May I ask for a clarification between aroused and relaxed?

Hi guys,

Wondering if I can ask a question.. everybody mentions don’t insert your Aneros “cold,” I.e. you should be turned on before inserting it (by watching porn, edging, etc. before hand).

But I’ve also read and heard that you should be totally relaxed once you have it in, but this seems to be in contradiction since (for at least me anyways) being aroused requires a certain level of mental focus (fantasizing, playing with nipples, etc.). So I’m just looking for some clarification as I’m wondering how one does both. Perhaps I’m just looking for other peoples’ input on where they take it. Thanks in advance.

Where to go after getting hands free wet orgasm and positions.

I had a good session the other day that had me dripping precum and ended with my first hands free wet orgasm. I started on a big chair sort of bent over it the opposite way and was spreading my ass to get it in nice and deep and it felt great.

I then switched to my back on the couch and was bouncing on the cushions with my cock hitting my stomach a little bit. This may have been what led to the orgasm.

I really want to learn how to sustain it for longer and I think i’m close. I smoke weed and it helps but any other tips would be greatly appreciated!

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IT JUST HAPPENED!!!!!!!

I cannot believe what has just happened here today! A few days ago, I made a post saying I think I did it. WRONG! I FUCKING JUST DID IT! My god, I could literally feel the precum going through me to get to my penis! The screams I just made! I haven’t screamed like that on a roller coaster! I kept screaming fuck me! I need to thank all of you for the help. I’m still going at it, just took a break to type this, and I can feel it still tingling! I love you guys!

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I don’t believe this is real anymore.

Been at it for weeks. Tried different positions. Porn, no porn. Traditional stimulus, no traditional stimulus. Contracting. Do nothing. Soft contractions. Hard contractions. Rapid ones. Slow ones.

You know what I feel after weeks of this? Like I’ve got sonething in my bum. That’s it. The infamous “p tab” doesn’t do anything. There are no “twitches”. It doesn’t feel like its “going in and out on its own”. There are no orgasms of any kind.

Every now and then for like 3 whole seconds I’ll feel like it’s pushing somewhere and im feeling _something_… aaaand then it’s gone and I’m back to just laying there with something in my butt. Literally anything shoved up my ass would create that much sensation because _it’s in my ass_.

I just don’t believe this is real anymore, I think a lot of you are full of bologna and a lot of others are chasing placebos. I’m typing this message while using my aneros because it’s not like it does anything at all to distract me in any way. I could perform surgery with this thing in my body.

Total waste of time and money.

A broken Anniversary Progasm.

So after a three week hiatus from my Aneros collection I had some alone time and marital consent (finally! – long story but good outcome). Because it’d been three weeks I went for the vape some weed and poppers route (cheating but I just wanted to get off badly).
Anyway’s lubed up my Anniversary progasm went to put coconut oil on it and the P Tab just snapped. I think the oil had gone a bit hard and the pressure was lopsided as I pushed the toy into the jar… so it was back to the older Progasm Ice for me.
Guess buildup is a thing for PGASMS as much as penile because this turned into a two hour wailing moaning convulsing re arrange one’s insides and commune with the universe religious experience.
And here I was wondering if my prostate had forgotten what to do.
Later that afternoon I broke out my NJOY wand (no weed or poppers) and managed to do another 50mins of near non stop orgasm… so yeah.. I think once a body knows how to come this way it doesn’t forget.

I’ve emailed Aneros support as to how to fix the broken PTAB (if at all possible). Have to say the Older Progasm is still a heck of a thing for me… it’s the morning after and I have mini pgasms happening just typing this and thinking about yesterday’s escapades.

“Dissociation”

I haven’t gotten to a super-o yet, but I think I realized something interesting and was wondering if others have experienced the same.

I started using Aneros about 3 years ago. I started with the basic advice: relax and do kegels. I could feel it hitting my prostate, which felt good, but it never escalated into anything.

Then I did some reading, and found what seemed to be two contradictory techniques. One was the “do nothing” technique, which didn’t work for me, and is honestly a pretty frustrating set of instructions unless you are one of the lucky people for whom it actually works. The other was the technique that focuses on the two-different-muscle-group kegel contractions. After some practice I was able to get muscle spasms going pretty reliably, but I ran into a dilemma. Maintaining the spasms required concentration and slowly made my whole body tense up. This did not sound like the effortless, out-of-control experience it was supposed to be.

Then I tried combining the strategies: getting the spasms started, then mentally backing off and “letting the aneros do its thing.” When I did this, the spasms would keep going on their own, for a bit, but they always slowed down and came to a stop when left to their own devices.

Will this position hinder my progress?

So I’ve had the most success by far using the do nothing method while laying face down on my belly. Usually laying in this position with the toy inside me will put a slight pressure on my dick, making it get hard (I make sure to point it down between my legs). This pressure kickstarts slight pleasurable sensations on my penis, which in turn trigger pleasure waves and multiple dry o’s radiating from my prostate.

I’ll admit the sensations in my prostate are definitely mixed with some penile pleasure (let’s call it 80/20 or 70/30), but these orgasms have never resulted in ejaculation, they’ve always been dry. Since I know some people swear by the rule of not stimulating your dick in any way during the rewiring process, I’m wondering if I should maybe focus on other positions or whether I can expect to make good progress in my journey to super O’s despite the penile sensations.

Will porn break help?

I’m considering taking porn break for week, I mean no fap and no watching porn during that week. Will it help? Were u at the same boat?

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A new experience

Yesterday I was on my way home in the car for a few hours of alone time. It was excited about having a session, but wasn’t really thinking about it as I drove down the road. Then suddenly I experienced two aless orgasms, one after the other, with absolutely no warning. Each one forced a loud groan of pleasure, and left my prostate buzzing. I thought that it signified an awesome session was coming my way, and sure enough, the session proved to be amazing. I’ve been using my MGX in the seated position lately, with great results. I sit on a padded chair, and by rocking back and forth I am able to move the MGX across my prostate, shifting the pressure of both the main body and the two tabs. I had several very powerful prostate orgasms, and an amazing enhanced penile wet orgasm to finish. I am almost anorgasmic at 72, and it is very difficult to cum with traditional masturbation or PIV sex, so this session was especially rewarding. I can’t wait for the next aless precursor orgasms!

The fastest way to a Super O (it’s simple, I promise)

Hi there, so first of all, this is not one of those posts which tells you of a certain technique. My advice is general. I believe it is more effective and would work for majority of struggling users here. It is a simple one, but not easy.

Let me preface by describing my journey. I’ve been using aneros for 2 years and few month now. But only very recently I managed to git my first super O’s. And they have been worthy. Only very recently I’ve realized what has been hindering me.

So first of all, let’s think about what an aneros session is? The way I see it, it is an intimate session with yourself, with your mind. The toy is just a tool to bring awareness. The more awareness you have, the better.

What has been the biggest distractor for me and my progress? It’s porn. Watching porn (or even listening to it) during the session completely destroys any awareness or concentration, so it will never be able to help (unless you are already super rewired, maybe).

But the problem is porn itself. Even if you watch it before the session to get aroused, it takes your brain into an overdrive, which stays during the session. That means your own brain will probably be unable to create “free flow” of fantasies and mental images that actually lead to the super O. At least for me, when the brain starts streaming images of arousing things, my body and my mind seem to align in the same frequency, which starts the super O’s. I also think that porn makes you over-aroused which basically means you block yourself from non-penile orgasms. It’s like peeing with a boner. Very difficult. If you want to feel the flow, you need to be in a natural state.