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The ultimate and most comprehensive guide to Aneros

After 19 months and a couple of days, I finally made it.

The most crucial step in using the Aneros is identifying the muscles and knowing how to use them. If you don’t know what muscles that you will use, you’re just wasting your time.

The videos below are going to help you find the necessary muscles to use which are:

Anal sphincter
Pelvic floor muscles
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(To easily find your pelvic floor muscles try to stop your pee when you’re urinating)
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https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/aneros-helix-syn-tutorial-31698612

(This video will tell you on what you should do after insertion, he will tell you the downward motion on his pelvis)
( anal sphincter = Kegels)
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(Other important details)

After you differentiate what muscles to use try practicing your kegels for a couple of days to strengthen the muscles because it’s hard to contract it when you’re experiencing pleasure

Goodluck!

Need help progressing :)

Hello guys,

So basically every time I get that pleasure mounting and going further ( I do it with only lightly contracting my sphincer muscles and deep breathing, nothing more) I end up with my ass muscles like spasming and then I get nowhere – really dont know what to do once you get there? Then it will eventually build up again once I ‘rest’ for a moment and start again. But still cannot progres further & get something like orgasm feeling or wet orgasm. Must admit it feel very nice and Im pleased so far but maybe theres something extra you need to do?

The position is lying on the bed but in position like you sit cross-legged (but legs not crossing, your feet need to touch each other) . That really changed my progress and pleasure from aneros, so definitely recommend trying if youre still finding your position.

Hope everything is clear but English is not my native language, feel free to ask 🙂

What am I doing wrong here?

TLDR; Aneros toys only feel good when I wobble them around with my hand. Why don’t my muscle contractions make the same feelings?

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So I’ve been using Aneros toys for over a year now – I’m quite confident that I’m using the correct muscles and stuff to control the toy.

I’m also gay, so anal stuff is not new to me.

Yet a couple of times recently I’ve had sessions that fizzled out very quickly and went nowhere.

But, when I wobbled the toy around physically with my hand, nudging it from side to side, it felt AMAZING. Like getting fucked in just the right spot.

REALLY good.

I can never get the toy to feel so pleasurable with my muscle contractions – only if I physically nudge it around against my prostate.

Same is true with my NJoy Purewand and other similar toys.

Am I doing something wrong? Have I been using the wrong muscles after all?

I feel like this pleasure I get from physically wobbling the toy is the pleasure I’m supposed to get from my muscles, but it’s nowhere near the same 🙁

Help!

Rush happiness release?

Don’t know if everyone who had gotten a super O experienced the same, but with me, every time I get go get a super O, it comes along with a lot of pleasure, happiness, and ecstasy in a way that I hadn’t felt over years. The energy and happiness boost is so strong that you can’t stop laughing, smiling. Have you guys gotten any similar feelings?

It just feels like nothing else in the world matters. All you can care about is to enjoy that huge rush in happiness that lasts for about 5 min

Can the massage be too fast?

I am brand new to the Aneros or anal play. My not very frequent partner has been using it and was very excited to incorporate it into sex the other night.

Later in the night, we used the Aneros in and out, but I started to go faster because he was getting close, and he came. He has seemed a bit weirded out and I worry that I might have gone too far, or too fast.

I’m still waiting to talk to him, but just wondering if anyone here has used the Aneros in a faster massage motion? Or is that a complete misuse ? Thanks

Wannabe first timer advice

Hi folks, I’ve been trying to get into prostate play since I want to explore my sexuality and maybe bring it into the bedroom with my gf.
I’ve already located my prostate and did a bit of finger play which felt good but didn’t bring me to orgasm because I was too weirded out by the feeling of it.

I’ve been looking aneros’ website and was leaning on trying a helix trident.

Would you suggest trying anything else before buying a toy? Also general suggestion for a beginner is welcome

I had my first multiple orgasms!

It’s mind blowing that guys are able to do this too. Incidentally they were also some of my most intense orgasms of all time. I’m incredibly satisfied right now

Favorite helper

What is your favorite thing that helps you reach orgasm with the aneros? For other comment below what it is.

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Prostate play & involuntary shaking= trauma release?

I’ve been having involuntary abdominal contractions related to my sexual energy experimentation, edging and prostate play. I’ve noticed on these forums that the involuntary contractions are not unusual.

Today I had my first Somatic Experiencing trauma release therapy session (method created by Peter Levine “Waking the Tiger”) it’s talk therapy, focused on releasing trauma stored in the body. During the session I had some of the involuntary contractions in my abdomen and calf muscles. The therapist said it was a fight or flight response.

So I have a hypothesis that the involuntary contractions that some guys experience related to prostate play, could be ambient trauma release from the body. Shaking and trembling are how trauma release often happens amongst animals and humans. Since the rectum/1st chakra is such a storehouse of energy, memories and tension, I wonder if awakening it through prostate play could trigger the trauma release process and shaking.

Has anyone ever considered this before? Or is anyone who’s familiar with Peter Levine’s work ever seen an overlap with their prostate play? Seems like this is a rich and perhaps uncharted area for exploration and discovery.

Prostate Edging

So I had a couple of my best sessions recently. One with my helix and the other with my progasm ice. Both sessions came after what I am going to describe as prostate edging for sake of a better term. Maybe coincidence, but in both cases, I had a couple of short sessions 2 days in a row before a normal session which is for me is usually a couple of hours. These short sessions were probably 45 minutes or so and things were going good with some great sensation and waves of pleasure building but just had to call them short because of things came up that wouldn’t allow me to go for the full time I would have liked to. These short sessions though left the prostate buzzing and wanting more. Then comes the full session the next day and wow, awesome session right from the start. I am now considering if I should do more of these short prostate edging sessions as part of my routine because it sure seems getting the prostate buzzing and wanting more is resulting in some phenomenal rides! Anyone else experiencing the same thing?