Aneros users blogs and guides
I've been using my Nexus Revo 2 quite a lot recently and feel like I'm making progress towards that sought after super-O.
I'm still a little iffy on what exactly I should be doing kegel/ contraction wise, should I just be chilling and feel for the sensations, lightly moving it around feeling for what makes the most pleasure in my prostate, or going for a rigorous kegel exercise.
Please tell me some key points to remember!
Hi there. I've known about Aneros for a while but never really read into their products until recently and I feel it's something I'd like to try out.
My main question is mostly about which model to get, I'm open to getting advice and opinions from everyone who visits here.
While I'm not a 100% newbie to this type of thing, my main concern is my height. I've read that while the Helix is a lot more beginner friendly, it might not work for taller people. I'm quite a bit over 6' tall, so I'm wondering if the Progasm would be a better option, even though it's for more intermediate users.
By all means, if someone can convince me that the Helix (or Syn alternate) will work out for taller people and will hit all the spots it needs to despite my height, then that's probably what I will be going with, but I am open to suggestions.
I don't know how to prove it, but I did indeed make this subreddit a while back. My name was schmeeb if I remember. I deleted my account because I noticed one of my real life friends in another subreddit and started talking to him, and then realized I was the moderator of an aneros forum, and I didn't want anyone of my friends to know about it.
I don't really know why I'm posting this, maybe name recognition, but I thought you all should know? I didn't post this before just cause I never rally cared to say, but now my subreddit has grown to 1,500 people almost….
Anyways I think it's cool. I thought the quote from ten_s_nut was the best, most unifying quote that summarizes the aneros experience in one sentence. I'm not sure how many people actually read that quote, but you guys should read it if you haven't.
Hey all.
I have a Helix massager that I've tried for a long time. When when it's all the way in, I don't really feel any distinct sensation that would indicate prostate contact.
I don't have any precum come out either.
Not sure what I'm doing wrong. Help?
The wiki suggests two types of breathing:
Deep breathing to relax, which I think is consciously breathing into the lower chest
'Valley' breathing, to "stimulate the abdominal and pelvic areas". I've done a bit of research but can't quite understand what this is. Does anyone do it?
I've tried deep breathing during a session but found it a bit of a frustration because the consistent conscious effort took my concentration away from other sensations.
Does anyone else pay attention to breathing? What do you do?
Aneros Syn, came in last week. The first night, just felt uncomfortable. Tried different positions, not much going on. Even tried som gonewildaudio and binaural beats. Nope.
Obviously knew that this was going to take some effort. Gave myself a couple nights off as my wife was home.(night nurse, she knows " I don't want anything to do with your asshole!")
Last night. Round 2. Lube it up, put it in and skipped through that xtube video. More binaural; No Hands Orgasm. Half hour later, nothing. Shut everything off. Keep breathing and lay on my back, feet together, knees apart and supported by pillows on either side. More breathing.
Some time later: feel a little tightening in my lower abs, not sure if I'm doing it or not, kinda like the same muscle group you tighten to push out a load. I don't recall doing this on purpose but I can relax it and let my butt rest deeper in the mattress. This happens for a couple minutes. I concentrate and think about my wife straddling me.
A little bit later, I notice it again. My mindset is that I want to be horny, like when you purposefully fantasize about that hot chick at work, but know you shouldn't. My muscles are contracting again and I can feel life if lifted myself off the bed a bit. It's like having been laying across hot coals while trying to keep your body off of it, but requires no effort on your part. A little stronger than before.
I've recently started using Aneros massagers again after taking a pretty long break (well over a year and a half) and everything feels so different, it's amazing. My body seems to have picked it all back up quickly, which is great.
Today something really wonderful but odd happened. After around an hour or so of gentle pleasure I felt my prostate swell quite considerably and I could feel my body start to rub itself against the massager really gently. I began to feel light headed and really far away from my body, which isn't uncommon for me. I nearly always get a very soft pleasurable sensation on the inside of my left thigh at some point, and sure enough it began feeling really nice on my left thigh just after my prostate swelled. But this time it came on really quickly, and it soon became quite an intense feeling. I relaxed and just let my body do its thing.
After about 30 seconds of this the left side of my body sprang in to life. Both of my legs began to quiver/shake so quickly, like a really intense shiver, and I involuntarily clenched my left fist. My prostate began to send out waves of pleasure, which I could feel mostly on my left. (Like a 90/10 split.) My left arm began to feel really pleasurable, just like my thigh, and then I began to feel a super intense feeling in my left nipple.
I've found that when I'm having my best orgasms, my fingers and toes are clinching. And having my hands free, sometimes I will squeeze a pillow or whatever is available, with the exception of my penis, because that will kill the super Os quicker than anything.
Anyway, I always keep a rag for clean up purposes. I twist the rag into a sort of loose rope and squeeze it.
It makes things better. I don't know why, it just makes things so much easier, longer lasting, and smoother. By smoother, I mean not so much violent spasms, but a gentle continuous wave of pleasure.
And its like I've associated the squeezing of the rag / rope so much with orgasms, that merely doing the squeezing seems to induce the orgasms.
Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky, but I think this is worth trying.
I've been experimenting with prostate massage (very occasionally ) for quite some time, about 10 years now (I'm 30 now). Just recently figured out how to make it feel good. Even had a wet orgasm from manual stimulation with the njoy pure wand, which is when I really started getting the hang of it.
Problem is, if I use the Aneros or Nexus Revo Stealth, I eventually become fatigued just when it starts to get good.
My back and neck muscles often are clenched because I don't know how to relax them while I'm focused on other parts of my body. Is this normal or is there a trick I'm missing?
I eventually will have back and neck spasms, and heart(?) spasms and will start feeling weak. I won't be able to finish. I worry I am even putting too much strain on my heart because my heart will be working overtime for quite awhile up to this point. Normal masturbation does not do this to me, but that's because the orgasms are much shorter and therefore less energy required.
I'm pretty light weight, about 5'7 and 130 lbs. Diet, sleep, and exercise habits not good on a consistent basis. Obviously I should be better about that but I'm trying to understand the problem better, as well as my own body.