the Forum, there appears to be some lingering questions about the use of athletic ‘cups’ as they enhance our Aneros sessions. Having experienced this topic and written about it in somewhat great detail (along with @BigGlansDC), I felt it may be the time now for a refresher. Here goes…

Semen Retention, Chastity and Cups
I began my SR quest with the use of chastity cages. My best-fitting cage was the CB-6000S which I wore on and off for about 8 months. I didn’t wear it 24/7 but usually for 10-16 hours a day. It got me in the habit of delaying my ejaculations while at the same time, stimulated me so that my Aneros sessions became better.

At some point, I ‘discovered’ athletic groin cups—-or ‘chastity cups’ as I now call them. I had not used them in school for sports (like baseball) and so I relied on regular athletic supporters—–jockstraps—-when I needed support and protection. The first time I bought a ‘cup’ and tried it on, I could not believe the feeling! Now I must admit that I probably have had a jockstrap fetish most of my life. The jockstrap was worn to enhance my masturbation practice and I used it regularly. Read more »

Nipple diddling while wearing a BIKE CUP (inspired by goldenboy)

Hi guys,

Yes, I have been absent in my Aneros blogging, but I still have one or two Aneros session a week which I enjoy immensely. But my translation projects in my retirement keep me busy.

However, just about every night I like to dress my cock with cellophane containers, probably four or five of them, before donning my BIKE CUP with accompanying cup jock. The cellophane containers actually contain muffins, but they feel really hot and sweet on my cock.

I have spoken of the BIKE CUP Supporter Unit no. 85 marketed by BIKE Athletic Company 1985-86 which I purchased many of them in the four years they were in production. It was one of the best products BIKE marketed, sadly since then nothing BIKE in athletic cups and jocks could rival. Even sadder was the demise of BIKE Athletic by its parent company, Russell Athletic, in 2015.

The BIKE CUP is a contoured banana cup. It is HUGE. It created a bulge in the pants of baseball players. It is downright erotic. When you see a cup bulge on a baseball player. You know their genitals are protected. Good athletic cups and jocks are still made. Shock Doctor carbon bioflex cups are hot as well as the Nutty Buddy Cup invented by the visionary Mark Littell, an inspiring retired MLB player who still coaches baseball teams! Read more »

“Sometimes A Guy Just Gets Horny!”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Background
So I wake up around 3 AM with a steel-hard erection. I know it will take about 40-45 minutes to subside before I can even think about getting back to sleep. In the meantime, I try my best to keep my hands to myself. But just a little touch on my frenulum through my short PJ bottoms sends a ‘horny shock’ throughout my body and makes me wish I could have a wet dream or at least a somewhat involuntary ejaculation. But alas, neither is happening.

The combination of semen retention (SR) (Day 8) and NoFap PMO (Day 64) means that I have really scaled-back my ejaculation frequency. I now have them only to control my blue-balls; there is no prolonged pleasure. An edging session is out of the question!

But then I starting thinking about this some more……

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Do We Guys Have To Get Horny?
I suppose some guys would say “NO!” But upon closer inspection, these things come to mind. First, all ‘normal’ males MUST HAVE night-time erections (called NPTs). These will come whether the guy wants them or not. They are designed to keep a male’s penis healthy. With the regular ‘up-and-down’ of each erection (perhaps 5-7 each night), the penis is invigorated with new blood and thus is always ready for its primary mission: ejaculation. Read more »

“Pre-Lubing Is The Key!”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Introduction
Had a great session with Helix-Trident very early this morning. One thing I am doing differently these days (last 3 sessions) is to pre-lube. What a difference it makes! Not only eases insertion, but allows the Aneros to ‘move’ effortlessly with just moderate anal/pc contractions. I found that the easiest, most hygienic way is to use a latex exam glove, then apply a generous amount of lube (in my case, Slippery Stuff Gel) on the index finger, and pretend I am getting a DRE from my urologist! That deep insertion not only feels good but allows even the inner sphincter to get slick. And that allows the Aneros (which is also lubed) a most facile entry!

Can’t Say Enough About ‘Chastity Cups’
I was wearing my Mueller cup for this morning’s session and the reason I usually select this model is due to the placement of the leg straps which are quite far-apart. They do not interfere with either the P- or K-tabs of the Helix-Trident (or other models). It does not allow me to contact my cock during sessions and I can lie on my side or on my stomach and not have any interference. Read more »