Rotating Prostate Massagers?

I have been using aneros (various models) for 8 years.

I never had super O but had some dry os although they’re super rare for me. I suspect my low sex drive is the reason why most of the time nothing happens to me (I use the do nothing method almost every time).

I have hfwos occasionally when things get intense (paradoxically intense many times doesn’t necessarily mean pleasurable). I have premature ejaculation and I think even with the penis not being touched it may have an impact here.

I also have the njoy pure wand and I don’t get much from it, I feel the contact with the prostate but it’s not very pleasurable. I had a lot more success with aneros (I don’t know why).

So I’ve been thinking that maybe a more proactive (but relaxing) toy could help, something like those rotating head’s prostate massagers. I don’t think they will be successful than the aneros but I think I’ll try.

My question is if any of you uses / used this rotating toys what kind of orgasms do you get from it? (Dry or Wet)

And if you tried different models what is your favourite?

I am looking to get dry os more frequently but if it is mainly to get wet orgasms then it doesn’t interest me much (despite the pleasure of wet prostate stimulation orgasms).

Some burning questions (first time user)

Hey guys.

I’ve just got my hands on the MGX Trident (To the best of my knowledge, this is the most beginner friendly model), and I have followed the guides to getting started.

I have reached in with my fingers before, and I know how the prostate is supposed to feel when caressed;

But even after using a generous amount of lube, I slid the Trident in and upon clenching and releasing my pc muscles, I don’t think I feel any tingles?

Another problem I faced is that despite the trident sliding in fine (it slides till the base is at the entrance of my anal cavity, so the position seems right), I’m having a bit of discomfort.

The 2 discomforts:

1. The perineum tab is pressing quite hard on my perineum, to the point I had to stick a cloth plaster to ensure there aren’t any abrasions. Also, the K tab is not in contact with skin (Is this normal?)

2. I was trying to get used to having it up my bum (I’ve never done butt stuff before), despite using lots of lube, my anus feels very sore.

I would either assume that I’m just very tight because I’ve not done it before, or I have the trident in the wrong position(I thought this might be it because my prostate was not really feeling anything & the pain was turning me off) Read more »

Everyone’s Body Is Different

That’s all I came to say.

I’ve spent a few months in this sub and have noticed quite a bit of toxic “THIS IS THE WAY TO DO IT NOT THAT WAY YOU IDIOT” energy so I came to just add some energy in the other direction.

Everyone experiences feelings and sensations differently. What might be someone’s “P-wave” might be your “Super-O” and you can call it whatever the fuck you want.

I just am a human who likes sex and enjoys seeing others enjoy sex and their bodies in ways that sometimes weren’t prescribed to us which can be very difficult and feel vulnerable for some. Don’t let what might already be a sensitive area or activity for you be ruined by a bunch of anecdotes from people who like to think of themselves as the Lewis and Clarks of butt play.

You are exploring your butt like many men have done before you for generations. It’s normal. We just don’t talk about it a lot. I would just say breathe, relax, and explore. Find what feels good for you.

Pulsing Kagel muscles vs holding

Hey I have heard people mentioning using their kagel muscles when using an aneros. I was wondering if this is more of a pulsing(using muscle then letting go then flexing it again ) or holding the muscle for as long as possible. Also if you do an alternation of both let me know, if you start with one or when you switch. If you are holding it, how long typically are you holding. Thanks for the tips !

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Oh, wow. Something new.

Hey,

I’ve had the aneros for years, but have gone months in between without using it. Never got a super O or anything that didn’t require manual intervention to feel good. Anyway. I also have had bad hemorrhoids and while the helix did help me feel better after, it was definitely not a pleasure to use.

Cue the peridise. Smaller and shorter than most of the other massagers, I wasn’t expecting anything. I just knew I was able to sleep with them in safely. (The helix has this “hook” near the top which always hurts upon insertion/removal).

I’ve slept with the peridise in multiple times, and my hole is in MUCH better condition than it has been. And for the first time last night, while sleeping with it in, I woke myself up with the most intense ass-clenching of my life. Like, you’d think I was possessed or being stabbed in the butt. It happened about 3 times, but it was from a dead sleep to a 100% “thrust” – I can’t quite explain it. I didn’t cum at all, but I don’t even know if it was an orgasm. But it was definitely the most intense feeling in my butt as I’ve ever felt, and by far the furthest I’ve gotten with an aneros.

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So, my testimonial is, if you have hemorrhoids, get the peridise. It’s small enough to leave in all day, go to sleep with, etc. It’ll help you heal, and might also hopefully end up with me ejaculating everywhere in my sleep.

Toys, Anal, Prostate, Condom

Condom Suggestion please?

Love anal and prostate play. However sometimes the lingering smell on my toys can be annoying. Toys like Squarepeg, Aernos, Lovesense and Oxballs.

Right now I have only been using water based lubes and Wicked Simply Hybrid Jelle. Looking to possibly explore with coconut oil and / or pure silicone lubes.

Is there a condom out there that is silicone toy friendly and NON lubricated that can handle a silicone lube while protecting the toy?

Any other suggestions are welcomed as well.

Is Vaseline safe to use with the helix syn?

I read online that the main thing to look out for when using the helix syn is silicon based lubes, as they will damage it or something. I’ve never used Vaseline before, especially with the helix syn, is it safe to use with it (like it won’t damage it or anything) and also is it just safe in general to use, because I don’t know how long it might last.

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Perenium discovery

I’m very much used to having orgasms with or without aneros or any other toy. However i recently discovered that the perenium tab can be quite interesting, as it produced profound pleasure. It was the first time that I’ve had a reaction from the tab touching me at said place which in return resulted in a big pleasure boost.

If i remember correctly- many report that the p tab can be very uncomfortable (i removed it from one of my aneros toys). How do you guys experience perenium massaging from the device (or someone else)? Love to hear some of your insights.

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Stop chasing the “Super-O”

I see so many beginners here asking about how to induce “the involuntaries” and their (lack of) progress towards the super-o. Stop wasting your (and our) time! You basically cannot have a “super-o” if you don’t know how to have “normal-o”s. I’m talking about (dry) prostate orgasms.

Let me slap you in the face and give you the real talk, this is what you need to know:

1. Prostate gland is a sexual organ, like the penis
2. Unlike the penis, prostate gland isn’t used (directly) for sexual reproduction and therefore it doesn’t have the limitations a traditional penis-based stimulation has (cum, refractory period)
3. However, the prostate is relatively hidden and hard to access, thus it has remained a secret and a mystery for thousands of years. But it is *literally* the “back door to pleasure”
4. We now have technology like the Aneros product line that makes it easy and painless to access
5. If you haven’t ever used your prostate directly, your prostate is metaphorically speaking dormant, asleep. To “awaken” your prostate, you have to use it. I don’t know if you’ve had the same experience, but for me when I started to use my penis, it didn’t feel particularly good at first. It took me an hour or more of masturbation to reach my first orgasm. It was even painful, since I didn’t know how to do it. But over the next days and weeks, I practised diligently and learned what felt good, eventually gaining the ability to reach orgasm in a matter of minutes.
6. Therefore, with all sexual organs, there seems to be like a “break in” period, or a period where the sensations and sexual pleasure just isn’t there. This is the “rewiring” process people talk about, but it’s not what you think. To “rewire”, simply use and pleasure your prostate with any means necessary. Use your fingers, a dildo, move the Aneros in your butt using your hand and anal musculature, whatever allows you to touch your prostate in an aroused state. Read more »