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A Simple Chastity “Trick”

Introduction
Sometimes, even while wearing a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes fall-into a fantasy where I end a semen retention “run” with a female-assisted slow edging and an ejaculation. If I am not “ready” to ejaculate but do anyway, have I failed in chastity?

The Solution
While starting to listen to a nice track this morning for prostate health, I made sure that my box of tissues was completely out-of-reach. Usually, I put the box close-by “just-in-case”. But invariably (and I am now in Day 6 of SR) I could be tempted to rub-one-out. So I was sure not to have tissues or a towel or anything else nearby with which to clean-up. And guess what? It worked! Following an early-morning dream sequence, I awoke with a very arousing erection and felt like I could want to ejaculate. But still wearing my Mueller cup and feeling the pressure building-up underneath from my stiffening cock, there was nothing I could do but to remain in chastity! It was very frustrating yet at the same time so rewarding!

Conclusion
At any time, but especially in later-day SR, removing all ejaculation “assists” will greatly help to remain in your self-imposed chastity! I know from experience that having clean-up materials nearby can be very risky! So just keep them away! Remove the temptation!

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“An Easy Choice For Chastity”

Background
I write often about male chastity. In particular, the use of an athletic jockstrap with a hard cup, what I like to refer to as a “chastity cup”. It is such a part of my daily “routine” that most nights, I either wear one throughout the night or only part of the night.

Why Chastity?
Wearing these cups assists me in many ways. For starters, they absolutely prevent masturbation with a resultant ejaculation! That is a major benefit with an arousing erection, especially since I have trouble keeping my hands to myself! By keeping my “zone” off-limits, I can’t pleasure myself.

I have tried a “cock cage” for a while; I have a genuine CB-6000S and wear it from time to time. But when compared to the cup, there is much more preparation for use and maintenance required. Aside from the possibility of having a “keyholder” (which I did not do), there is not much more that I can recommend the cage over the cup. Yes, it is probably easier to “hide” a cage out in public (which I’ve done) because wearing a cup can definitely cause a “bulge” which may be noticeable. Also, the cages (whether plastic or metal) are significantly more expensive than a cup.

Another advantage of wearing a “cup” is daily management. Putting-on a cup is as easy as putting on a pair of underwear. Hygiene is simple too: for me, usually a weekly washing is all that is required. With about six cups in rotation, they all stay quite fresh and clean throughout the week. Read more »

“Ejaculation By Degrees”

Background
While lying in bed early this morning, unable to get back to sleep, I began to dwell on some basic male biology: In particular, the function of the male reproductive system and all that entails: masturbation, ejaculation and orgasm. And what I discovered was not earth-shattering but quite interesting. Male reproduction, by definition, is designed to be portable. So we are able to “service” an available female any time, any place. That is our function in this world. We are all familiar with the basic mechanics of sex. But do we realize just how powerful and portable it is? Let me elaborate….

Taking It Slower
Of course, the end ‘goal’ is an ejaculation, we all know that. But along the way, there are numerous things that can happen. Take masturbation, for example. If I want to, I can ejaculate in probably a minute or two. But if I take my time and fantasize, I can delay that ejaculation for perhaps 20 or 30 minutes. And during that time, a sexual fantasy can transport me to an exotic place where I can bask in the male pleasure of total sexual arousal until my orgasm is inevitable. Of course, with that length of arousal, I would be sure to develop the ‘blue-balls’ if I do not complete the ejaculation. So, once on that course of action, I need to make sure that I do in fact, ejaculate. Read more »

“Keeping It Out Of Reach!”

Background
Yes, only in Day 3 of SR now but still experiencing wildly arousing erections during the night! Last night, I went to bed without wearing a cup; but in the middle of the night, I woke-up rock-hard and honestly felt like I needed to ejaculate! Not wanting this, I quickly decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup which is quite confining and secure. I went back to bed. After a while, I began to experience that nice, gentle stimulation on my perineum and before long I developed a full-blown erection which seemed to get me closer to the PONR. I enjoyed that feeling for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes, then it began to subside.

Listening Session
After a while, I decided to retreat to my sofa and listen to some audio tracks. The one I selected was a gentle binaural for prostate issues; this was about an hour long and I listened to the entire track. It did seem to gently ‘massage’ my prostate with the sound and I could almost feel another erection starting to develop. But the stimulation was probably not that intense and so I did not experience another erection. Read more »

New high today

Morning. On chest with pillows under hips.

Some lack-luster sessions lately. Don’t know what happened but just didn’t hit the usual highs.

That changed today, big time!

