why is it so hard to do?!

I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel like a failure. Like I figured as long as nothing was painful, it’d be awesome off the bat.

I use the syn V and syn trident. I use lots of lube. I’ve gotten pretty good to separate anal and penile stimulation. I practice kegals. Usually I play after a nice hot shower and often after working out. I’ve tried the mindgasm thing. I use edibles.

Having it inside feels nice enough. I can move the toy with contractions. Nothing is painful. But I haven’t gotten the legs shaking. I haven’t gotten any involuntary contractions aside from when I also masturbated at the same time (I’ve since stopped doing these together). I haven’t gotten the mind blowing fireworks.

I’ve tried lots of different yoga positions. On my back, on my stomach, on my side. And these are fun and erotic….but nothing?

I’ve tried doing nothing, I’ve tried casually keeping it in while watching tv or w/e.

Is it really this hard to get a prostate orgasm?

Aneros with Mindgasm

Hi guys

So I’ve taken everyone’s advice and subscribed to mindgasm. I’d already tried the first three lessons, and because of things I’ve done in the past I found the base and PC muscles pretty easy to separate. Then the Top muscle…

When I do what it sounds like I’m supposed to do I kind if get it. I’ve been trying for the last few nights, and I do feel like I’ve got a good control of it (not long but definitely there). Tonight I was going to try again, without Aneros but I seemed to be getting some sensations so I thought “Ah feck it. What harm can it do?” so in went my Trident. I then continued my exercises and, not sure if nature took over but I found myself hard (not the issue). I also naturally gravitated to both my Base and PC muscles being flexed, and just doing the top. So my questions are a) am I doing it right, and b) when flexing my top should THAT be where all my main sensations are (almost like it’s being thrusted, or masturbated but v..e..r..y slowly and gently). And very pleasurable it was too, with a couple of gasps and ‘Oh my God!”s. Twice my stomach contracted then my head fell back on the pillow! Sadly no precum or anything but it felt like it was. (But I’m not chasing the orgasm; I’m letting it chase me)

Male Mindgasm?

Does any of you know any mindgasm or any binaural audio that is voiced over with male voice? The female whore voice completely turns me off.

I wanted to try them to see if I can speed up the process to super O

Thanks

I got to the point that a little bit of alcohol gets me going…

I’m writing this as I am experiencing some crazy prostate stimulation without anything inserted it.

I work from home, so my time is pretty flexible. I had two glasses of wine about an hour ago and just a couple ass muscle contractions are getting me over the edge.
My perineum area is extremely hard, I get shivers all over my scrotum almost like someone is touching my balls, and my prostate is shaking involuntary inside.

It’s a shame that I have to go back to work, but I’m sure if I had inserted my Aneros, I would’ve been crawling the walls at this point. As I contracted my ass muscles, I automatically start arching my neck and my back.

Ughhh. A small hit of weed would get me just right there! Sucks I have a big project to finish tonight but i think I’m gonna reward myself later tonight.

Just wanted to share this with you guys because I know lots of you appreciate my posts.

Happy riding!

Newbie – 4th session P waves

Hi thanks guys for a very informative group.Just got my Helix Syn V. First impression was “is this going to fit okay”. Not a problem. First two sessions short then a long 3 hour session after mindgasm lesson still just a few tiny good feelings. Then tonight went thru the motions and after a while decided to do it in the doggy position got into a rythm of 30 slow thrusts and a 30 second hold and release. Felt like bubbles forming in my anus and then a great feeling and its subsides. Same routine same result Happened about 14 times, had vibrate on low setting. During session had plenty of legs and hands shaking uncontrollably and after the session (Is this a good sign ?). As soon as I thought about my swimsuit fetish the perineum tab woke up and gave me a tingling feeling starting another wave .Any idea if this is a good indicator and any tips on going beyond the good feelings .Pc muscles are still very weak but excercising 3 x a day. both muscles. With good feelings and waves do i just relax or should I thrust and hold to retain the good vibes.

Have been prescribed viagra but have not used it yet will be keen to see if it enhances my journey.

Your thoughts would be appreciated

Unintentionally have more success A-less. How to make it repeatable?

Anyone else have this happen to them? I had a more powerful orgasm aless basically out of nowhere than I have ever had when using either of my aneros.

I have been having pretty good sessions lately with my helix syn and progasm. A couple times a week. Each session seems to be better than the last or if I don’t get the same sensations I learn more about my body and what to do/not to do. Overall I’m happy with my progress.

Two days ago though I had a more intense prostate orgasm aless than I’ve ever had with either of my aneros inserted. I had vaped some weed(normal for me) and had a rare night with the house completely to myself. Normally the only alone time is in the early morning before work. I had taken about a week off since my last session and about 4-5 days since my last traditional orgasm. I was sitting on the couch watching sports, not horny at all, and all of a sudden I feel a tingle and a slight warmth radiating from my prostate.

Nipple p-waves?

I had my 2nd session today and didn’t feel much. Then jsut now watching Netflix and my t-shirt brushed my nipples and bam! Instant bolt of pleasure overcame me and no Everytime I touch them I shiver with pleasure coming from my prostate. What is this?

Has anyone else received an open package?

So I ordered my first aneros directly from the company (Helix Syn V), and when it arrived today and I opened the shipping box, I found the outer, branded box of the product packaging *open* inside. And then the inner box, the one inside that which actually contains the aneros, was *upside down* in relation to the outer box.

I don’t know if I’m just being paranoid or what but I find it strange that they didn’t seal this product in any way, that they didn’t put more effort into appearance or apparent cleanliness with a product that they expect me to put into my butt. I’m also obviously surprised that they send me what appears to be an already opened product. I don’t know why this would have happened. Could it have been inspected before shipping? Is there any, even slim chance that I received somebody else’s *return*??

What do you all think? Is this weird? How did yours arrive? Should I be at all concerned about this or am I creating an issue out of nothing? Is this just how aneros’s ^(anerosii??) ship?

Thanks for your feedback! I’m excited to get started down this path, largely inspired by all of you here. Cheers!

2nd try!

Hi there, I’ve been lurking on the thread for a few weeks after regaining interesting in prostate play. I started a few years ago with anything I could find to no avail obviously clueless. I decided to get a helix syn this week and had my first session but nothing as I was struggling to relax and weed is a no go for me. Just had my 2nd session and after abit of nipple play I began to get rock hard for a few minutes then nothing. Then it happened again and my head went fuzzy and then got a bolt of fuzz all over my body 3 times then nothing… Any ideas what that was and any tips moving on? I cant seem to get involuntaries.