Full speed ahead

Since I have written a long blog post and got logged out before it could be posted (my fault), I’ll keep this post brief.

Currently my sessions involve erotic audio (I find that soft sensual moans helps me to relax and drift into the right space), circling around but not directly on the nipples and lying on the back with knees pointing up position. It’s been working well and my past 10 sessions or so have gotten increasingly and distinctly better each and everytime (hope I dont jinx this with the too much expectations haha).

The pelvic muscles have gotten stronger, the prostate orgasms last much longer. I find that I can get into that orgasmic state much quicker too. At this point I can safely say the prostate orgasms are just as intense as regular TOs without the penis stimulation and ejaculation.

With some mild clenching and letting the audio moans kick arousal into the prostate, I feel the unmistakable orgasm coming on and it does. At some points the orgasm gets so intense and the Aneros strokes the prostate so intensely I think it could hurt me but it never did! Sometimes there are large strokes and sometimes really small spasms when things get intense. The orgasms come in different lengths and intensities. There was once I came off an orgasm and I felt the Aneros stroke me, it felt exceptional and I started cumming again within 5 secs.

“The Bigger Picture”

{Note: Adult sexual content expressed in this blog. Readers be advised.}

Background
Lying in bed early this morning. I had slept part of the night in my Mueller cup; it was sooooo relaxing I hardly felt that I had it on! At one point, I decided to take it off and just sleep in my PJs. I had some vivid (non-sexual) dreams which I remember. During the night, I began to dwell on this concept and will relate it as I remember. (PS I am currently in Day 7 of SR; I have not had an Aneros session in a few days).

Meditation
I began to think not about the obvious differences between us males and females, but rather our respective sexual functions . And the distinction was rather clear in my mind. We males are the “actors” (the aggressors, the dominant ones) in sex. It is up to us to deposit our sperm into the female. The females do not have this function, other than to regulate their “fertile” days if they want to conceive. It is entirely up to us to accomplish our “mission”.

Then, as I dwelt on this some more, it became clear that us males need to “ensure” that we are “ready and able” to deposit our semen (that is, to ejaculate) at any time. Further, it became clear that anything we can do to “stimulate” our functioning sexual apparatus is beneficial. That would include massaging our prostates (through Aneros), edging, and even masturbation. Watching porn would certainly not be out of the question. This is especially true for guys that don’t have sex or have it very infrequently (such as myself).

A Cockring Out Of Energy

Last afternoon I lay on my couch and replaced my envision of touching my sweet spot right above my penis‘ root and my perineum by forming a half of a cockring using my forefinger and my middlefinger. Inspired by the actual movies about action heroes and all their magic skills and energies I instead imagined a ring of energy emitting a mixture of green and blue light at the position of and formed like a typical cockring. At my sweet spots I attached some transmitters for contact and energy transport. Then I let the energy flow and the vibes take over. It immediately became one of my most intense Aless sessions including some achingly forceful thrustings of my throbbing rock-hard member, some extreme squirming and writhing by letting go every of a lot of surprisingly crazy involuntaries accompanied by vocalizations that could have been used for the next Jurassic Parc episode.

What a joy!

So many thanks to @darkOrb for his initiating post.

Mart

Minor Progress (I think)

2019-03-11 Length: 125 min.

Listened to 1st HypnAerosession MP3 for relaxation and contractions. Afterwards listened to about 20 minutes of 2nd MP3 attempting to relax. Unexpected difficulties due to frequent gas caused by taking enema about 30 minutes before session. Relaxation of any desirable length impossible due to the frequent gas and tensing required to keep HT in place during gas release. This excess gas feeling continued rest of the day and into the next day. This demonstrates that, for me, it will be better for me to delay my sessions rather than consider an enema.

2019-03-13
Length 95 min. Listened to 1st HypnAerosession MP3 for about 30 minutes of relaxation followed by 20 minutes of contractions. Switched to thunderstorm sounds of nature for remaining 45 min. mostly relaxing with occasional contraction and holding. Noticed something unexpected about the contractions… During a contraction, after several minutes of relaxation, there was much more sensation if I contracted slowly. After releasing, if I attempted another contraction too close in time, the effect was absent. In all cases, this only occurred on a single contraction after several minutes of relaxing. I would not describe this sensation as a p-wave as I currently understand that term, but at least I noticed something different.

“Cup or No Cup? It’s Your Choice!”

Introduction
Slept in my PJs overnight without a cup. Yes, only in Day 3 now of SR. Several times, I was awakened following an NPT. Towards morning, however, I developed a very strong, no-turning-back urge to start ‘petting’ my scrotum and cock. Using my fingernails, I lightly and gently started stroking the soft, semi-crinkly skin on my scrotum, sometimes reaching under towards my perineum and sometimes reaching up towards the underside of my cock. And know what? I couldn’t stop! The feeling was sublime and although I didn’t want to ‘edge’ myself to an ejaculation, I somehow felt that if I continued doing this, I would. So what to do?