Had a bit of time this morning so I cleaned out, lubed up, and popped in the Progasm. No more than two minutes, really, and I had mt first SO. Second was within a minute. These were about what I’ve been getting lately but, still good. Then the BIG ones started. I mean screaming into the bed pulling on the mattress big ones, and this over and over. I’m easily tall enough to grab the top end of the mattress and hook my toes over the bottom end. I haven’t pulled this hard ever. I bet I’m sore tomorrow. I’d SO then start thrashing a bit on the bed and have another smaller SO while trembling, incredible. Didn’t want to stop but had things to do.

Second session two-and-a-half hours later was the same if not better. NEVER had SO’s like these before and repeating. Got up a couple times to pee but when back on the bed things fired back up. Gave up some afternoon plans just to ride this train for a while longer.

Third session, two hours after the second, was like the first. Fast start, big SO’s.

You think you’ve hit the top and then you find the new level. What an incredible journey it’s been.

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Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members (updated March 3, 2019)
“Hi Guys,:)

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.
Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video, formerly available on the Aneros website, interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to the podcast#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros. Read more »

“A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away….”

[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]

Introduction
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..

Session
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax. Read more »

A Briefs pleasure

This is not specifically talking about Aneros but it’s about my newly bought briefs

It’s just a low-rise briefs that looks clean, minimalist and decent( Anything that purposely designed to be sexy in mind is not appeal to me, No offense ya.)
The moment i wore it, i was like in heaven. It even feels better than naked. (Naked down there is not comfortable to me due to some medical reasons, my left nut hurts every time i left unsupported 🙁 )
Due to the above reason, wearing it makes me feel sexy and horny. I feel horny every time when a briefs fit and hold my nut comfortably while contouring my butt nicely. The feeling is intimate.

Looking forward to let aneros destroy me inside out while having it on. Damn, feel so horny thinking about it. brb :p

A-Less Awakening

Recently I have been having for me good sessions with both of my models. waves of pleasure with what i am now guessing where mini o’s if i had to label. The problem was when things really felt good i would let go and have a hfwo. after a couple sessions like this I was able to control the ejaculation but had to stop and re start. was still able to get back the mini o’s but was definitly still approaching ejaculation orgasm so i would control them. I felt I was making some progress because the sessions and mini o’s felt good and I was able to hold back on ejaculation but was a little dissapointed that the ejaculation response was still running the show. i decided to try some quick a-less sessions recently due to lack of time for prep clean up and privacy issues. Surprisingly they where great, was able to achieve the same results as with the Aneros. Decided to let go on the first time because it was feeling so good and once again hfwo. tried a few more times and was able to have nice short sessions and control the ejaculation but never really let go. Then today happened, Decided to sneak in a a-less session my arousal was high and wanted to give it a go. Things felt different this time I was building to what before was what I am calling a mini o but it went to the next level with no urge to ejaculate. The feelings in my penis where incredible and it was as plump and hard as it could be I would look down and could not believe what was happening. I had no focus on my penis it was just feeling amazing and was as hard as a rock, with every little contraction I thought the head was going to pop off and no urge to ejaculate. at the same time I had a tremendous warm feeling in my whole groin, and pelvic area. I was having orgasmic contractions but not ejaculatory contractions. i was soaking it in and waiting for it to end in a ejaculation, but it just kept going on penis bulging testicles tingling and hanging loose, legs trembling a little now and then, an occasional spastic jerk from the lower abdomen area. I would snap out of it and look around to see what was going on and want more so I just relaxed and it started over again and again. It never really stopped but i could make it more intense by just riding with it. Never even had the urge to ejaculate but i thought for sure I was going to. It finally subsided I think because my body needed a break and I just layed there thinking wow what just happened. Definitly a place I have never been before and look forward to getting back to again soon.
Its hard to stop thinking about it I feel a whole new sensual energy coursing through my body and if I just think about it can almost bring it back. Wow another chapter but a really good one.

Anthem and my Prostate

Well…I have a new videogame obsession. Anthem!
So last weekend while leveling I started to do my kegels through the long loading times.After a while this started to feel good. As a gamer I typically have all day sessions on my days off especially for a game I like. Therefore about 30 mins into this gaming session I was practically entrapped in orgasmic waves of pleasure while playing this game. My fingers and eyes had one task and my prostate and PC muscles were creating another task on their own.

I wanted to intensify this so about an hour in every loading screen I would drop the controller and start diddling my nipples. Oh gawd…super-Os during every pause in the action to which I would gradually come down from that high while playing the game. It was quite awesome.