First time and had a wet hands-free orgasm – Am I on the right track?

Hey all,

My title really says it all. During my first session I had a hands-free orgasm, which I assume is not a prostate orgasm. Am I on the right track in achieving a prostate orgasm, or do I need to focus on something else. Basically, I would like to know if you have any tips!

Thanks

Tried the MGX, am I missing something? Need advice!

I thought about getting the Syn, but heard that for beginners the MGX was the way to go so I picked one up.

Firstly it's difficult to insert and I think it might be because of the lubrication I'm using. What kind of lubrication is best? I've been using ID Glide Natural Feel and I'm not sure it's for me. It seems to dry out quickly and I have to keep reapplying.

Second, how far should it be inserted? It seems uncomfortable going in and a bit of a pain to pull out (again because of maybe the lubrication). There's the little tab on the opposite side of the handle (for perineum massage?), is that supposed to be pressing against something externally? Am I supposed to angle it differently?

When it's inserted to the best of my knowledge, I flex my sphincter muscles but at most all I've felt is the urge to go. Is the feeling as it's massaging your prostate supposed to feel differently than that or will that feeling increase into something different?

Is the Eupho Syn just too subtle for beginners?

I recently decided to jump into the Aneros train, and was able to find the Helix Syn on Amazon for about $50. However, when I recieved the package, it turned out there was a mix-up by the seller and I recieved a Eupho Syn instead of the Helix Syn I ordered. I had read that the Eupho line was more for advanced users but decided against attempting to replace it, thinking it would be close enough.

After some lube troubles (damn you, glycerin), I've been trying it out over the past week, and while I originally felt the peeing sensation that is said to come when the prostate is stimulated, it has faded away recently and I honestly don't think I feel much stimulating occuring on the inside. I can feel the p-tab and very rarely some pressure within, but neither are necissarily pleasureable and I end up masturbating normally with it in, where I can begin to feel it slightly more intensely, but nothing notably pleasurable.

Am I still in the "rewiring" stage and need to just stick through it or should I look into getting another model? I never expected instant results but I keep reading about how subtle the Eupho is compared to others, and I can't help but feel I might get a little more out of a more beginner-friendly model.

First time use – is it working properly? Caused dry orgasms during sex?

Picked up a knockoff Aneros SGX at a sex shop yesterday (Put them side by side – identical but much cheaper). I am a smaller statured white guy (5'7" 140lbs) so I thought the SGX would be good as it is supposed to be popular with asian males.

So of course I had to give it a try last night. On insertion it created a massive erection and a pretty high burst of arousal – but the arousal faded in seconds, and the erection faded fairly quickly too. I left in in for maybe half an hour, chilling on the bed, but nothing happened. I clenched and unclenched and felt a little something, but the only significant feelings came with pulling it out a little and letting it slip back in.

So far the story is unexciting but then my wife came in to ask how the "butt plug" was working. I told her it was lame so she suggested we try it while we fuck. Of course I was up for this. Once we got started the Aneros seemed to come into play, I could feel some extra feeling perhaps once the prostate started to get aroused. I was ultra hard and had so much lust and drive like I used to have in our pre-baby days, I totally got lost in the sex but after a bit I didn't really notice any sensation coming particularly from the Aneros itself – just a general boost in intensity.

Helix syn – how far??

I just got a helix syn and have tried it twice. My question is about insertion depth. There are two "narrow" areas by the base – one that is somewhat contoured, and one that is really narrow, but very "short." How far should this thing go in? All the way to the very very narrowest point, or just the more contoured narrow spot, which is where it likes to get "sucked" up to naturally? I tried briefly to go for the narrowest point, but it seemed like it wasn't going to happen. Any thoughts? pic for reference:

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May be a dumb question, but what do they mean by contracting

First anero session did not really work out at all. I was thinking I wasn't "contracting" corrrectly. I get kind of squeezing in or like sucking…but it says to do it 8-10 seconds…but there is no way I could do that…it was like 1-2 seconds for me.

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Aneros for older males

Since the orgasms attained with these products do not involve ejaculation, would i be right that the intensity of these anal orgasms won't be affected by age and things like low testosterone?

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A Breakthrough

Laying on a bed doing kegels never did anything for me. But I had a major breakthrough over the weekend and it was incredible. Here's what I did differently:

Don't lube up the aneros. Inject a LOT of lube into your butt, maybe 2-3x as much as you think would be a reasonable amount. Then make sure the outside of your butt / anus is dry. Next, slowly work the aneros in dry. With the extra lube inside it will move very freely, and you'll be able to have much more control over it's movement because it's not slippery when you do kegels.

Next, I just forgot about it, went about my business. After about 30-45 minutes of doing chores around the house I almost couldn't feel it. About 30 minutes after that something different started happening. I started getting an intense tickling feeling from my p-spot, very different than the feeling of just pressing on or rubbing my prostate.

That's when the magic started to happen, this tickling would get stronger and stronger until it was unbearable and dry orgasm after orgasm would happen. Anytime I sucked in my stomach, tightened my abs and worked my PC muscles I would have an intense orgasm. I found that sometimes standing with one foot on top of another cause orgasms almost immediately once I reached this point.

It's been two days since then and everything is more sensitive, even having regular PIV sex without the aneros is WAY better than before.

Excessive shaking?

Just bought an anero and should be trying it out sometime next week. I've seen tons of videos which sold me on it, with guys shaking excessively during an orgasm.

Is that what really happens, and is it really uncontrollable. I feel like I'm either having my doubts this will actually work, or I'll have the exact opposite problem where it works too well. I live in a house at college with my roommates a few doors down, the beds aren't that great of quality and if I just start shaking rapidly I'm sure they're going to think "ARE YOU HAVING A SEIZURE?".

Anal play is nothing new to me, I've been a bottom before and I've used other toys on occasion. However, I would say I am more sensitive I guess than most people.

TLDR Does excessive shaking really happen?

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