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How often should I try?

I recently experienced my first prostate orgasm with the Aneros Helix Syn Trident!

I’ve owned it for a while and practiced a lot after getting it, but I was never able to get beyond a few pulses of pleasure from the internal spasms. There’s probably a better way of explaining it, I’m just not familiar with the terminology.

Anyway, a few days ago I was in the right headspace, I was comfortable, had plenty of time, and eventually got beyond the light spasms (p-waves?)

It felt like my prostate was jumping forward, then violently back, then forward again.

Amazing. Never felt that before ever.

But it didn’t last long. Maybe 4-5 cycles, and done.

Tried each night since then without success. Just some pleasurable p-waves that lasted a few seconds and gone.

How long should I wait between sessions? Any advice on how to make it last longer?

Screams of pleasure

Damn, I had an amazing session today. Started out with a Peridise inserted while fapping a bit at my computer to some still images. Smoked some THC oil on a vape pen. Moved to the bed on my back knees up and put in my Eupho Trident. Almost immediate tingle at the prostate, and I took a hit of poppers with the sock method. This kicked off a series of super-Os so intense that I was screaming out with pleasure at the top of my lungs for minutes at a time. Lucky to be home alone!

I had my 8” dildo set up to ride while on hands and knees on the well padded floor. Slipped out the Eupho and slid onto the dildo. This dildo has a perfect prostate-friendly curve and hits the spot perfectly. When I ride I often just put the head right on the spot and barely move. This always triggers a prostate O. I also go deep, and get powerful anal orgasms as the head of the dildo plays with the opening to the colon. These orgasms are all the more powerful with popper hits.

I rode the pink penis until I was exhausted from back to back to back gut-wrenching orgasms. After sliding off the dildo I got back in bed and inserted the closer, my MGX Trident. Three of four more prostate Os and I was totally done. Or so I thought. My prostate is still buzzing away, calling out for another session later today.

Adaptation of the guide to “extended orgasm” from “Come As You Are”

*Come As You Are* is an excellent primer for women on discovering and expanding their sexuality. Its sections on what it calls “therapeutic masturbation” and “extended orgasm” are just as good advice for men seeking open orgasmic experiences, with a little adaptation.

I’ve made some adjustments for anatomy, and included some toy suggestions where *Come As You Are* focuses entirely on manual stimulation, however the bulk of the text remains unchanged.

[Read on Opening Men](https://openingmen.com/2021/01/14/the-male-extended-orgasm/)

For those who haven’t read my original guide, [here also is a link to that](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1eZQw5mleV2FeqhkU26dkQmhpIOav6919KzWe3w9_dco/edit?usp=sharing). Part of the research that went into that guide is literature like *Come As You Are* for prospective multi/extended-orgasmic women.

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How should I work to isolate pc and sphincter muscles?

I have been working with mindgasms lesson 1 and 2 for a bit and I have finally managed to recognize my pc and sphincter muscles. Admittedly it’s not a very big accomplishment but it feels pretty big to me. As mindgasm states in lesson 1, I cannot flex them independently yet. How should I go about separating these two muscles? Should I specifically focus on flexing them individually during a session or work on them outside a session while going to the bathroom or something else entirely? Just wondering if anyone had some wisdom to share because mindgasm told me I’d get there but not how to get there lol.

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Bought my first aneros (Aneros MGX trident)

Hello 🙂

I just received my first Aneros toy ever and I can’t wait to test it out..

I have been training my PC muscles quite bit I think so.
I can prevent myself to ejaculate when I masturbate normally and I can stop easily peeing many times as I want. Still trying to find skills to separate those another muscles down there (anal?). Any tips for that?

This MGX model was on sale, I was going for Helix trident but it was out of stock. Now I checked that Helix is in stock again and I could get it for 40€.. Still do unsure should I send MGX back and get Helix… Any opinions?

Thanks all

My first Aneros Session(yesterday)

Yesterday my Aneros helix syn trident finally arrived. I was very excited about how it would feel. I lubed up my asshole an shove the Aneros in. I did some relaxing breathing exercise and felt how my ass contracted involuntery. But only for a few moments then it was gone, this happened about 5-6 times. After half an hour I had to apply some more lube becaus my water-based lube dried.
Now I want to try coconut oil for todays session. For future sessions want to use silicon based lube. Is silicon based lube suitable for the silicon finish of the aneros?

Helix syn over night

Iv been thinking about sleeping with it in to see how the do nothing thing works. Has anyone done this? If so how did it play out? Was it even worth it?

Knock off vs real aneros?

I bought the cheap Adam & eve aneros knock off a while back, it’s enjoyable but seems to be made of pretty rigid plastic. Has anyone tried both? If not is the aneros line made of a more flexible material? I feel like that would be better and hoping for some insight before spending the money one the real deal. Thanks I’m advance!

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Can I Have a Penile Orgasm as a Finish to my First Aneros Session?

Hello everyone, I’ve lurked here for a while but after all the rave I’ve seen over these prostate massagers and the severe lack of physical contact I’ve had with others because of COVID. I kind of went all out though and got two tenga fleshlights in addition to the aneros Helix Trident and some lube. They all came in today, and as you can imagine, I’m very eager to test out the aneros and the tenga, especially since I’ve gone about 4 or so days without jacking off. Additionally, these are my very first sex toys, so I’ve been antsy all day to be able to give them a spin.

I was planning on popping in the aneros for about an hour, or whatever feels right to me, and just relaxing with it in while not doing anything with my penis. To finish off the session though, I really wanted to use my new fleshlight along with the aneros. Will this impede me in rewiring if I finish off my aneros sessions in this way? Is this something that’s okay to do, but only once in a while?

My goal is to eventual be able to reach a Super-O with just the aneros, and so I didn’t want to lengthen this process more than necessary. I understand from what I’ve read here and on the official aneros forum that the best results come when expectations aren’t present, which is why I wanted to use the helix for about an hour or however I can manage to take before I absolutely need to use the tenga. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you!!