The Solution
I had to make a choice. Either continue with the scrotal stim and get close to the PONR and ejaculate, or stop. What did I do? I stopped! Knowing that the solution was at-hand, I reached for my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and put-it-on. And immediately, I began stroking the curvy, sexy cup of plastic! I could not feel any of the previous sensations, but that didn’t mean that I didn’t feel anything. Let me explain….

The Trade-Off
Wearing a cup, then, obviously takes-away the temptation to masturbate completely. But in the process, it introduces a new sensation: stimulation from the cup. Since the cup provides some pressure all-around the groin and the male package, it has a unique, sexy feeling. And because the cup wraps-under the perineum, some pressure is put on that part of the male anatomy as well (including the prostate). This combination is (for guys that have never tried it) uniquely and specifically male-enhanced. It is somewhat strange and ironic that the absence of stimulation (from masturbation) can cause stimulation (from the cup). But not enough to elicit an ejaculation. That is the advantage (IMO) of wearing a cup! Touche’.

Blog Introduction

An introduction to myself and any progress I make with the Aneros.

I am new to blogging in general and am still trying to figure out how to use this blog.

I am 67 years old and weigh about 280. I have been diagnosed with an enlarged prostate (BPH). Research on this condition brought me to the concept of prostate massage for prostate health reasons and particularly to the Aneros massagers. Upon learning that prostate massage could also lead to multiple and enhanced orgasms, I became especially interested. wow, what a great side benefit.

i am retired and married with 2 children, 7 grandchildren and 1 great grandson. I gotta say that embarking on the Aneros path and all it can bring to me seems a little strange considering my age and station in life.

Some things for you to expect from my blog… I expect to note any and all progress. This includes new things I have tried and failed to produce results. This is progress also.

I don’t expect to create a blog entry on any particular time schedule. If I have made some progress, I’ll create an entry. Otherwise, I will likely remain silent. I don’t think it would be fair to make an entry just to report “nothing changed”. that would be a waste of my time and more importantly a waste of your time.

Keeps getting better

Seem to be able to get to SO’s a LOT quicker and they are a LOT more intense lately. Still some lackluster sessions but today’s lackluster is last weeks awesome!

The organic shortening has easily become my lube of choice. It doesn’t break down. Not likely to leak out. It’s thick and lubricates well.

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“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Intro
Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

Solution
I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Scenarios
Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either.

“Hey Guys, We’ve Got A Bulge!”

While taking a shower this morning and doing a testicular self-exam (which I do monthly), while examining my soft scrotum, I thought about this topic. Now I’m not here to state the obvious. But it dawned on me that rich or poor, tall or short, all guys have a bulge. And it is bigger when our cocks are erect. Females don’t have this “condition” so their normal “bulges” (more like curves) are the same size all the time.

Then I got to thinking some more…..

Some guys like to show-off their bulges by wearing tight jeans or even bulge-enhancing underwear.
Male athletes will display their bulges by wearing jockstraps with or without cups as part of their uniform.
Male swimmers and divers will naturally display their bulges through their tight-fitting suits.
Male wrestlers will show their obvious ‘packages’ through their skin-tight singlets (usually with a jockstrap or compression shorts).
An aroused male with a large package will approach a willing female and she can’t help but notice if she is in the mood.
And so on……

Where am I going with this?….

“Does Anticipation of a Session Make For a Better Session?”

Background
I had a nice session with Helix Trident yesterday. Slept in my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup overnight; I am now in Day 7 of SR. Lying in bed early this morning (about 5 AM) I began to contemplate a short session using my HIH 950.

Anticipation
In my mind, I was going ‘through-the-motions’ of prep: lube, insertion, relaxation and almost was ready to advance. In my mind, I could ‘feel’ the massager begin to work on my prostate. I ‘felt’ the soft but compelling glides of the slippery tool against my aching gland. Then, I ignored the whole idea. Why?….

Better Next Time?
I discovered that by building-up the anticipated Aneros session in my brain (I almost accomplished it) I was already on a path to prostate pleasure. It’s a little bit like anticipating an ejaculation through edging. But the edging never happened. Likewise, the prostate massage never happened. Yes, I was disappointed. But the anticipation caused a ‘rush’ in my arousal that is hard to describe. I can now feel a gentle ‘pulsing’ in my prostate, almost asking me: “When next?”

Analysis
As I entered this blog post, I am performing nice, gentle PC contractions and definitely starting to feel it in my prostate. Perhaps it will reward me with another great real session sometime? Touche’.

PS I can’t liken this inaction to a form of chastity . The anticipated session was real from the start. So I never anticipated that it wouldn’t happen. In chastity, you know that you are always denied the pleasure. This ‘mind-game’ is worthy (IMO) of further inspection.