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Question about my experience

Hi. I have a Progasm. Yesterday’s had my third session and I just want to know if someone could give me some insight on my experience.

During my session yesterday I got into a really good flow. About what felt like 30-40 mins in I could feel some light trembles and it felt like I also had jolts of lightning going through my abs. The more I kept going, the more the sensations got stronger. It got to the point where my eyes started rolling back. However, I didn’t cum at all. It was so intense that I still feel some small sensations. I honestly don’t know what to make of it. Any insight would be helpful.

Seeking other senior (65+) married men new to prostate play

My wife and I engaged in a few strapon sessions over the years and I played with butt plugs and dildos alone. I didn’t know special prostate play toys existed or that it was pretty mainstream now until recently. I thought I was strange.

To other seniors, how does your wife accept your prostate play? Do you do it alone or just together?

I would love to chat with another mature married man.

Impulse Control Issues

So I’ve identified a problem I’ve been having. I have a hard time getting aroused during Aneros sessions. So I listen to audio porn. The problem is that I get too excited mentally and more often than not end up stroking myself off during the good parts of the audio.

When I first started with the Aneros this wasn’t a problem but for whatever reason it is now. I just can’t seem to stop myself from doing it. It’s like the lizard part of my brain takes over.

Any tips to work on this?

Constant PC muscles flex is showing some results…

Hi. Until my last session, my prostate play with the Aneros was always being performed in one of this two ways: a) keeping my PC and anal muscles totally relaxed, or b) clenching and releasing intermittently, with a rather fast pace.

Then, user u/shavedyng told me, on this same subreddit, a third approach to prostate play. Flexing my PC muscles just a bit, and holding them for several minutes. Then releasing (breathing) and again, flexing them at 10% and holding it.

A couple of days ago, I did it this way. At least, I tried. First I waited until I was really horny, and then I inserted the Aneros in my butt. To be honest, I wasn’t able to calibrate the contraction at 5 or 10% and I think I was flexing the muscles at 30-40%, but still I tried my best to not clench heavily like I used to do.

Then, I waited… After 20 or 30 minutes, I started to feel good, better than other times, and for just a few seconds I felt, for the first time in my life (after years of prostate play), how my anal muscles started to contract rhythmically by themselves. The involuntary movements. I couldn’t believe it was happening… but I lost my focus and after 3 involuntary contractions, it stopped.

This brought a bit of hope to my journey, honestly. Whenever I read people talking about those involuntary contractions I honestly couldn’t believe it. Now I know it is real, the only question is how long they can last… Read more »

Questions about lubing and my experience

Hi guys, I have used my helix syn for about 10 sessions in total now, ranging over some 3 months.

I am curious about if what I am experiencing is actually the way towards the super-O. I usually start by cleaning myself and then inserting the toy. I generally have no discomfort after insertion. Then I usually lie on my bed, with feet flat on the bed and knees raised or with feet together, spread eagle like on the bed.

After a while I start contractions and holds and sometimes, I get what I think are involuntaries. Here is where my questions start. Sometimes they self amplify and the good feelings start to build up. I suppose this is the way I want to go. But more often than not, the feelings dont start to escalate and just subside quite quickly. I begin to have the suspicion that the toy cant properly move around inside me, even though I use a lot of water based lube. With it however, I have to keep relubing from time to time.

My question is, whether anyone has tried to use organic lubes, like coconut oil, in conjunction with waterbased lube. Also, can someone relate my experience to themselves and tell me if I’m on the right track?

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Helix trident is too long. P tab doesnt make contact

So I have experimented with the helix and have used it for a few sessions but I am having a few issues.

First, its too long for my anatomy. It goes well past the sweet spot. Second its curving is too aggressive imo and isnt very comfortable removing. Third the p and k tab dont make contact. I feel like it too aggressively makes contact past the prostate which hinders its movement and over stimulates akin to death grip.

I would consider the eupho as its dimensions seem better, but its even longer then the helix. If the eupho was only 3 inches long it would be perfect. Like a eupho “jr” would be ideal for me.

Any suggestions?

I just had one of my best sessions – but my aneros wasn’t even in…

So last night I smoked a joint and got super high. To combat the paranoia I laid in bed and meditated. Then I thought of something arousing and felt some involuntaries. Then I started contracting my sphincter and PC muscles. Instead of focusing on the arousing thoughts I focused on the feelings they produced. This turned into a cascade of good feelings that just took my breath away. I played with the balance of my contractions to try and hold in that sweet spot and that produced more good feelings.

I’ve posted here before about my helix being a little but painful/uncomfortable in my sphincter area maybe due to the fact that I tend to contract real hard. But this time since there was no aneros, I felt no pain/discomfort so I was able to concentrate fully on the good feelings instead of being distracted by the bad.

Even now as I sit here drinking my morning coffee I can get some nice sensations from contracting.

Can someone enlighten me as to what’s happening here?

Trying To Put It All Together: Where To From Here?

Months ago I brute-forced my way into my first prostate orgasm by using a vibrator externally along with my Helix Syn inserted, which then turned into my first full session of multiple orgasms. It was amazing. Next day I was even able to have prostate orgasms during PIV. Since then though, I went back to basics in order to try and learn how to get there *without* being so rough. I feel like I’m making progress but I can’t seem to put everything together. I have a bunch of notes that I’ve been keeping and hopefully it will help when pointing me in the right direction.

**Sensations I’m Feeling:**
*Shaking/Shivering*: Happens often, much in the lower body and sometimes in my torso. Sometimes feel like something is going to happen, but it just can’t quite get there.
*Involuntaries*: I’ll get a few seconds of feeling something like a pulse inside. Other times I get a sudden PANG that feels really nice.
*P-wave*: If I relax enough, I can get that pang of pleasure to stick around for a few seconds before it dissipates.
*Certain Contact*: Definitely have times where I feel like the Helix is sitting right where it needs to.
*A-less*: Usually I’ll leave the toy in overnight. When I wake up in the morning I’ll take it out, and typically I can get small yet nice sensations for an hour or two afterwards. Pretty consistent.

All said and done, I just can’t get everything together before I lose concentration/relaxation! Read more »

Waiting for Progasm to arrive

I just ordered a Progasm yesterday. I have been using a smaller one from a large sex toy vendor with little success. Any suggestions on successful use appreciated.

Tips? New Helix Trident

So I have had experience with plugs and super ts, but never non ejaculatory/super o. About a month ago, I was using an off brand plug shaped like an aneros and started to get involuntaries. I used it like an aneros and started to get mild pleasurable sensations. One of the sessions I got a single p wave that felt amazing, buy most of the time I get to the involutaries that go up and down in intensity and that is that. I decided to buy an actual helix trident as it was designed for the such.

I got it today and used it for about 90 minutes. You know when you get it about half way in and it just pulls itself in? That sensation felt amazing and the involuntaries came immediately. I laid around and had some mild pleasure, but nothing crazy. I also think it will take a few sessions to adjust to the different shape as it felt different. It is pretty snug. Slight discomfort taking it out due to the shape.

I will occasionally get an erection a few times during the session which feels nice, but more like a traditional orgasm feeling. I have only once gotten a p wave which was like a pulse of electricity through the spine and that small taste of p wave was more pleasurable then any single sensation ever. Read more »