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Starting point (I’m quite lost…)

Hi. As I have not had any progress, I am looking forward to some advice. So this is my story.

Last month I ordered a helix trident in order to have new experiences with it. I’m not new to inserting prostate toys, I bought a prostate vibrator last summer, but I didn’t really enjoy it and I wanted to “start again”.

The thing is that first sessions using the aneros were fine. I was able to ejaculate 3 nights in a row, but I don’t think it was because of the toy (I have been practising HFO for the last 5 years and I achieved my first wet orgasm 2 years ago. So I give credit to my experience and nipple stimulation rather than to the toy).

I’ve been trying to improve my performance with the aneros during the past few weeks, but nothing seems to work. I try not to touch my dick and watch porn. Besides, I always relax before a session and I try the “do nothing” technique, but nothing really happens. I’ve also tried to move the toy making use of my PC muscles, but it doesn’t feel confortable or pleasurable.

I am quite lost. Do you know any first step I could take?

I’m going off the toys again

Well, that’s not exactly truth. I’ve found out that the best toy for me is a finger. For those interested I’ll give more specfics at the end but let me give you context, which is more important. In a series of events I’ve been trying intermittent stimulation. I’ve confirmed to myself, that sphincter is very important and I’ve used the tips of bigger toys to do it. It was no longer handsfree, introduced hassles, silicon lubricant, in short – it required a lot of attention and activity and grew tiresome. The strategy was somewhat successful though. I was reluctant to get into the practice of using my bare hand because it never seemed perfectly hygienic but I restricted myself to external stimulation and found out that it’s good enough and felt almost hygienic. I’ve found the perfect toy and it’s not just because it’s more convenient, I think the sheer amount of nerve endings that are engaged is important. This can explain some other things that coupled with arousal would trigger waves in me – the actual principle that can be reused for new approaches and as a guide towards success. Now for the actual practice, I’ve come to appreciate putting my hand on buttocks with middle finger right in the crack but the most important thing is to use tip of finger touching and lightly pressing. Not fast, not hard and making shorter or longer breaks to relax, I feel the pauses are important too. I don’t have any set strategy yet, there are so many possible variants. Easy to change positions, some feel better than others. As opposed to toys there’s huge amount of variability and precision – where and how and how long you touch, and you can feel it on both ends. It’s been very effective.

New sensations from Progasm

I’ve had another good session last night with my Progasm. I had it in for about an hour. I started off with nothing. Left it in and did some housework. Before I went to bed I laid on the carpet on my back, knees up feet flat. Shortly I began feeling some really strong ice cold tingly sensations in all four limbs, especially my hands and feet. I felt tingly, heavy, and paralyzed. The more I breathed deeply into my stomach the more the sensations were amplified.

Now, I found some binaural beats on YouTube for prostate massage. The sound of that got me back to the sensations I just mentioned. For about a minute I lay there still and my muscles and everything felt like I was on a rocking chair being fucked. They eventually stopped and I took a shower.

Are these P-Waves or orgasms? These are new in the sense that they have never been this intense

Easy aneros mod to save your taint!

I used JB Weld PlasticWeld to thicken and lengthen the ends of the trident prongs after cleaning and roughening the ends with sandpaper.

It was easy to shape by gently forming the PlasticWeld with fingers only. It set hard after about 4 hours.

The modified aneros is comfy enough to wear for hours now.

Use a lighter to slowly soften and then reshape the arms (place under cold water to set the plastic in position) – in order to shift where the tip of the aneros reaches inside you.

Experiment,
Make your aneros work for you. https://imgur.com/DC4s9TQ.jpg

Holding out for the weekend (retention and session length)

I’ve heard that not masturbating for a couple days before an aneros session makes it more successful.

I’ve also heard that having a long session is key and some poeple go for two or three hours which seems crazy long.

I’ve been using aneros for about a year, no O yet but here’s hoping. I’m focusing on relaxing and the do nothing technique but I allow by body to clench and twitch when it wants to.

I’ve had some success and gotten what I think are pwaves. Just two nights ago I used the aneros and my body tingled and I had a strong headrush like I was “high”. It comes and goes and eventually fades off. Maybe it would come back again if I kept my session going even longer but I get tired.

Anyways back to the topic. I had a fun session last wekend, but jerked off yesterday. So I am going to try saving myself until this wekend and will then go to bed extra early to have a long session, at least an hour. I’ll try to go as long as I can but even one hour seems very long to me, maybe it’ll be easier to do with a short break or two to drink water and apply lube.

First time buyer

Late 20s guy here. For the past decade I’ve occasionally used my middle finger to go find my prostate, with mixed but decent results. Really want to try using a proper toy/device now. Looking at getting a basic aneros, or something that vibrates like a Lelo Hugo. Does vibration work better or just keep it simple for max pleasure?

Njoy pure plug 2.0

Boys, die hard aneros fan here, but need to sing the praises of this bad boy. There’s some real magic in laying on your stomach while a 1.3 lb stainless steel plug presses your prostate in all the right places. Can’t say that I’ve reached super-o with it yet like I can with my aneros devices, but I did spend about an hour straight laying on the coach uncontrollably moaning (in pleasure). Also surprisingly comfortable to wear long term.

Sorry if I sound like a broken record, I made a somewhat similar, albeit less experienced, post Tuesday in the prostate play sub, but thought I should keep giving credit where it’s due.

If anyone has any fun positions or tricks, drop em below!

Are there any side effects to this?

Basically that. Good or bad, short term or long term. I had a very intense session last week, which I know should be good since it’s what I was looking for buying the toy, but thing is intense experiences make me very anxious (as someone who struggles with anxiety for ever) and now the idea of using it again gets me a bit panicky, mostly because I get this thought (stupid as it may be) that using this could eventually ruin my life somehow (same reason I don’t do weed). I did experience some after effects, mostly being very horny and aware of my prostate for a couple days, but that’s pretty much gone by now. The horniness is something I’m interested in because I usually have a low libido so if I could use this to make myself generally hornier that’d be kind of cool cause I could use that to have fun with my bf.

So for any users, specially those who have been going at it for a long time, has aneros and prostate stimulation changed anything for you? I’d just like to hear about your experiences outside of the sessions, whatever those may be.

Making good progress

These past 2 weeks I’ve picked up my helix trident after a few weeks off. It took a few sessions to get back into the swing of things, but in my last session I had a new sensation.

Since I came back to my helix trident, I have been using the “do nothing” approach as much as possible. In my last session I was listening to Shibby’s files and found myself reaching the end of the file.

During this part she was basically telling the listener “if there was a time to climax, it would be now.” At this point I felt my body give in to Shibby’s instructions and I began to feel this sensation starting in my limbs. It was half way between pins and needles, and a vibrating feeling. It felt really strange but I went with it anyway, this feeling spread throughout my whole body and eventually I relaxed so much to the point where I literally couldn’t produce a single thought during this moment and my body was just on autopilot whilst floating in this state.

This lasted 1-2 minutes and was amazing, however I knew that I could have done more in the moment regarding contractions. But I didn’t wanna ruin it by going overboard so I just let it play out.

I’ve heard people describe a dry orgasm and what I felt was similar but different, I didn’t feel like I was cumming but at the same time it was different from my regular p waves. Read more »