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Lots of pleasure initially but it fades quickly. Advice?

Been using my helix syn very irregularly for about 6 months. I live with other people and usually like to make a big thing out of it when I do use it so that makes it difficult.

Normally it’ll feel amazing when I first insert it after prepping and lubing everything up. I’ll get hard instantly, produce precum, and have involuntary contractions.

Then like most guides say I try and relax. Still usually feels good at this point. Do this for about 10-15 minutes.

Here is when everything starts to fade. It’s been inside me for around 20-30 minutes and no matter what approach I try (porn + contraction or no porn/do nothing) I lose most feelings of arousal. Sometimes I’ll still produce precum but I can’t say I feel any pleasure. What should I try/do?

Started seeing red marks at the tip of my Helix after use. What am I doing wrong?

Beginner user of a Helix here. I have gotten down to using it twice a week to try to get my body used to the sensation. However, after the last time I used it, I pulled it out to see red at the tip. It didn’t feel much different using it that time, nor did it hurt.

What should I do? Can I keep using it twice a week like I have been? Or should I wait a bit longer before using it again?

Frequent urination

I bought this because I read or thought I read that waking up the prostate could help with an issue of frequent urination. Anyone find that to true?

Prostate orgasms with Aneros Vice

I have an Aneros Vice.

I have been using it a few times a week for the last 2 months.

About a month ago I figured out how to get myself off with it without touching my penis.

Once lubed and ready, I insert the vibrator about half way. Then insert the vice in me. I found if I insert it backwards from the picture that come in the box the toy hits my prostate better. So that’s what I do.
Next I put in my headphones (I do this on a military ship, so there’s that….) and turn on some porn. As I get more aroused I cycle through the settings on the vibrator and find one I like. Then I push on the vice near my tailbone and pull on the vibe sticking out so it hits my prostate better. Doing it this way I have gotten off in a matter of minutes!!!
I have also gotten off completely hands free with the vibe portion all the way in, but that was my first prostate orgasm and it took 4 hours to get there.

I have not had multiple orgasms in a session because I couldn’t invest that amount of time in one session. I can imagine how good it would be. That first prostate orgasm I had was after 3 weeks of not cumming and it was amazing. Totally felt like I was going to pee for a long time, then bam. Massive orgasm. Read more »

Frozen Coconut Oil around Aneros

Perfectly lubes up the toy AND you can even add some extra size to the aneros for insertion. I actually had to shave mine down

Another progress update – does anybody’s heart rate spike immediately when stuff starts to happen?

Went for it again for the first time in a while, had been so busy and had too many people around for a long stretch. But last night I had spare time and spare energy, so I went for it. I’d been thinking up fantasy scenarios all day so mentally I was ready. Showered, prepped, popped in my helix and took the trash out while doing light contractions. Was pretty sure I could feel my prostate then and there, which was noticeably early compared to my previous sessions.

Went back in and laid in bed, started out reading a erotic story I count among my favorites, holding a very light contraction. Almost immediately as I got to the good part, I started feeling a buzz. I had previously had a wave of calm wash over me, that was my last milestone, but this was different. It was localized to my prostate, but eventually grew and began spreading up my torso. I kept calm and tried to focus on both the story and the sensations. As I felt that buzzing spread through my torso and reach my chest, my heart just started thumping like crazy. Like from resting to “I’ve been sprinting for a full minute” heart rate, and I felt the heartbeat in my whole body. My breathing got staggered and I got very excited. It felt so so strange, but undeniably good. Read more »

Some uber noob questions

So I have an Aneros, I believe it is the most basic model. What is the loopy parts that goes towards the tailbone for? Also it seems that when I put it in it gets pointed away from the prostate and I have to hold the leg with the loopy part in place or it curles out a little and stops hitting at all.

Fresh mentality, new milestones.

I’ve been using various models of the Aneros lineup for basically a year now and have made progress, but nothing along the lines of prostate orgasm, let alone super-o. The sessions have become more pleasurable as of late, but many times my own mind will get in the way. Frustration mixed with overthinking have been my own worst enemy until recently.

When I first got involved with prostate stimulation, I read everything I could find regarding the subject: milestones, how to achieve it, how long it takes, what not to do, etc. I had read that you must relax, and I took that to a whole new level. Many times, my anal muscles would ever-so-slowly contract more and more (while adhering to the do-nothing method), but I would try to make that stop by “relaxing”. Little did I know, my body was trying to slowly and incrementally position the device properly against my prostate. Read more »

Distractions

I don’t have my Helix Syn yet, but I would like to now something. Have you guys tried watching TV, Netflix or Youtube, etc. while using your Aneros? I mean, I think I’ll be more relaxed if I kind of forget that I have it plugged in. So I would watch some Netflix and let it do its job. What do you think? Would that work?

After years of anal, we have finally achieved orgasm! (X-post pegging)

Spoiler! Oh well the title is already a spoiler, for people who hate spoilers, I’m sorry, not!

We can have a little fun can’t we?

Throwaway for reasons. My wife(also my mistress) and me have been doing anal play for quite a few years. Sometimes I am the one who initiate, sometimes she is. We are very daring and am always open to new ideas…the idea of prostate milking/orgasm has made me curious and we first started pegging 5 years ago.

Let’s just say anal play has improved our sex life by a lot. I am the quite type who doesn’t make a sound during sex, but when she’s got a finger stuffed up my butt it’s like there’s a switch to open my mouth there. It was fun and a finger turned into a butt plug, then into a dildo, strap on and many various things up my ass…

Thing is, I just can’t have an orgasm from my prostate. Anal just makes my ejaculation stronger, but Pgasms? Nope. We have done all sorts of research together, attending munches and seminars, getting advice from various experts even doctors.

And it’s not that we can’t find that sweet spot or anything. Truth is, my wife is very good. She found my sweet spot first try. Before you get jealous there’s a catch: no matter how hard and fast she hits my sweet spot, the pressure just keep building up, but it never gets released. We even tried a relay match with it, but after 30 minutes of building up we just gave up. Pegging is more of a kink for us than an attempt to milk me. Read more »