Explaining Aless to Partner?

So, I recently let my wife in on my ability to have multiple, non-ejaculatory orgasms by meditating, muscle flexing, etc. We here call them Aless or w/o toy.

She would most likely not be comfortable or open to talking about the toy just yet and honestly I have better success w/o. I think for me the toy just helped me become aware/re-wire. I CANNOT find any research or articles online to describe the Aless process of prostate O’s.

My wife is in the medical field and a “lifetime learner” so a coherent article that describes the process/science behind it would be great!

There seems to be 2 types of articles/literature…using a prostate toy OR kegel exercises/NEO’S (non-ejaculatory orgasms) through penis stimulation (edging).

My Aless process involves no toy, no fingers, and no penile stimulation and has led to insane pleasure that I would love to be able to explain to my significant other.

Any help or links that aren’t all about prostate milking/toys would be greatly appreciated.

Progasm 20th anniversary

I want to buy a progasm. The newer, 20th anniversary edition is out but it isn’t available anywhere other than the aneros website, which I can’t order from (also Amazon isn’t really available here, but I couldn’t find it there anyway).
I’d like to know if it’s worth waiting for it to be available elsewhere, or just buying the older version. How much different is the new progasm to the old one? Is it a lot better/worse?

First time experience – HF wet orgasm

Hi all, new to this thread. I recently bought the Aneros Helix Trident model, which is my first Aneros product. Whilst I’m not a novice with anal sex toys, I’m hardly a pro, but given the smaller size I wasn’t particularly worried. I did a lot of research about how best to use the aneros, tips for beginners etc, so I knew the importance of feeling the moment and not to expect too much at first. I set aside a good couple of hours for my first go, and after getting myself relaxed and aroused, I popped it in. At first it felt a little uncomfortable, but this sensation quickly subsided as my muscles adjusted and it fit very nicely. I started touching my body and focusing of my breathing for a while, before I started gentlly flexing my muscles and feeling the sensations this led to. At first, I wasn’t really getting much, apart from some involuntary anal twitching, and the contact against my prostate was a very strange feeling to me, but as I kept tensing, I started occasionally to get some mild pleasurable sensations, and some mild spasms. My error at this point was to keep trying to get these sensations and not focussing on what I was feeling and I spent about half an hour not really achieving anything. At this point I was starting to lose interest, and my mind was wandering and I barely felt aroused at all. I decided that I would put on some porn to help, I watched my favourite video – and this made a huge difference. Even without flexing my muscles I was feeling pleasurable sensations, which I didn’t realise at first because I was focusing on the porn. Slowly I started flexing, which felt really good, and I really tried to focus on the porn which was helping. I was doing this for about 20 mins, and this pleasurable feeling was really building up, and it felt like I was getting close to a regular orgasm, I could feel it building up. My technique at this point was lying on back, with my knees bent and feet on the bed, and as I tensed I put my legs together and squeezed and pulled my bum off the bed, which stimulated my penis slightly as I was pulling my balls back with my legs which stretched the skin of my whole penis – which felt very pleasurable. I should say that whilst this was happening, I had a very clear goal, which was to reach this peak that I was feeling, I wasn’t doing as advised and taking the pleasure as it was coming, but I could feel it building up and I was really enjoying it. Eventually, I got to a peak, and my stomach starting convulsing and I started spasming as I felt an orgasm come, which turned out to be wet, and I came over my stomach. This was all without touching my penis with my hands. The orgasm was very good, but nothing mind-blowing, and to be honest, whilst I enjoyed the experience, it was a lot of work, and I’d rather just jerk off normally. My question is, is there anything I could/should do differently to maximise this experience more? Is there a method or such to be able to not have a wet orgasm, Whilst I experienced lethargy after ejaculation, I did notice that it wasn’t as much as normal, and I was horny again in perhaps 2 minutes after, which is much faster than normal. Any tips/advice would be really appreciated!

Is the Aneros progasm worth it?

I’m considering buying a real aneros instead of using my knockoff toy, would it make a big difference?

And if I were to buy an Aneros, which model would be most likely to help me achieve super O?

If it helps

A cock ring really zero’ed it in for me. You’re basically deconstructing an orgasm, so having something that really keeps your attention riveted on that area super helps you to feel what you feel and to meditate on what you feel.

Remember! Just enjoy the sensations.

Can you post a picture of 20 year anniversary version?

I’m just curious what does it looks like.

It’s said there is a new version don’t have K-tab.

But I don’t see people mention that their new progasm don’t have k-tab!!

So there is a new version that their website don’t mention!!! (It’s said from email from aneros)

Got Helix Trident – Want Something More

Hi all,

I started my journey with the helix trident to some mixed success. I went on to try some other toys (Hugo) which to me feel better than the helix. If I start a session aroused enough, I can feel warmth and flutters right away when I put my Hugo in, but this doesn’t happen with my Helix.

I’m wondering if there is a bigger/fuller or just different aneros model that I should look into. I just don’t think the Helix is hitting me right.

Coach needed. Maybe. #helixtrident

Hey guys. I just ordered the helix trident (not syn). I’ve read so many things on Reddit any beyond about the aneros. And I feel like, I need someone, who has experience. Someone coaching me. Someone, I can talk about my experiences and who guides me – you know what I mean?

Do you think, a coach is helpful? Unnecessary? Good or bad?

And – even more important:
Is here anyone who would like to be my coach?
Thank you guys 🙂

I find that there are at least 2 way to contract muscle

And they seems not the same muscle.

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One is the PC muscle which same as when you are finish pee. You contract it 2-3 times to squirt out your last urine. It’s also same **pull up your dick** when it’s hard.

**This way it’s like a “↑”,** because when you doing this your dick jumps

Another one is like “–> <–” And it won’t makes your dick jump.It’s like to concentrate on 2-3 cm away from the root of balls, towards to anus but not penis.

(It’s like when you finish the pee. You don’t pee out hard which is reverse kegel. But to squeeze muscle from two sides gently. It can still squirt out some urine. )

When doing this your dick might jump up very little. Or you can even do those two movement together or one after another.

About the second way. It’s not fixed. But very dynamic. You can move the concentrate point more away. And even just on the anus.

Try to squeeze the anus and you should feels warm inside.(If you doing it for 5min or more)

I find that second way might push the massager toward the belly but it still pull back the massage which makes it work like traditional way.But I good point is it won’t make you tired.

It’s not same as reverse kegel which is the act of pee. (pee act move pc muscle but my way is to move other set of muscle)

Do you want to join some experiment?

I have some other band massager. And going th get a aneros.

Well I find that there is some way to massage.

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I need groups of people using different skill. (I’ll told you what to do or you just select it freely then after some time just report it back.
If it get archived. You PM me and I open another post to record our progress.)

It’s basically the research of pressure.

I find when you have different **angle of body/thigh** then you get different pressure.

Because it will affect the tension of internal muscle. (Those muscle is around the prostate)

[https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png](https://i.imgur.com/WM5Q67h.png)

From those 3 position You can massage it very gentle(almost don’t move) / gentle to moderate / hard
Hard = use all your force but no need to over done. And it usually won’t last long because you will tired.

The position is also work for do nothing way. Because when you do nothing.
There still exist at least 3 very different pressure that mentioned above.

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It also work when you lie on your side.