I had bought a toy from them on amazon but now they’re “Currently unavailable”. Why ? And can I expect them to go back in stock anytime soon? shipping to Canada is 35$ which is pretty steep :/
Inserting Progasm backwards?
Someone posted a comment on another thread about getting better effect from their Progasm from inserting it with the curved side to the front rather than the back.
Have others tried this with good result?
A question about sensitivity and abstinence
Hi, I’ve been following this subreddit and using my aneros. I had a quick question about the process for all the experienced guys here.
Here’s my progress:
I use the aneros syn, I recently took the advice to stop masturbating and porn and I’ve seen a rise in general pleasure in my aneros sessions.
So my question is, relating to saving cum to increase sensitivity.
a) Does the body only need to save cum (as in dont ejaculate) before an aneros session to build sensitivity over time?
OR
b) Does the body need to save cum, AND abstain from nightly aneros sessions to build sensitivity?
I ask because I’ve stopped touching my dick at all, I dont cum, but I have an aneros session every day or every other day now and I’m wondering if I’m shooting myself in the foot here or if it’s okay to do regular aneros sessions to build practice and sensations AS I build up cum storage (i.e. more sensitivity).
Do regular (daily or almost every other day) sessions dull the sensations? Or does the practice help the journey to create more sensitivity?
Helix Syn Trident vs Helix Trident
Should I go for Helix Syn Trident (the black one with two dots), Helix Trident (the white one), or a different model? Also I noticed the price difference on the official website, but in my local sex shop, the more expensive Syn Trident is cheaper. It would be my first “real” prostate toy, the previous one is a weakly vibrating plug, which does not do much for me, and I’m not sure I want to spend my time learning to use it, I’d rather use something good from the start. Also, I was thinking about njoy pure wand, or multiple vibrating massagers, but currently I would like something normal sized, and not over complicated, like the Aneros brand.
Thanks for you help!
Does Aneros make a Butt Plug?
I have my first one, the Helix, and love it. I was wondering if there are any out there that can be worn for several hours under clothes. The curved up end and the little handle makes it a little uncomfortable to wear as a butt plug. I see most of them, if not all of them have the handles. I have tried a normal butt plug but the shape just doesn’t do the trick.
Aneros won’t stay in
I bought this: https://gyazo.com/857bb33b01396cf57c0a2989476302aa
and it simply won’t stay in. After a few seconds of hands-free use, it slides all the way out until only the tip of it remains. Then depending on what I do in terms of relaxing/contracting, it slides all the way out. If it doesn’t slide out, it just sits at the tip and kinda falls down to the right against my thigh.
any advice? I also can’t find my prostate for the life of me.
Best session ever! Found the “sweet spot”
Have had the helix for 2 months, probably 15-20 sessions in. Today I had an hour session that was amazing. At the peak of my session, I was able to have a 2 minute long p wave that had me moaning.
I was able to prolong this feeling by finding the sweet spot. Whenever you find the right balance of PC/sphincter contraction and start getting involuntaries, try to “hold it in place”. I found this sensitive spot and held it there and the buzzing/involutaries just got stronger and more intense. It felt like something was vibrating inside me and my whole body is shaking. Then while I held it in place with my sphincter, I started very lightly contracting my PC muscle in a waving motion. Every time I would release the sphincter muscle, the muscles would slow down the buzzing but a huge flash of warmth and electricity goes through my lower body. I then lightly squeeze the PC muscle again and the buzzing and involuntaries start up again. I probably went from flaccid to rock hard 5 times. I could feel an orgasm coming on, but not an ejaculation.
The feeling of contractions of an orgasm sensation, but all mainly centered in the prostate, PC, sphincter. Still felt in my penis, but not like a traditional orgasm.
Almost there!
Real headway: hold it steady
Hey all, first time commenting, but I’ve been lurking for a while. I hit a new level this evening.
My wife was talking with a relative on the phone so I figured I’d have a good hour or so I disturbed, so I put in my helix syn trident. I’ve been trying various things, but tonight I think I finally figured out the key. While in the past I focused a great deal on intentional contractions, tonight 90% of my focus was just upon maintaining the position of the device. Once I felt the tingles begin in my prostate and I could tell I was hitting the spot, I focused entirely on keeping it there. If it shifted, I immediately shifted to put it back (and I think it’s beginning to become muscle memory).
While holding in place, I tried to very lightly contract my outer sphincter—like the lightest I could. Again, keeping the device in position was my focus. But then everything involuntary started happening: many small contractions, legs shaking, harder contractions, tingling everywhere, eyes rolling back in my head and twitching, feeling my pulse throughout my body which also seemed to help the sensations, and, I just tried to hold it there and ride the waves.
Eventually I became aware that my dick was leaking, got the need to pee sensation, and it kept going. Eventually I had to let it go simply to get a moment of rest.
Is it possible my prostate is too far away to feel anything?
Hey. I’m 6′ tall and I have the Helix Classic. All white plastic one. I’ve had this thing for years, but I often go months without using it. I mostly use it when I need help going to the bathroom. Anyway, I bought it for sexual purposes and I just can’t get it going. I know the advice always says to relax, but when I sit with my knees bent, I can’t feel anything. I can manually “suck” it in and make it feel contact with my prostate, but then I’m just 100% flexing and that gets tiring very fast.
That being said, when I have tried things with manual effort I did think ONCE I got very close to orgasm but then I lost it because it was an active mental process. I think I woke myself out of the trance thinking about cumming. Anyway, I know I CAN feel SOMETHING, I just can’t feel much when it’s in. I do feel more when its in and I’m standing though, but then I’m standing.
It’s supposed to rub against me on it’s own isnt’ it? My butt doesn’t “automatically move it around and pull it in” as I’ve seen comments say. I have also had versions of somewhat sitting on it so it presses against me, but that just feels like extra pressure as well. I would like an anal orgasm first and foremost, whether it be from a prostate massager or other anal toy. The issue is my hole is very small. So I’m sure there are longer ones that are ALSO wider, but are there any toys that are small but longer? I’m open to buying another. I just have not managed to get it to work.
Not sure if I’m stimulating prostate
I’ve been using the aneros for a few years on and off. I’ve committed to being a bit more consistent with it now that I have more free time. I’ve done two hour long sessions and have been using the breathing techniques and I don’t really feel like I’m hitting my prostate. I kind of feel like I’m just hitting my rectum wall. What I’ve been imagining is that the helix is like a hammer, when I contract it is brought up and when i relax it comes down onto the prostate.
I’m guessing the solution is just to keep at it but I’m not really sure if I’m doing it right. One thing I noticed is that the p tab isn’t even touching the perineum and the back tab is actually pressed into my tail bone.
Any suggestions on positions/ techniques/ feeling I should be looking for to hit the prostate?
Sorry for stream of consciousness