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I feel nothing

Hey, I’m 24 and I’ve been doing Kegel exercices for something like a month now and I’ve tried a few prostate stimulator for years now (once every fews months) none of them are Aneros because my sexshop does not sell that brand, I hope I can still post here. The few prostate stimulator I have tried have had absolutely zero effect on me, I’ve relaxed my “kegel” muscle (I don’t know the right name) and breathed and focused on the sensations but there were none, or almost none. When I contract the “kegel” muscle and relax it alternatively it feels sort of nice but it doesn’t get better with time, it feels the same after half an hour than it feels after ten minutes and also the muscles are getting tired at that point. I’ve just recently bought poppers and I’ll try it with poppers but I’m getting increasingly disappointed and irritated that it has so little effect. Also there is one toy with the shape of a crab’s claw that I simply cannot put in my ass. It doesn’t get in, I don’t know if it’s because I’m chubby or something or because my ass doesn’t have the right flexibility or shape but it doesn’t fit, a portion of it stays out. But the other toys, the ones that fit I sometimes forget they’re in, that’s how little I feel them, does anyone have advices for a beginner who can’t manage to get anything done? Does anyone knows the next time on the path or something like that? Thank you for reading

So I’m thinking of getting an Aneros.

What’s the best one to get for beginners or first timers?

For the record I’ve been both pegged and fucked in the ass before (by a real cock). Don’t know if that matters, but thought I’d mention it if it did.

Wearing aneros out in public and sleeping with it in

Hi Everyone.

I have used aneros products off and on the last 8 years probably but haven’t in the last 2. Ever since I got married I stopped using it because my wife doesn’t know about how much I like playing with my prostate (she has weird hangups about anal sex in general).

Anyways, I plan on buying one tonight at the local sex store and wearing it after my wife falls asleep. I know that may prevent me from relaxing all the way and letting go, but I want to have something in there at night. Are there any complications from wearing it while you sleep? I know having enough lube is an important thing so it doesn’t dry out. But will I wake up in the middle of the night shaking and groaning from the aneros doing it’s thing?

Also, what is the stance on wearing it out in public? I know it will stay in there, but could it cause any problems and/or embarrassment?

I can’t fucking wait to start using this again!

Flailing Legs

I know it’s not everything, but love the idea of having my legs wildly flail during my aneros sessions.

How do those guys get it to happen?

What to do when your body starts shaking?

I’m actually not sure if this was from me making some new progress with my aneros or if I was just getting cold shivers. Usually the best I would get were some pleasurable feelings in my prostate, maybe around a 2 or a 3 on a scale of 1-10. Today I started getting brief feelings that were around maybe a 5 or 6 that lasted only very briefly, this happened around the same time as my legs and parts of my body started shaking. I literally don’t know if it was from my aneros or because maybe I was cold. Either way I lost the good 5-6 feelings I was having and was back to around 2-3 or lower and the shaking stopped around there as well. After that I couldn’t get back to where I was either and it was like nothing was happening, and this was about 2 hours into the session and I couldn’t keep going much longer. Next time what should I do when the shaking starts if it is indeed being caused by my aneros? Or any tips on how to get there again because that’s never happened to me before and idk if I can get back there, or if it was actually just cold shivers how to get there for the first time?

Pull out or keep it pushed in to the max?

Hi guys,

I’ve had pretty decent success with a little bit of hand assisted motion. Regardless of the toy, I adjust.

My goal is to have the super O or ejaculate release beyond the series of mini-orgasms. I feel like I’m hitting a wall.

My question is this: When the pressure builds to a crescendo, I feel amazing! And the toy gets stuck and no movement is possible.. or at least slightly. But if I take a deep breath … it slips away. What should I do here?

I also play around with pulling the toy out at the top of the mini-orgasm. That gets me flowing and it is a different pleasure – but doesn’t seem to sustain. I thought it might because my wife gets the same pressure build up as she tries to squeeze my dick out. When it finally gets forced out by the power of her vagina, blam, she’s a squirting/cumming machine.

So it would seem to me that maybe pulling out and the sudden release of pressure is a good tactic?

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Sorry! Confused!

Helix Trident too small

I purchased my Helix Trident a month ago and have used it a few times over way weekend. From the get go I found the size underwhelming and between sessions found my fingers could consistently hit my prostate directly compared to it.

I ordered my Progasm and it’s just arrived today and seeing the difference in size seems like night and day of what I’ve wanted to enjoy for prostate massages. Excited to use this tomorrow

Vice 2 Size (discomfort)

Recently (around 6 months ago) bought an Aneros Helix trident and have had great success so far, with each session generally getting closer to a Super-o, with the help of a THC vape – feels like I’m always just about there before the feelings disappear and they start to build again. Constant involuntary shaking, clenching and waves etc I’m happy to stick at it and see where I get.

I decided to purchase a Vice 2 thinking I’d prefer something bigger and to experiment with the vibrations – browsed the range and figured it would do the job! No prior experience with prostate massage but wasn’t scared off by the additional size.

I’ve now probably tried the Vice 2 a couple, maybe three times but once it’s in all the way I find it’s a little uncomfortable, not terrible pain or anything but enough to stop me being able to relax fully – changing positions is noticeably worse. No problems at all inserting it, but once it slides into place it’s like a slightly sharp pain which feels like it’s overshooting or just hitting a tender spot.

Has anyone experienced this? And is this something that your body acclimatises to eventually, or am I just gonna have to take the hit and stick with the helix. Could just be the wrong shape for me.

Question about the PC muscle from an anal veteran but aneros newbie

I recently ordered the helix syn trident as that was recommended for new comers and it arrives tomorrow, apologies in advance for being descriptive. I’ve been reading here and on the website that having control of your sphincter and PC muscles is key for maximum enjoyment. Now it’s pretty clear what the sphincter muscle is, but for the PC I’m not quite sure. Is that the muscle you can flex that causes a bit of tightening further up inside your rectum, similar to what a woman can do to squeeze you when you’re inside of her? Now I’m sure it may not be the same exact thing but is that analogous to the PC in men? I have two very distinct points of muscle control and there and as someone who has a bit of experience down there with dildos and such I was just pondering that I might already be in a good place muscle control wise to enjoy my new aneros.

Thanks to anyone who can chime in