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Prostate pain after sessions

I’ve had my helix for a couple of years. All was well for the first year but then I started getting a dull pain in my prostate after using it. Not immediately after but if I sit down for a few hours or take a dump then I get a dull ache that lasts for a day or more.

I now limit the times I use it to once every couple of months and limit the sessions to one hour. Nonetheless I still get the pain. I’m thinking about quitting altogether as I’m worried about long term damage. Anyone else get this? Any possible solutions?

Involuntaries only happy to certain people?

I just spoke with someone at Aneros who said that not all people get the involuntary contractions, which I thought were imperative to achieving a MMO state. Have some of you had a prostate orgasm using the Aneros, but never have had involuntary contractions?

Also, I keep hearing people say you’re supposed to voluntarily contract your sphincter muscles, and others say you’re suppose to contract your PC muscles (to get things going in there). Which is it? Some people refer to the “do nothing” method, which is nice for a little bit, but then things just sort of die down. I’ve been going at this regularly for a year now and am fighting with impatience.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

First time with any type of anal/prostate play

As a straight guy (29/m), I’ve never had any experience with anal play or direct prostate simulation. I find myself “in-tune” with that area when I’m aroused and frequently apply pressure to my perineum subconsciously when I masturbate. However, I typically feel a “pressure” in my prostate area after I ejaculate. It almost leaves me feeling unsatisfied…Like the job was only halfway done. That’s what got me curious about prostate orgasms.

My new Helix arrived today and I couldn’t wait to use it. I thoroughly lubed up with a water-based lubricant and coconut oil to be safe. Laid on my side with one leg raised and inserted the toy.

I must admit, I really did not enjoy my first experience. Not that I disliked it necessarily, but I felt little sensation other than the feeling that I had to take a shit (I didn’t, that’s just the sensation the toy was giving me). I waited maybe 10 minutes but this feeling really didn’t subside. I really wasn’t aroused at any point and figured I would try it again another time.

I should mention I had cum twice already today and so maybe that had something to do with it…

Any insights or tips greatly appreciated!!

Semi-noob questions.

I tried the aneros about a decade ago in my 20s & things didn’t go great, but now that I’m in my 30s, I decided to give anal stimulation another try.

Long story short, I got another & had a successful prostate orgasm [I believe]. I felt a wave wash over my entire body followed by what felt like a 2 minute orgasm followed by ejaculation.

The ejaculation was different than normal. It looked like it was mostly precum [clear mostly]. Was it? Are multiple orgasms possible?

I’m very glad to have given it another shot. Any insights that might makes things more enjoyable?

Anxiety Meds and Aneros?

So I just started taking paxil, and was wondering if this would effect my experience with the aneros? Would it help because it’s helping my be more relaxed, hurt because it’s altering how my brain process some things, or have no effect?

Holy Shit, the world just changed for me! What a ride!

Okay, 50 yo M here. Mostly, I just have to write this experience out. As much for me as to share with others.

Read about prostate orgasms, toys to achieve it, etc. Thought I’d try. My married sex life has become routine. Dull. Love my wife but sex for both of us simply isn’t that much of a priority anymore. For me this was/is as much about experiencing it as enjoying it. I want a frame of reference sort of thing (welcome to my psyche!).

Got an Aneros Helix, finally. Wife was gone for a few days to a wedding so I decided to have some fun with myself.

I will say that I’m not unfamiliar with physical feelings of pleasure, or analyzing what is going on with myself. I’ve done hallucinogens far more times than I can count in my youth, been so incredibly high with pulsing body stones, or mental confusion, etc. I know how to mentally center in the midst of it and evaluate, etc. So, being such a ‘heady’ guy I think I might overthink this thing and miss the mark. I have always been a *very* heterosexual man. I have gay friends but the though of a dick, or man’s ass just does SFA for me sexually. I may as well be thinking of a pair of pliers, or how I should cut the grass for all the sexual arousal gay sex gives me. Zip! Read more »

What model?

Hi, today I ask the age old question… What Aneros model should I purchase?

My back story.

I am not a complete novice when it comes to anal stimulation. I have taken dildos, plugs and other stuff of various sizes. Even my wife’s fist, but that was a while ago. I have milked my prostate manually with good success so I know where it is.

The reason I ask this question is that Aneros is unavailable in my country so I have to order it online. That takes a few weeks so I wanted to try and minimise the risk of ordering something completely wrong for me. Although I do realise that this could always be the case anyway.

Do you have any suggestions for me?

Almost

I was trying the tug of war thing out and managed to reach the edge of orgasm for 10 or 15 seconds. I held my contraction all the way through and the sensation subsided. Sure was cool though. I was in pleasantly surprised.

What should I try next time?

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